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Half of US Christians say premarital sex is sometimes, always OK in dating relationship
Christian Post ^ | 09/05/2020 | Anugrah Kumar

Posted on 09/05/2020 5:13:28 PM PDT by SeekAndFind

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To: SeekAndFind

Feminism is the biggest reason and its acceptance has led to men and women accepting and promoting the relationship between men and women in a completely non-biblical manner ...

God wants our obedience to his instructions ...


41 posted on 09/05/2020 6:39:08 PM PDT by Lonely Are The Brave (A man's got to know his limitations. Dirty Harry Callahan)
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To: SeekAndFind

This is a fine line.

I’ve been with two men in my life. My first boyfriend was an atheist and my husband, the father of our children, is nominally a Catholic.

I am a believer but I did have sex with them.

I honestly didn’t think it was bad or that I was violating my very strong faith.

I hope that I don’t get flamed.

I suppose that if you are older, like in your ‘20s, it’s okay. I was a virgin until I was 21 at least.


42 posted on 09/05/2020 6:39:26 PM PDT by proud American in Canada (In these trying times, "Give Me Liberty or Give me Death!")
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To: Ebony

The good old days huh? :-) I wouldn’t touch a girl until the second beer, er, date, er, week ...


43 posted on 09/05/2020 6:40:49 PM PDT by dp0622 (I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO?? ABOUT THE COVID GODFATHER I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. YOU CAN ACT LIKE A MAN!)
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To: SeekAndFind

those would be the “christians” who have never read a Bible


44 posted on 09/05/2020 6:41:40 PM PDT by Mom MD
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To: HighSierra5

Not according to Gods law


45 posted on 09/05/2020 6:42:37 PM PDT by Mom MD
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To: Drew68

Yes, and I also think that’s why God made women more fertile when they are young. Older teenagers have much more energy to take care of a baby than older women.

The challenges you face with a newborn are physical, while the challenges you face with older children, teenagers, are more psychological.

Young women have the energy for the physical, but not the wisdom; older women have the experience and maturity to guide their children through the problems they face.

If the teenager wants to listen, that is...


46 posted on 09/05/2020 6:46:53 PM PDT by proud American in Canada (In these trying times, "Give Me Liberty or Give me Death!")
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To: JoeRender

Amen to that simple wisdom.


47 posted on 09/05/2020 6:48:14 PM PDT by bramps (It's the Islam, stupid!)
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To: dixie1202

>>Once homosexuality became accepted, our sexual attitudes were going in that direction as well.<<

The end of Western Civilization began when shame was banished.


48 posted on 09/05/2020 6:48:35 PM PDT by freedumb2003 ("Do not mistake activity for achievement." - John Wooden)
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To: JoanSmith

This is the best thread on the board. It doesn’t have the torture devices out. It doesn’t have eternal flames. That is either believed or not believed, the punishment.

I left my obligatory silly comment

It’s easier than admitting that it doesn injure the soul.

When you stop seeing someone you had sex with that is the most painful part of being separate. you did something you were supposed to wait to share until you knew you would be together forever.

Now it’s like a part of you is ripped out.

And if that’s not an injured soul I don’t know what it is.

And if that isn’t suffering I don’t know what is.

And Gof looks and says to you “I told you so. This is why you don’t do it until you are married. Why don’t you ever listen to me? Now ask forgiveness, mean it and move on. I know you are suffering. Let it go”

I know that doesn’t fit the horrifying eternal suffering that too many here wish for because they got married at 16 and it really wasn’t a concern but it is what really happens. They can trust me on that.

Some hells can be lived here on Earth. That’s a result of our decisions and not listening to God.

None of us should guess what God has in store for us after this. None of us should judge where the other is going. I leave that to God he’s much better at it


49 posted on 09/05/2020 6:49:13 PM PDT by dp0622 (I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO?? ABOUT THE COVID GODFATHER I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. YOU CAN ACT LIKE A MAN!)
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To: SeekAndFind

Something to consider: the whole becoming one flesh thing seems to be basically getting married in the Lord’s eyes. Ceremonies came later.

