CAMP BLUE DIAMOND, Iraq (Sept. 16, 2004) -- She had just got home from a long day at work and was sifting through the mail when the phone rang. Elizabeth Avellino picked up the phone when she saw the words 'US Government' displayed on the caller ID. She had never seen those words displayed before, and like many families who have gotten a similar call, never wants to see them again. "When I answered the phone, Lt. Col. Mike Melillo identified himself and said he was from Camp Pendleton," said Elizabeth, 54, and the mother of two. "He told me...