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Denial becomes the new language of casual sex
The Sydney Morning Herald ^ | July 3 2003 | Steve Dow

Posted on 07/02/2003 10:25:09 AM PDT by presidio9

Figures newly released show HIV infection rates in NSW have increased for the first time since 1994. The only surprise, perhaps, is that the rise did not come sooner.

AIDS lobby groups are blaming declining federal government funding and leadership. They are acknowledging a rise in unsafe sex among homosexually active men, the largest group affected by the virus in Australia. They are also pointing to foolhardy youth, and the false belief the virus has been cured.

What they haven't got their heads around is the use of language.

American culture soon sweeps the world. And so the verb "barebacking" - a euphemism for sex without condoms - has sped from the US to Australia via the internet and international visitors. You can now be a "barebacker", as in noun.

In the US, barebacking sometimes has political overtones. Gay men in big cities are fatigued by safe sex. High infection rates over there have collided with a cavalier fatalism for some: you'll be infected anyway, so why not claim your right to have all the unprotected sex you want?

At the extreme end of the barebacking phenomenon in the US is "bug chasing", in which a small (though unaccounted) subset of gay men desire and actively seek out HIV infection as a type of identity.

In January, the US edition of Rolling Stone ran a story justifiably condemned for exaggerating the incidence of bug chasing. Barebackers, by contrast, appear much more common, and increasing in number, in the US and in Australia.

There is nothing new about unsafe sex, of course, and the term barebacking was initially a symptom of what was already occurring. The globalisation of gay chat and pick-up rooms in the past two years has given voice to a taboo. No one used to say, let's have unsafe sex. But some now say, "Do you bareback?"

In the Australian context, barebacking is about taking risks and denying consequences. The word seems to have shifted from a symptom to a cause of unsafe sex; more gay men are proudly posting on their profiles that they "bareback", with a touch of alluring sexual outlawry.

Certainly, just being human - slipping up, poor choices, being depressed, consumption of drugs and alcohol - plays a big role in HIV seroconversions. But so, too, does language that glosses over danger, promulgating a culture of denial. The myth of barebacking needs to be confronted in community campaigns and educational material. Most often, the campaigns ignore the word.

It is true that Australia has had success in containing the virus. Most gay men do use condoms most of the time. And barebacking may not be a problem if two men having sex are of the same HIV status - both negative, or both positive. Increasingly, it is said gay men are making choices about whether to use condoms based on risk reduction rather than elimination.

But how well informed can gay men's casual unprotected sex choices be? Sydney's Health in Men study, by the National Centre in HIV Social Research, recently showed 55 per cent of gay men did not disclose their HIV status to casual partners during the six months before the survey. A shot in the dark, undoubtedly.

Periodic surveys, meanwhile, have shown steady rises in unsafe sex among gay men with casual partners in Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane, Perth and Adelaide since the mid-'90s.

NSW has just announced a rise in HIV diagnoses of 12.8 per cent in 2002 - 386 diagnoses, compared with 342 in 2001, a figure significantly higher than anticipated. The spike coincides with a 20 per cent rise in Queensland last year, and a 7 per cent rise in Victoria, the third annual increase down south.

Grim Reaper shock tactics were never going to influence gay urbane sophisticates but nor, it appears, do the current complex, ambiguous and confusing safe sex posters circulating in the gay press and in gay venues.

AIDS educators argue it is a more complex world, requiring complex messages. But if we were so sophisticated, HIV figures would be falling.

The shifting language seems to have left the educators behind. It's time for a new national campaign to demystify barebacking. It's time to listen to what's being said.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial; Foreign Affairs; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: aids; barebacking; homosexuality; promiscuity
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1 posted on 07/02/2003 10:25:10 AM PDT by presidio9
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To: presidio9
Yes, I can now see why this group "needs" Supream Court contrived constitutional protections!
2 posted on 07/02/2003 10:28:44 AM PDT by NavyCaptain
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To: presidio9
Maybe if AIDS lobbying groups stopped lobbying to encourage gay men and other irresponsible groups to get AIDS, fewer of them would get AIDS?

Nah, too un-PC.

It's the GOVERNMENT'S fault (no matter what government) that idiots get AIDS.

3 posted on 07/02/2003 10:31:46 AM PDT by cake_crumb (UN Resolutions=Very Expensive, Very SCRATCHY Toilet Paper)
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To: presidio9
If you have to be convinced by advertisements not to engage in suicidal behavior, you're too far gone to help.

Sodomites have decided to ignore right and wrong already, why does it surprise people that they've moved on to ignoring cause and effect?

4 posted on 07/02/2003 10:39:32 AM PDT by wideawake (God bless our brave soldiers and their Commander in Chief)
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To: NavyCaptain
Society has no interest in discouraging activities that spread a fatal and incurable disease, according to the Court's leftist members.
5 posted on 07/02/2003 10:42:27 AM PDT by Roscoe
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To: presidio9
Increasingly, it is said gay men are making choices about whether to use condoms based on risk reduction rather than elimination.

