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In a news conference in Modesto on Friday, Amber Frey of Fresno acknowledged having a romantic relationship with Scott Peterson
Posted on 01/25/2003 7:36:37 AM PST by runningbear
BART AH YOU/THE BEE
In a news conference in Modesto on Friday, Amber Frey of Fresno acknowledged having a romantic relationship with Scott Peterson
Woman goes public
By TY PHILLIPS
BEE STAFF WRITER
The Laci Peterson case took a dramatic twist Friday when a 28-year-old single mother acknowledged having a recent romantic relationship with Scott Peterson.
Amber Frey, who lives in the Fresno area, said in an emotional news conference Friday night that Peterson told her he was not married when they met Nov. 20.
On Dec. 30, Frey contacted police after seeing Scott Peterson's photo in reports regarding his wife's disappearance. She has been eliminated as a suspect in the investigation, Modesto Police Chief Roy Wasden said.
Scott Peterson did not answer his home or cell phone on Friday night, and he did not return messages seeking comment. Wasden said Peterson has not been eliminated from the investigation.
Hours earlier, Laci Peterson's family held its own emotional news conference at the Red Lion Hotel.
"Scott Peterson did admit to me that he was having an affair with a Fresno woman," said Brent Rocha, Laci Peterson's older brother. "I trusted him and I stood by him in the initial phases of my sister's disappearance. However, Scott has not been forthcoming with information regarding my sister's disappearance. I'm only left to question what else he may be hiding."
Last week, a Rocha family member said detectives had told them of Peterson's recent affair and that he had taken out a $250,000 life insurance policy on his wife during the summer.
Asked about the report the next day, Scott Peterson told a Bay Area TV reporter, "It's a bunch of lies."
Eight days later, Frey stood in front of dozens of reporters at the Police Department and spoke about her relationship with Scott Peterson. Police
revealed the woman's identity because several reporters had started to contact her, Wasden said.
"When I discovered he was involved in the Laci Peterson disappearance case, I immediately contacted the Modesto Police Department," Frey said. "I am very sorry for the pain this has caused Laci's family, and I pray for her return."
Frey's voice shook and she cried several times as she spoke, occasionally taking measured breaths before continuing with her statements.
Emotional day for friends
A group of Laci Peterson's friends stood behind the rows of TV cameras and took in Frey's words. They displayed very little emotion. As soon as Frey stopped talking and left the room, most of Laci Peterson's friends also exited.
"It's emotional for these girls to see her," said Terri Western, whose daughter is a close friend of Laci Peterson's. "But they applauded her for coming forward with this information. This whole thing is absolutely the worst and most difficult thing any of them have ever had to deal with."
Janey Peterson, Scott Peterson's sister-in-law, said later on CNN's "Connie Chung Tonight" that she did not know Scott Peterson had an affair until she heard the news Friday.
"It would not change what I am doing to help find Laci," Janey Peterson said. "And, to be honest, we don't have the extra emotions and we don't have the time to chase down all these peripheries. Trusting in the Lord is all that we have."
Laci Peterson was about eight months pregnant when she was reported missing on Christmas Eve. Her husband told police he last saw her that morning as he left to go fishing in Berkeley.
The case has drawn intense media coverage. Frey implored her friends not to talk to reporters, and Wasden asked the media to respect the privacy of the woman and her 23-month-old child.
"I do believe our entire nation and possibly most of the world is aware that Laci Peterson is missing," Wasden said. "Now, what this is starting to do is border on pretty close to being destructive. We've given the information we feel we need to give so that a young woman who had the courage to come forward and give us information will not be harassed as she tries to go on with her life."
A few hours earlier, the Rocha family walked into the Red Lion Hotel together. In their hands, several family members held prepared statements.
The Rochas looked out through teary eyes that were dark around the edges, proof of the hellish month they have endured. Police later said they had told the family about Frey's planned appearance.
It was the family's first news conference in more than a week, and the first since detectives told the Rochas that Scott Peterson was having an affair.
Families appear divided
Family friends said that disclosure appeared to divide the Petersons and Rochas. Before Friday, Laci Peterson's side of the family rarely appeared without someone from Scott Peterson's family.
Amy Rocha, Laci Peterson's younger sister, approached the podium first.
"This past month has been the most painful time I've ever experienced," she said, looking down as tears flowed. She tried to say more, but the words did not come.
Her brother, Brent, stepped up. He offered his thoughts regarding Scott Peterson, then
directed his message to his younger sister, Laci Peterson, and her unborn child, who had been named Connor or Conner.
"Laci, the last month has been the most disturbing and emo- tional time of my life," he said in a voice that trembled as he struggled for control. "Your disappearance has completely changed my life as I once knew it. I miss your beautiful smile and your fun-loving personality.
"We talked about our children growing up together, spending summers at each other's house. Family events will be very lonely without you and Connor. Wherever you may be, I hope you know how much I love you and how important you are to me. My search for you will never end."
