A Few of FR's Finest....Every Day....12-12-02

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[lodwick]

The Top 10 Steps to Becoming Irresistibly Attractive

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The term Irresistibly Attractive refers to the idea of great people, ideas, opportunities, things and more, come TO you vs you chasing them or being promotive, seductive or acquisitive in nature.

1. Don't need much.


If you need something, usually it will run away/escape you. Get your personal and financial needs met first and you'll find yourself attracting vs seducing.

2. Think big, really big.


Attraction occurs when there is a healthy vacuum between where you are and what you want to have happen. The wider the gap, the greater the pulling power of attraction.

3. Eliminate the holes in your life.


Where are you being depleted? By whom? Plug those holes by extending boundaries, raising standards, resolving past issues, healing. Attraction won't find you until you're ready. Get ready.

4. Pay attention to what's happening to/around you RIGHT NOW.


Attraction LIVES in the moment, not in the future. Are you responding fully to both the problems and the opportunities that are occurring -- in force -- right now, in your space? Gotta start here, where attraction can find you.

5. Learn from people who are naturally attractive.


Some people are; some people aren't. Hang out with those who are and emulate them. And ask for help. They'll be happy to tell you how it works. Just be ready to make changes in your thinking, assumptions, actions and behavior.

6. Increase your awareness.


Sounds trite, but it's necessary. Attraction is a subtle phenomenon. You won't feel it or get it until you've increased your awareness of yourself, those around you, how you think, your life assumptions.

7. Add value to whomever or whatever you encounter.


We all have something to add. Add it. If you don't have enough to add, learn a new skill. When you ADD what you have to other's lives, whether they are clients, friends, potential customers, family, YOU become much more attractive.

8. Tell the truth.


This means more than not lying. There is a level of telling the truth that will truly set you free and attract others to you. And, there is a way to tell the truth from a place of love vs power. Usually having awareness and advanced phrasing is what helps this process occur naturally. That, plus having enough reserve in your life so you can afford any consequences of telling the truth.

9. Build a reserve in all areas.


When you have enough money, time, space, love, ideas, opportunities, friends, you'll become an even stronger magnet for what you want -- because you won't NEED it.

10. Do what YOU want to do in life.


We've all been overly influenced by shoulds, oughts and have-to's. So much so that what you/we want to do has been suppressed WAY down deep.

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About the Submitter
This piece was originally submitted by Thomas J. Leonard

[Mo1]

Morning Loddy .. is this any ole 10 ten list?? .. on any topic???

Sorry .. I'm on the phone with mom .. it's been over an hour and still counting .. LOL

[Billie]

My cup runneth over (with pets) :) DO post it during the thread though, ok?

I'm sorry I may have to be a no-show today (as well as yesterday) - have so much I have to do and so little time to get it done. : (

[Aquamarine]

Top Ten Ways Pete Rose Can Improve His Image

10. Remind people how much he used to hustle

9. Change name to "Spongepete Rosepants"

8. Travel with a monkey -- everyone loves monkeys

7. Make an appearance on "The Tonight Show"

6. Say betting-on-baseball was research for a movie role

5. Write and star in the delightful comedy "My Big Fat Pete Rose Wedding"

4. Find and kill Osama Bin Laden

3. Always carry Tums -- periodically offer them to strangers

2. Teach underprivileged kids how to play the ponies

1. Hold a press conference declaring he's not gay

[LadyX]

Good morning, world!
Missed the gingerbread contest, but will be keeping an eye on this one while it unfolds as I tardily write Christmas letters to go with the cards.

Love this Happenin' Place - and all who dwell within or visit ..:)))

[MeekOneGOP]

Mornin', everybody !!

Have a cup while you FReep !

For those who prefer hot chocolate.....

Eggnog, Anyone?

[lodwick]

Hang in there Mo - come play whenever you can. ;-)

[lodwick]

Nice job with Sneaky Peter - well done. ;-)

[Aquamarine]

They said we could cheat so I got that off of David Letterman's site. LOL!

[Aquamarine]

Good morning!

Holly Jolly Christmas!

Click on the pic

[Mixer]

Congrats to sweetliberty and thanks to free and mudboy for judging. No thanks for not picking me though ; P just kidding.

Now I have to read today's thread and see what is new since I missed being on the net yesterday.

Hope everyone has a great day.

[deadhead]

Congratulations Sweet Liberty, GailA & Tgsltakoma! All of your Gingerbread Houses are awesome! FreetheHostages and MudboySlim, excellent judging! Busy with Christmas coming up, will be buying my tree this weekend, can't wait to decorate it. Have a wonderful day!

~~~Colleen~~~

[jwfiv]

Your #21 is very interesting, the concepts and wording unique, clear, and damn good advice. Thanks for this list, it's immediately a fave.

The thought of an attractive goal is familiar, the idea of the 'seeker' being attractive to that goal is a nice twist to the old saw...cool.

The first Top 10 list I thought of, upon reading FTH's rules, was Blue Plate Specials.

[Fiddlstix]

Click the Pics J

Click Here for Christmas Graphics J

[ST.LOUIE1]

To my 'Babes'....

[jwfiv]

Good morning to all our Hostess Babes, our Guest-Hostess Babe...and Mud, our Host Cowboy (I'll let the ladies call you 'Babe').

Top 10 something-or-others, eh? Need to think on this...need to get a couple more quarters shined up, I see.

[jwfiv]

Burl Ives?

[jwfiv]

I should have said, first, Good Morning, and thank you for the jolly little tune.

[Aquamarine]

Bingo!

[Aquamarine]

I should have said, first, Good Morning, and thank you for the jolly little tune.

It's still early there so you get a pass. LOL!