Posted on 12/24/2002 11:25:59 PM PST by daisyscarlett
Edited on 12/24/2002 11:47:26 PM PST by Jim Robinson. [history]
You're most welcome, Kneez. We do have a nice little "family" here. You and Sassy should drop by more often.
Hope you are having a great holiday!
I am, thanks. I read where you and Sass are too, glad to hear it.
Wouldn't you just love to hug every one of those pup 'Babes'? : )
Billie comes up with some of the neatest stuff.
Ohmigawd, that sounds more than delicious, Carlo!
I will get all the fixins in the morning for sure! Thank you, thank you, thanks you!!!
No. This is an added bonus.
The Cap'n just emailed this to me...just wanna say Merry Christmas to my kid brother, doing his AF stint over in Germany, and his beautiful wife and boy, as well as the little one who'll be born any day now...
Washington Post
> November 26, 2002
> Pg. 29
"My Heart On The Line"
> By Frank Schaeffer
"Before my son became a Marine, I never thought much about who was defending me. Now when I read of the war on terrorism or the coming conflict in Iraq, it cuts to my heart. When I see a picture of a member of our military who has been killed, I read his or her name very carefully. Sometimes I cry.
"In 1999, when the barrel-chested Marine recruiter showed up in dress blues and bedazzled my son John, I did not stand in the way. John was headstrong, and he seemed to understand these stern, clean men with straight backs and flawless uniforms. I did not. I live on the Volvo-driving, higher education-worshiping North Shore of Boston. I write novels for a living. I have never served in the military. It had been hard enough sending my two older children off to Georgetown and New York University. John's enlisting was unexpected, so deeply unsettling. I did not relish the prospect of answering the question "So where is John going to college?" from the parents who were itching to tell me all about how their son or daughter was going to Harvard. At the private high school John attended, no other students were going into the military.
"But aren't the Marines terribly Southern?" asked one perplexed mother while standing next to me at the brunch following graduation. "What a waste, he was such a good student," said another parent. One parent (a professor at a nearby and rather famous university) spoke up at a school meeting and suggested that the school should "carefully evaluate what went wrong."
"When John graduated from three months of boot camp on Parris Island, 3,000 parents and friends were on the parade deck stands. We parents and our Marines not only were of many races but also were representative of many economic classes. Many were poor. Some arrived crammed in the backs of pickups, others by bus. John told me that a lot of parents could not afford the trip. We in the audience were white and Native American. We were Hispanic, Arab and African American and Asian. We were former Marines wearing the scars of battle, or at least baseball caps emblazoned with battles' names. We were Southern whites from Nashville and skinheads from New Jersey, black kids from Cleveland wearing ghetto rags and white ex-cons with ham-hock forearms defaced by jailhouse tattoos. We would not have been mistaken for the educated and well-heeled parents gathered on the lawns of John's private school a half-year before.
"After graduation one new Marine told John, "Before I was a Marine, if I had ever seen you on my block I would've probably killed you just because you were standing there." This was a serious statement from one of John's good friends, an African American ex-gang member from Detroit who, as John said, "would die for me now, just like I'd die for him."
"My son has connected me to my country in a way that I was too selfish and insular to experience before. I feel closer to the waitress at our local diner than to some of my oldest friends. She has two sons in the Corps. They are facing the same dangers as my boy. When the guy who fixes my car asks me how John is doing, I know he means it. His younger brother is in the Navy.
"Why were I and the other parents at my son's private school so surprised by his choice? During World War II, the sons and daughters of the most powerful and educated families did their bit. If the immorality of the Vietnam War was the only reason those lucky enough to go to college dodged the draft, why did we not encourage our children to volunteer for military service once that war was done? Have we wealthy and educated Americans all become pacifists? Is the world a safe place? Or have we just gotten used to having somebody else defend us?
"What is the future of our democracy when the sons and daughters of the janitors at our elite universities are far more likely to be put in harm's way than are any of the students whose dorms their parents clean? I feel shame because it took my son's joining the Marine Corps to make me take notice of who is defending me!!!
"I feel hope because perhaps my son is part of a future "greatest generation." As the storm clouds of war gather, at least I know that I can look the men and women in uniform in the eye. My son is one of them. He is the best I have to offer. He is my heart."
Frank Schaeffer is a writer. His latest book, co-written with his son, Marine Cpl. John Schaeffer, is "Keeping Faith: A Father-Son Story About Love and the United States Marine Corps."
Please count me in as well...MUD
Had fun doing that one. :)
Billie went through so much making that graphic of our pets I thought it deserved some more exposure.
Thanks!
I saw Frank Schaeffer and Marine Cpl. John Schaeffer on the FOX channel while signing thier book. They were bering interviewed.
Hope you had a great Christmas too!
Today is a rest day for me and DH.....and we need it. Too much fun all week, lol.. We are both bushed...Although I will probably do some needed housework in between rest periods plus I have to clean the stove and oven....The oven part is easy-just press a button and wait for 3 hours and presto it is done. The cooktop is something else again...Is really gross (gas)....
I have still not hit any after Christmas sales and I must get some 1/2 price wrapping paper for next year...I just hate to pay full price for wrapping paper.
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