Rocha folded his piece of paper and stepped back to rejoin his family. Laci Peterson's mother, Sharon Rocha, slowly approached the mass of microphones.
The Girlfriend Comes Forward
POSTED: 3:26 p.m. PST January 24, 2003
UPDATED: 8:42 p.m. PST January 24, 2003
MODESTO, Calif. -- In a day filled with tear-stained press conferences Friday, the woman who was having the affair with Scott Peterson came forward to offer her sympathy to the family of his missing wife, Laci, and was cooperating with police investigators.
Hours earlier, Laci's family held an emotional press conference of their own, saying they no longer supported Scott and asked him to cooperate with investigators.
The woman, Amber Frey of Fresno, said she did not know Scott was married until she heard about the case. She came forward on Dec. 30 and has been cooperating with police ever since.
"First of all, I met him on Nov. 20," the single 28-year-old mother said. "When I was introduced, I was told he was married. Scott told me he wasn't married. We had a romantic relationship. When I discovered he was involved in the Laci Peterson case, I immediately contacted the Modesto Police Department."
"Although I could have sold the photos of Scott and I to the tabloids, I didn't want to jeopardize the investigation. I knew it (going to the police) was the right thing to do. I am very sorry for Laci's family and the pain it has caused them. I pray for her safe return."
Modesto police said they had brought Frey forward because her identity had been uncovered by the media covering the case and they were hounding her. They added that Frey was not a suspect in the case.
The stunning 20-minute press conference came just hours after Laci's family met with the press in an emotion-ladden news conference of their own.
Appearing before the national media for the first time in more than a week, Laci's brother -- Brent Rocha -- said that Scott had admitted to him he was having an affair.
"On Jan. 16, 2003, by telephone Scott Peterson admitted to me he was having an affair with a Fresno woman," Rocha said. "I confronted him after viewing pictures of him with this woman."
The family was shown four photos of Scott and the woman by Modesto police a little over a week ago. They were also told Scott had taken out a $250,000 insurance policy out on Laci Peterson's life.
Since that meeting, the family has distanced itself from Scott.
"I would like Scott to know I trusted him and stood by him in the intial phases of my sister's disappearance," Rocha said. "However, Scott has not been forthcoming with information regarding my sister's disappearance and I'm only left to question what he might be hiding."
He added, "because we have so many questions, I can no longer support him."
Laci's mother -- Sharon Rocha -- made an impassioned plea for her daughter's return.
"Since Christmas Eve, our one and only focus has been to find Laci and bring her home to us," she said choking back tears. "I love my daughter and miss her every minute of every day. I miss seeing her. I miss our talks together. I miss the excitement in her voice when she talks about her baby...Someone has taken all this away from me."
In an exclusive interview with KTVU Friday night, Scott Peterson said he wanted to keep the lines of communication open with Laci's family. He said he watched the news conference and "was moved" by the outpouring of emotion from the Rocha family.
On Thursday night, another one-time supporter of Scott Peterson said he too now questioned the Modesto man's motives.
Brad Saltzman, who manages the Red Lion Inn in Modesto, the site of the now closed Laci Peterson search center, said Thursday night his support for Scott has waned since last weekend's efforts in Westwood.
The hotel used as the headquarters for that search is run by the same ownership group as the Modesto Red Lion and Saltzman was a key figure in setting it up.
"It's funny because last week a correspondent asked me if I had ever seen Scott cry," he said. "I thought about it, and I've seen other family members cry but I had never seen Scott cry. His demeanor was like it was empty, and he liked the attention from the media."
"I was able to take him the back way (in the hotel). I was able to take him up the service elevator, but he chose to go in front of the media and it was a media circus out there. That's why I think he intentions weren't to find Laci."
Saltzman said he also felt he and other volunteers had been used by Peterson.
"I put in endless hours as a volunteer to help him, and when he was done with the volunteer efforts he packed his car and left," he said. "There was a thank you and goodbye, (but) it made me wonder what his real motives were."
"Unfortunately I don't think it was to find Laci. I think it was to look good in front of the media, and to show him shaking hands with volunteers, and that's not right because of all these people who have put in countless hours to help find Laci. It's not right."
Peterson's sister-in-law, Janey Peterson, defended him during a series of Friday evening calls to national television networks.
"There is absolutely no way Scott had anything to do with Laci's disappearance," she said. She was unaware of any affair and frankly, it wouldn't matter. It's a distraction from what our primary focus needs to be, and that's to bring Laci home.
"Scott's going to be OK at the end of this road, but we don't know that about Laci, and that's where our focus needs to be," she told CNN's Connie Chung.
There were other developments Friday in the case of the missing mother-to-be who vanished from her home on Christmas Eve day.
A search scheduled for San Diego this weekend had been delayed
A partial of the long story and videos on KTVU website.
