You will always be a Catholic if you were baptized or confirmed in the Catholic Church. Those indelible marks of these two sacraments will never disappear.
Find a priest and sit down and get your questions answered. Father Paul Scalia, son of Justice Scalia serves in Virgina, I believe. Find him and talk with him.
How many get divorced and remarry?
Regardless of these actions which go against the teachings of the Church, you believe they are still Catholics.
I don't understand that thinking. While some would like to call themselves Catholic, there are others who no longer identify with the Catholic Church.
I think they should have that freedom to decide.
Wrong. Salvation is based upon a relationship with Jesus Christ. More power to you to follow your Catholic doctrine. I don’t.