[redhead]

"It is--as someone above has said--the effect on the living that is the problem. It is presumptuous and obnoxious--in my opinion--to manipulate the memory of the deceased for anything that they would not have wanted when alive. I just don't buy it."

Yes, you are correct. I guess I was thinking of the "effect" on the souls of the deceased. But the survivors must be not just brokenhearted but infuriated when they hear of this kind of presumptuous nonsense. Just one more reason why I left...

[Pan_Yans Wife]

Good for you.

[Cronos]

like your tag, mais shouldn't it be without the 'du'?

[Goreknowshowtocheat]

If I shake salt and pepper on a list of Jewish names, and I say they have the option to become salt and pepper church members exactly how did I infuriate someone?? Getting upset over this is soooo much nonsense. Lists of names are somehow out of limits now? I would be more infuriated if the IRS has my name and they do.