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Seven Things I Wish My Pastor Knew About My Homosexuality
Public Discourse ^ | December 10th, 2014 | Jean Lloyd

Posted on 12/11/2014 3:45:08 AM PST by rhema

May I make two requests? Love me, but remember that you cannot be more merciful than God. It isn’t mercy to affirm same-sex acts as good. Don’t compromise truth; help me to live in harmony with it.

Over thirty years have passed since same-sex attraction rushed up from deep within my twelve-year-old frame. This attraction was unbidden and unwanted, yet simultaneously forceful and compelling.

As a Christian, the conflict between my sexuality and my faith would become the deepest and most intense of my life. Now in my forties, I’ve gone from being closeted to openly lesbian to celibate to heterosexually married. The fact that I need to qualify my marital union as a heterosexual one reveals how much the cultural landscape has changed in that time—just as much as my own personal landscape has, though in very different ways.

During my upbringing, I heard a few fiery sermons on homosexuality. These days, I hear declarations of love instead. They make me shout for joy. Amen! It always should have been so! At the same time, however, many pastors have begun accompanying this love with an eschewal of Biblical sexual morality as oppressive, unreasonable, or unkind. Hence, loving homosexual persons also comes to entail affirming and encouraging them in same-sex sexual relationships and behaviors.

Although I appreciate the desire to act in love, this isn’t the genuine love that people like me need. Love me better than that! Thomas Aquinas scholar Josef Pieper put it this way:

love is not synonymous with undifferentiated approval of everything the beloved person thinks and does in real life. . . . [nor is it] the wish for the beloved to feel good always and in every situation and for him to be spared experiencing pain or grief in all circumstances.

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TOPICS: Apologetics; General Discusssion; Moral Issues; Theology
KEYWORDS: homosexualagenda; homosexuality; marriage
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To: cloudmountain

>>So, ANYTHING other than heterosexuality is a CHOICE.

Aucontraire - reproductive dysfunctions such as XXY and Androgen insensitivity syndrome are as natural as... cancer.

http://www.google.com/#q=xxy+androgen+insensitivity

But evidently that’s not recognized as a problem, historically, until the drones have taken over the hive.


41 posted on 12/13/2014 8:59:52 AM PST by HLPhat (This space is intentionaly blank.)
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To: Yosemitest

What is the order of precedence described in Romans 1:25+?

Because of what?
Gave them over to what?

Evidently the proliferation of homosexual perversion is a natural punitive response to something else.


42 posted on 12/13/2014 9:05:11 AM PST by HLPhat (This space is intentionaly blank.)
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To: HLPhat
You KNOW what I meant.
Reproductive dysfunctions aren't normal, as least not in MY life, and as such are not germane to my part of the discussion.
43 posted on 12/13/2014 6:57:42 PM PST by cloudmountain
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To: cloudmountain

>>Reproductive dysfunctions aren’t normal,

What percentage of bees in a hive are reproductively normal?

That seems to be a model the Transhumanist Postgenderists have envied for a long time.

Just ask the Pharaohs and the Eunuchs who propped them up. Or was it the Eunuchs and the Pharaohs who propped them up...

Either way, Same ol’


44 posted on 12/13/2014 7:26:22 PM PST by HLPhat (This space is intentionaly blank.)
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To: Yosemitest

You know, I think we’ll just have to ‘agree to disagree’, on this argument.

There are better ways to spend the Holiday Season; such as communing with God, instead of arguing about Him.

I wish all the best to you and yours for the Christmas Season, and for the New Year.

-JT


45 posted on 12/13/2014 7:43:19 PM PST by Jamestown1630 ("A Republic, if you can keep it.")
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To: HLPhat
Very good question.
But to really understand it, you have to dig deeper.

