A women loses many children before birth and she and her husband decide to try a surrogate to carry the next embryo to term.
Now; just WHO will be the actual mother?
The one who CONCEIVED the child; or the other one, who supplied the nurtrients?
Now; just WHO will be the actual mother?////////
And what the hell does that have to do with this conversation?
The creating of the embryo can and is done in a petri dish. The conceiving happens in the uterus of the mother to the embryo.