Think about Isaac meeting Rebecca ... no ceremony at all. Married.

Did you realize that you were essentially getting married that first time you fooled around as a kid and so it might not be considered sex outside of marriage?

Or that you were an adulterer overtime after that with someone else?


50 posted on 09/05/2020 6:57:50 PM PDT by Rurudyne (Standup Philosopher)
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To: Rurudyne

everytime ... not overtime ... dumb autocorrect.


51 posted on 09/05/2020 7:00:40 PM PDT by Rurudyne (Standup Philosopher)
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To: HighSierra5
I hate to say this but you have to test drive before you buy.

No you don't. Married 23 years. I am very glad I waited, and so is she.
52 posted on 09/05/2020 7:11:03 PM PDT by Dr. Sivana (There is no salvation in politics)
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To: olivia3boys

Stay strong.


53 posted on 09/05/2020 7:13:41 PM PDT by Phillyred
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To: Verginius Rufus

NOW was specifically founded by Kate millet to smash the patriarchy, destroy the family unit and usher in Marxism. She advocated for prostitution pornography and promiscuity as a means of destroying the family. She would later even advocate for inter-generational sex between adult women and minor girls.She was certifiably crazy and radical Dyke. This comes from her own family who were there to witness it and see her get institutionalized.


54 posted on 09/05/2020 7:15:39 PM PDT by a fool in paradise (Joe Biden- "First thing I'd do is repeal those Trump tax cuts." (May 4th, 2019))
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To: Ebony

This is not a post-Christian society this is an anti-Christian society adamantly advocating against Christianity and Christians and organized religion. It is not neutral on the topic of faith


55 posted on 09/05/2020 7:17:15 PM PDT by a fool in paradise (Joe Biden- "First thing I'd do is repeal those Trump tax cuts." (May 4th, 2019))
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To: SeekAndFind

Is YOUR eternal life worth willfully and continually engaging in sexual sin?

IS HELL WORTH SEX?

REVELATION 22:15

15
Outside are the dogs, those who practice magic arts,

the s e x u a l l y i m m o r a l,

the murderers, the idolaters and everyone who loves and practices falsehood.


56 posted on 09/05/2020 7:21:47 PM PDT by RevelationDavid (Don't just 'know about God'...... KNOW GOD....!)
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To: a fool in paradise

Well that’s very true. You are exactly correct And everything about the God of the Bible and His Son is hated. But it won’t be a joke or “judging” when He appears in the clouds. I preach to myself too.


57 posted on 09/05/2020 7:24:08 PM PDT by Ebony
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To: Phillyred

Thank you.


58 posted on 09/05/2020 7:25:01 PM PDT by olivia3boys
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To: HighSierra5

“I hate to say this but you have to test drive before you buy.”

You have identified the primary reason why very few people wait until marriage to have sex. The reality is that not every couple is truly compatible, and waiting until after marriage to find out is a very scary prospect.

But, I do believe in waiting until after marriage because I do not believe we can truly evaluate our own degree of compatibility prior to marriage; and if we go by trial and error, we have to be sexually intimate with many people before finding mr. or ms. right. Every sexual partner prior to marriage damages the potential for intimacy in marriage. Further, the degree to which we act impatiently with a potential spouse when it comes to sex, the more we show we cannot be trusted in marriage to be faithful.

So, waiting until after marriage is a major test of faith. It requires asking God to show us if a particular person is compatible and trusting His answer. This is not a small thing.

All of this presupposes that we have a relationship with God and are seeking His will and approval and blessing on our marriage and family.


59 posted on 09/05/2020 7:29:13 PM PDT by unlearner (Be ready for war.)
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To: stuck_in_new_orleans

“Here’s where all the pearl clutchers will be tonight I guess”

Are you a Christian?


60 posted on 09/05/2020 7:33:18 PM PDT by ifinnegan (Democrats kill babies and harvest their organs to sell)
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