I need my freeper friends. I haven't been posting a lot because I have been caring for my very ill soulmate of 31 years. Jerry had emphysema, congestive heart failure and COPD and had been going downhill for the past couple of years. He was the love of my life. We were married in 1972 - I was 17 years younger than him. He taught me so much...he was a husband, father of our wonderful son, best friend, tutor, and soulmate. He was the most thoughtful man I have ever known. On my birthday, he would tell me what kind...