Lets start with Romans 1:16-32. You might want to take a look at Habakkuk 2:1-9, and especially verse 4.
Don't miss the importance of this because the rest of this information FROM GOD, is built on the understanding of this part in Romans 1:16-17.
Now, on to the next great information. That last part is very important.
How many times must God warn them?
You might want to take a read of Luke 8:1-21 to understand why some people just will NOT listen and OBEY.
But on to the next part. There is so much to cover hear, but the order which God has stated it in the Bible must not be ignored.
Think of microscopic when you read " the invisible things", but that's not the ONLY interpretation to be considered.
But it should help you to grasp the meaning"are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made".
"Became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened" is a very good insight on HOW this ABOMINATION starts.
But don't forget the verses before that, because they have been pointing out HOW the "homosexuals" got to this point in their destruction.
Now we start a more rapid destruction of their mind and hearty with the next verses. Now it's becoming clear that there are MANY steps down the path to destruction, that these individuals have taken.
Some more insight can be found in Genesis 19 about just how evil and destructive homosexuals really are.
So, we continue with verses 26 and 27 of Romans 1. Now you can see that God "gave them up", or in other words, He quit trying to convince them, that His WAYS were life-giving,
and allowed them to go their own way.
Their error would be a very strong lesson to all who will see, that it does lead to death.
Read again about meat and milk as far as spiritual knowledge goes.
Now God has laid this information out for us in a certain order for a reason, and that reason is the choice between Life or Death.
Lets finish this. Homosexual perversion is NOT a NATURAL punitive response to something else.
It's a GOD GIVEN PUNISHMENTand it IS a Satanic DELUSION for the homosexual to THINK that God had nothing to do with it. So in closing, we've covered THE CAUSE that God gave them over to a REPROBATE MIND.
46 posted on 12/14/2014 12:19:01 AM PST by Yosemitest (It's Simple ! Fight, ... or Die !)
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To: Jamestown1630
Okay.
Here's a challenge. That should start a real religious discussion.
47 posted on 12/14/2014 12:31:52 AM PST by Yosemitest (It's Simple ! Fight, ... or Die !)
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To: HLPhat
One other thing, you might enjoy reading and looking up the references given in the article titled:
48 posted on 12/14/2014 12:37:18 AM PST by Yosemitest (It's Simple ! Fight, ... or Die !)
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To: cloudmountain

>>You KNOW what I meant.

I KNOW that, according to Romans 1:25+, the proliferation of homosexual perversion is a punitive natural response from the Creator.

So the question becomes - what “created things” has Western “culture” taken to idolizing to warrant such a response?

There is no god but the Czar...NOT.


49 posted on 12/14/2014 6:42:41 AM PST by HLPhat (This space is intentionaly blank.)
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To: HLPhat
I KNOW that, according to Romans 1:25+, the proliferation of homosexual perversion is a punitive natural response from the Creator.
So the question becomes - what “created things” has Western “culture” taken to idolizing to warrant such a response?
There is no god but the Czar...NOT.

God bless you and yours.

50 posted on 12/14/2014 6:49:43 AM PST by cloudmountain
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To: Yosemitest

>>But will we OBEY our Heavenly Father?

Or be forgiven when it’s our nature not to?

But what the homosexuals who’ve concocted various religious entities have done is that they have perverted forgiveness of sin into permission to sin.

Isa 5:20-21

20 Woe to those who call evil good
and good evil,
who put darkness for light
and light for darkness,
who put bitter for sweet
and sweet for bitter.

21 Woe to those who are wise in their own eyes
and clever in their own sight.
NIV

The state-establishing ceaSARean underwear woven by the eunuchs has always been clever.

Just ask NebuchadnezZAR.

There is nothing new under the Sun... prince - and there is no god but the tZAR....NOT



51 posted on 12/14/2014 6:59:58 AM PST by HLPhat (This space is intentionaly blank.)
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To: Yosemitest

>>Homosexual perversion is NOT a NATURAL punitive
>>response to something else. It’s a GOD GIVEN PUNISHMENT

God created Nature - so it is BOTH a natural punitive response, and a God given punishment.


52 posted on 12/14/2014 7:03:38 AM PST by HLPhat (This space is intentionaly blank.)
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To: cloudmountain

>>God bless you and yours.

He always has.


53 posted on 12/14/2014 7:06:54 AM PST by HLPhat (This space is intentionaly blank.)
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To: Yosemitest
Consider the social reproductive nature of Bees.


Every worker in the colony is capable of laying eggs - but, in a healthy colony, they don't.

 

Evidently pheromones from viable brood and/or an active queen keeps worker bees from laying eggs.  If a colony loses its queen, and there is no viable brood from which to raise another queen, then the worker bees, no longer suppressed by pheromones, will begin laying eggs.