Well, considering that condoms are about 85% effective, when used properly, in preventing pregnancy, they can't be used for risk elimination anyway. Especially when you consider:
A sperm is about 5 times bigger than the HIV virus
Pregnancy is possible about 5 to 10 days out of the month for most women, compared to the 365 days per year susceptibility of HIV.
Several additional reasons that the effectivity of condoms in preventing HIV infection in anal sex is probably even lower than their effectivity in preventing pregnancy are a little too distasteful to list in detail.

6 posted on 07/02/2003 10:43:46 AM PDT by VRWCmember
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To: presidio9
Have these people never heard of that rare phenomenon called 'personal responsibility'?
7 posted on 07/02/2003 10:43:56 AM PDT by LQDSWRD
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To: presidio9
In 10 years, maybe they'll all be dead.
8 posted on 07/02/2003 10:44:24 AM PDT by ffusco (Maecilius Fuscus,Governor of Longovicium , Manchester, England. 238-244 AD)
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To: presidio9
And barebacking may not be a problem if two men having sex are of the same HIV status - both negative, or both positive.

Sure. Putting your thing into sewage is good for it. Fecal matter is recommended as an unguent by everyone.

Is this idiot nuts or what?

9 posted on 07/02/2003 10:48:23 AM PDT by jimt
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To: ffusco
In 10 years, maybe they'll all be dead.

No, the money that could have used to bring a faster cure for cancer will have bought an AIDS cure, and then we will subsidize its distribution. We will have succeeded in removing a strong motivator for behaving well.

10 posted on 07/02/2003 10:50:36 AM PDT by 7 x 77
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To: presidio9
AIDS lobby groups are blaming declining federal government funding and leadership.

Yep, that must be the problem alright.

Michael M. Bates: My Side of the Swamp

11 posted on 07/02/2003 10:52:26 AM PDT by mikeb704
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To: presidio9
In the Australian context, barebacking is about taking risks and denying consequences.

Actually, it's about taking risks and shifting the consequences and made possible by liberal enablers like those at the Morning Herald. It is ironic that those whose "compassion" compels them to squeal the loudest are those causing the damage.

12 posted on 07/02/2003 11:04:32 AM PDT by laredo44
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To: jimt
My take on AIDS has always been this:

"It should come as no surprise that something bad happens when a man inserts his penis into another man's anus."

13 posted on 07/02/2003 11:05:01 AM PDT by onehipdad
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To: presidio9
Does anyone come right out and say: Homosexuality means an early and often painful death from AIDS?
14 posted on 07/02/2003 11:09:11 AM PDT by Paulus Invictus
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To: presidio9
The saddest and most thought provoking situation I have been involved in lately is meeting someone who is now a good friend of mine; a gay, Christian, conservative guy.

He has his pistol permit. He's libertarian conservative who believes 100% in defending the Constitution. He believes he will probably go to Hell for being a homosexual. He says he was born that way and just knew from a very early age that he did not like girls and was attracted to guys. He is truly disgusted by outward displays of sexual affection, both homosexual and heterosexual, gay pride parades, cries for "equal rights" (he says special rights), etc.

He believes in the Bible and it tears me up that he believes he will go to Hell. I guess he's still trying to figure out why God made him a walking irony. I wonder myself what God's plan for him was, if he indeed was born gay.

He's not promiscious, I think he's been with a couple of people before, but he wants to find a like-minded guy and be in a committed relationship. I guess the moral of the story is that not all gay guys are promiscuous flamers.
15 posted on 07/02/2003 11:13:45 AM PDT by bc2
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To: bc2
Someone should tell him that the ACT is wrong, not the "orientation". Perhaps a better word would be susceptibility. We are all susceptible to every evil, just not all to the same degree.
16 posted on 07/02/2003 11:33:22 AM PDT by thirdheavenward
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To: bc2
He believes in the Bible and it tears me up that he believes he will go to Hell. I guess he's still trying to figure out why God made him a walking irony. I wonder myself what God's plan for him was, if he indeed was born gay.

God did not make him gay. Homosexuality is learned behavior.

17 posted on 07/02/2003 11:45:13 AM PDT by presidio9 (RUN AL, RUN!!!)
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well I would normally tend to agree. But when he says he's 6 years old and just knew he was different and couldn't figure it out until he was about 10, I'm not so sure.

and knowing his friends and family, it's virtually impossible for him to learn this behaviour. His parents are high ranking ex-military, all-American, living in small-town USA. Not at all San Francisco or NYC elitist pinko types.
18 posted on 07/02/2003 12:05:34 PM PDT by bc2
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To: thirdheavenward
hate the sin, love the sinner ?
19 posted on 07/02/2003 12:06:18 PM PDT by bc2
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To: bc2
He believes in the Bible and it tears me up that he believes he will go to Hell. I guess he's still trying to figure out why God made him a walking irony. I wonder myself what God's plan for him was, if he indeed was born gay.



Your friend sounds like a nice guy. Maybe it will help him to know that God made us ALL sinful in one way or another and one is not worse than another. God knows mankind can not help being who God made them (sinners)

Whats bad about sin of any kind is not in the sin but Non-Repentance. Your friend sounds like he's repentant to the point of being too harsh on himself.



20 posted on 07/02/2003 12:38:59 PM PDT by Roughneck (Get the U.N. out of the U.S, and get the U.S. out of the U.N.)
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