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Friday at the Red Lion Hotel, Laci Peterson's family makes an emotional appeal for her safe return.
Gift registry includes Peterson
Gift registry includes Peterson
This is a glimpse of the Babies R Us online registry for Laci Peterson that shows gifts the pregnant Modesto woman, who's been missing since Dec. 24, had registered for.
BEE STAFF REPORTS
A baby-shower date for Laci Peterson came and went with no party. The expectant mother, though, is still listed on a gift registry at Babies R Us.
Friday, the chain store's online registry showed that three gifts had been purchased: a First Years 4 Stage Bath System, a Graco Care Station Pack 'n Play and a Fisher-Price Deluxe Take Along Swing.
Hers is the only name listed on her gift- registry form, but an employee at Babies R Us in Modesto said that is not unusual.
"Most people leave the father's name off," Grace Cabrera said.
The online form has a blank line for the mother's name and a line underneath
labeled "Additional name (optional)." Some women list a maiden name, nickname or the father, Cabrera said.
Some of Peterson's girlfriends spent Jan. 11, the scheduled day of a shower, working at the volunteer search center established in the wake of Peterson's disappearance on Christmas Eve.
Her due date is Feb. 10, and she and her husband, Scott, already know the baby is a boy. They had picked a name: Connor, or maybe Conner.
Kim Petersen, spokeswoman for Laci Peterson's side of the family as it deals with her disappearance, said Laci had difficulty getting pregnant and wondered if she would ever have a baby.
"She was ecstatic when she found out she was pregnant," Petersen said.
A neighbor said Scott Peterson also seemed excited.
Susan Medina, who lives across the street from the couple, told about the day in early December when she came outside and discovered that a tire on her car was almost flat.
She said Scott Peterson saw her circling her car and came to help.
(Excerpt) Read more at modbee.com ...
The police are under no obligation to speak the truth about who is or is not considered a suspect in an ongoing investigation. They can, and frequently do, issue disinformation to the public in an attempt to lull or lure a suspect. Although it may turn out that Amber has indeed been cleared of suspicion, I'm not ready to issue her a clean bill of health just yet.
How was she eliminated? Why? By what standard?
I am sorry she got used by Scott. She obviously did, and he is an @sshole.
And I guess she did the right thing here, let's assume it was also for the right reasons. But that doesn't mean she is a-ok in every way. If an alcoholic saves a baby from a fire, can we suddenly never call him an alcoholic?
So why are we supposed to edit our opinion of this woman? Why is she so sacrosanct?
Other posters aren't editing their opinions about other people in the case. Who waved a wand and made this girl Mother Theresa?
A single mom of a toddler who works giving men massages all day. It doesn't have to be a prostitution thing. Even if she does it because it is what she likes to do, still she chose a job that is rubbing all over partially nude guys all day. If it were a guy that made his living rubbing all over rich women all day, would you ladies all be so quick to defend his honor and attack anyone who dares to judge the morals of the person?
C'mon this kind of stuff makes it fun, anyway! It's all so sordid. I think all of the payers in this will turn out to have been living corrupt, sordid little lives.
I read he was introduced as married, but he DENIED it.
"First of all, I met him on Nov. 20," the single 28-year-old mother said. "When I was introduced, I was told he was married. Scott told me he wasn't married.
Do we know if he even wore one?
Looks like he's wearing a band on that pic (the New Year's Eve "somber" vigil for his wife)....so, he must have taken it off when he met and was with Amber; his denial of marriage AND his removing his band (we must assume), doesn't speak very well of his truthfulness or character, IMHO:
True, true.
But we don't really know exactly why she did what she did, just what she says about herself.
Anyway, I will lay off the woman, so long as she doesn't become relevant again for some other reason.
So what do you think we can expect in terms of Scott's other affairs? Close friend, etc ...
I might be mistaken, but I thought she said he was: ---- "he was introduced as UN-MARRIED." Just heard sound bite on Foxnews- what timinig!!!
OK we're clear, he was introduced to her as UNMARRIED, and then he told her he WAS NOT married.
I caught this right in midsentence to my responding that I could have been mistaken.
LOL! OMG, this thread is starting to talk about Mother Theresa. It's starting to go the same direction as last nights thread.
Correct.
I wonder too if he has had other affairs....good question you raise, although painfully obvious only because I haven't thought of that yet!!
Never underestimate the intelligence or common sense of ""some"" women. Charlie Manson and Ted Bundy recieved lots of marraige proposals from women while they were in jail for murder.
I wonder why he was introduced to Ms. Frey as UNMARRIED?
Was she inquiring as to his marrital status?
No, silly; the top of this thread says he was introduced as married; when she asked he DENIED BEING MARRIED. : )
This is misquoted. She specifically says, He was introduced as UNMARRIED.
I hope they correct this!!!
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