Laying workers, not having been raised into queens with royal jelly, and being unmated, lack the chromosomes required for the eggs they lay to become anything but drones - and thus, being unable to create another queen (or even workers), drones is all they will produce.   A colony with nothing but drones is breathing its last breaths and ultimately dies as the drones take flight in a last effort to preserve the remnants of the hive's genetics.

It's a remarkably beautiful creation; but as far as I can tell, the reproductive nature of bees, complicated as is it, is not documented in the Bible. Instead we've evidently been left to observe and figure it out... with our minds, Created free.

Who is to say the Creator didn't naturally endow/encumber His Human creatures with a similar mechanism that becomes manifested when the hive loses its moral, Godly, non-temporal, focal structure?

What would it look like if a fallen human hive itself became the object of worship therein?   Nebuchadnezzar's ( Nebuchadnezzar being the Luciferian fallen star of Isaiah 13) drones knew the answer to that - and the Old Testament names what they created as "Ba'al".

Same Ol' Delphinian manure, different municipal toilet.

54 posted on 12/14/2014 8:27:43 AM PST by HLPhat (This space is intentionaly blank.)
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To: HLPhat

>>lack the chromosomes required for the eggs they lay

More accurately said as... “lay nothing but unfertilized eggs which can only become drones”.


55 posted on 12/14/2014 9:11:08 AM PST by HLPhat (This space is intentionaly blank.)
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To: HLPhat
He always has.

ALWAYS?
My, you are unique in this world. Not too many people can say that, as, into each life a "little rain" must always fall. Perhaps you believe that problems, troubles, etc., are blessings-in-disguise. However, I don't want to put words into your mouth, so to speak.
You must be VERY, very, very special. But I can see that you are.

56 posted on 12/14/2014 9:30:02 AM PST by cloudmountain
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To: cloudmountain

I’m not sure how heterosexuality can be found to be or not be in genes; but your post is interesting to me.

From everything that I have observed and read, there are NO completely homosexual animals, except for man, if the animal is healthy and its social system normal.

But animals sometimes exhibit bisexual behavior, or strange displacements of the sexual urge - not always, but usually, when something has gone wrong with their social system. But healthy animals, in a social system that is normal for their species, exhibit heterosexual behavior as the norm.

One of my pets is a rescued male pigeon; because it was raised by me and my husband almost from the nest, it has transferred all of its sexual urges toward us, and toward our other male pigeon. Its natural social learning/behavior was interrupted. I am certain that if I presented a lady pigeon to him, he’d ‘go to town’; but he’d go to town on the male pigeon too, if I let them be together. He’s a pigeon; he’s not Man, who is far more complex than just “genes” has a much more complicated emotional/mental constitution.

I think this displacement can happen to humans, too. I don’t think that homosexual tendency has to be “genetic” to be something that a person would have a very hard time to overcome. It may have deep-seated roots in up-bringing, abuse, etc.

(I do sometimes wonder, however: if a gene, or some birth-defect were actually discovered as being a cause of homosexuality, what would the arguments pro/con be, toward people who aborted to cull it? Or, if it could be remedied by drugs, how would the ethics of that be determined? Opens an incredible can of worms....)

Just some random thoughts,

-JT


57 posted on 12/14/2014 4:15:28 PM PST by Jamestown1630 ("A Republic, if you can keep it.")
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To: Yosemitest

I don’t belong to any kind of “Church”.

And, after all: I’m too busy decorating my Pagan Tree, and doing elf-duty for that demon, Santa Claus.

I hope that you enjoy a Very Merry Christmas!
-JT


58 posted on 12/14/2014 4:21:38 PM PST by Jamestown1630 ("A Republic, if you can keep it.")
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To: cloudmountain

>>Perhaps you believe that problems, troubles, etc.,
>>are blessings-in-disguise.

I believe Romans 8:28 is true.


59 posted on 12/14/2014 5:49:40 PM PST by HLPhat (This space is intentionaly blank.)
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To: Jamestown1630

Uh, some spell it “SATAN’S CLAWS” ...


60 posted on 12/14/2014 10:00:09 PM PST by Yosemitest (It's Simple ! Fight, ... or Die !)
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