Selfish? Totally. I have one boy. He’s the most special of all special boys and handsome as can be. But he’s autistic. .... All the incidentals and help my friends have, I do not. All the typical milestones my friends get to enjoy and show off, I do not. Before I met my husband, I dreamt of a life similar to that of Carrie Bradshaw on Sex and the City. I know — it’s nauseating for me, too — but that’s the time I grew up in. I wanted to be a writer, living in NYC, in a fabulous apartment,...