I hope you take the time to read all of post #77. I did not think this site allowed personal attacks. Saying that I am not a “decent human being” when you do not know the circumstances is not fair debate. My husband and I happen to be the founders of the largest food pantry in our metropolitan area. www.missionfan.com. We have lots of support in our city and no one who knows us personally would ever make such an accusation. People here, including the social workers who visited our home, sided with us-not the judge.
Joel was statistically in more danger being denied breastmilk, having a blood draw, and being placed in foster care for 6 days than by the extremely remote possibility of having a genetic disease. Remember, he was already 6 weeks old when half of the diseases could be eliminated and had 9 healthy older siblings. There is absolutely no basis for saying that this was done for his benefit. All evidence show s that Joel was in fact traumatized by the whole process.