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Another Man Down in the War Against Fathers
FatherMag.com ^ | August 22, 2002 | Roger F. Gay

Posted on 08/22/2002 6:45:01 AM PDT by RogerFGay


Another Man Down in the War Against Fathers

August 22, 2002
By Roger F. Gay

America's Most Wanted put it like this:

Catalino Morales is wanted for the attempted homicide of five deputy sheriff’s in Allentown, Pennsylvania and for failure to pay back child support.

On Saturday, morning, December 9, 2000, eight deputies in Lehigh county Pennsylvania broke into Catalino Morales' home to serve an arrest warrant charging him with failure to make child support payments. According to the deputies, Morales barricaded himself in a second-floor bedroom and fired two shots through a closed door. He then shot out a back window, jumped onto a flat roof, and onto the ground where it is alleged that he shot at a deputy. The deputy returned fire but no one was injured. Morales escaped the immediate area.

Police say Morales then entered a house in the neighborhood and held a family of four hostage for several hours. The standoff ended when one of the residents managed to wrestle the gun out of Morales’ hands and Morales fled the scene. A massive hunt ensued, including search dogs, helicopters, and Allentown police; to no avail.

On the night of June 20, 2001 a SWAT team in Hartford, Connecticut surrounded Morales in a housing complex and shots were fired. No policepersons were injured in the encounters. Morales was hit by three of 25 police bullets, permanently damaging his hand and his leg and endangering the lives of the nearby residents.

He is a father. He is a man. He is allegedly behind in making "child support" payments.

It is unlikely that the child support system will be put on trial in defense of Catalino Morales, but it should be. Under heavy influence from a profit-driven collection industry the process of determining the amount of child support ordered and enforcement practices have changed dramatically within the past fifteen years. Political corruption is rampant and obvious not only to those who have studied the system closely but to many fathers who have been forced into subjugation by it.

Millions of men are treated arbitrarily and unfairly to a degree that compromises or destroys their chance to maintain themselves, let alone get on with a normal life. Many cannot do what the system requires them to do. Add to that years of harassment and threats from a long list of strangers, including half-witted pimple-faced high school drop-outs trying to collect to make a commission and female bureaucrats, possibly former welfare mothers, who revel in the opportunity to emasculate men. There is no escape, no reason. Every politician says so. Men and women with more power than moral character constantly remind them that this is what fatherhood is all about.

Then other strangers arrive with guns and invade their homes with the intent of taking them prisoner. They are experiencing the horror of a dictatorial police state.

Catalino Morales is one of many canaries in the child support coal mines. Year after year we watch the canaries die yet the workers are not allowed to leave. Those among us who have the opportunity to communicate are morally obligated to pass the word. This system must be abandoned as quickly as possible whether the masters wish it or not.

In the early 1990s, millions of fathers first experienced the suspension of constitutional law in domestic relations courts and the transition to enforcement of arbitrary en masse central political decisions. The new system seems designed to ruin men's lives. Decisions are arbitrarily based on statistical projections that have no basis in reality. State governments are encouraged to take as much from fathers as possible in order to increase the amount of federal funds they receive. "Public-private partnerships" formed with private collection agencies that benefit from higher child support awards and greater debt. Industry representatives control much of the policy making process, including the design of most formulae used in setting child support amounts.

With so many people involved, there has been a predictable variation in reaction to the change. The early 1990s saw the rise of the fathers rights movement, class-action lawsuits, a surge in the number of appeals filed against child support orders, and new national conferences on fathers issues. State and federal politicians were lobbied constantly to fix or abandon the new laws. Members of the Washington State Legislature received thousands of pairs of baby shoes from fathers trying to make a point.

There were also reports of increases in suicide and violence. The early 1990s saw news reports of the first of the early morning raids on communities to round-up hundreds of dads to cart them off to jail. It saw shootings in courtrooms, lawyers and judges taken bloody to ambulances, and fathers barricaded in their homes surrounded by police.

In Dallas, a lawyer representing himself in a divorce case pulled a semi-automatic weapon from his briefcase and opened fire. While one father was barricaded in his home threatening suicide if police came too close, he was telephoned by a reporter who wanted to turn the conversation over to a police negotiator. Feminist groups protested, saying the government must not negotiate with terrorists. News coverage on such incidents ended. Billions of dollars were spent increasing security in courthouses.

Despite the best efforts of ordinary citizens, the system got worse. Fathers rights advocates were largely cut off from making their appeals through traditional media that continued an enormous propaganda effort against the so-called "deadbeat dads." By the mid-1990s politicians were confident that the public couldn't get enough. Child support was on the political agenda in every election year. Politicians in both parties continually promised to make life tougher for fathers and passed law after law to do so.

By the late 1990s life had become so desperate for a few divorced men (in more than one country) suffering psychologically from the loss of their children and constant harassment that they took guns into day-care centers and held children hostage. Do you now understand how it feels, they asked before being gunned down by police snipers.

Due to the enormous weight of one-sided reporting on the child support issue, many people are still quite unfamiliar with the problem. It is easy to find people who believe that errors can be corrected and orders adjusted to circumstances by a quick visit with a family court judge or through some simple administrative process. They have been brainwashed into believing that men generally avoid what are presumed to be fair and reasonable obligations to their children. It is difficult for them to understand that millions of ordinary citizens are fighting for their survival in the midst of a constitutional crisis.

The Constitution of the United States and the constitutions of the states define a system of checks and balances. Unreasonable orders are to be corrected on appeal. Unconstitutional laws are to be overturned by the judiciary. These are necessary safeguards against harmful, intrusive, and corrupt government behavior. But during the past twelve years the system has not functioned as designed. Everyone in government connected with child support, including judges, receive financial rewards for maintaining the centrally planned system and courts and prosecutors have cooperated to an amazing degree. This has created a situation in which no legal remedy for arbitrary and oppressive orders and overly zealous enforcement measures exists.

Some orders are so high as to be life threatening. They do not leave the person who is ordered to pay with sufficient income to support himself. Lives have been lost. But to create the order is not enough. Once bound, the system constantly threatens and harasses fathers who are unable to meet their arbitrarily assigned "obligations." Just give the situation more than two seconds thought. If you do not think that the system caused Catalino Morales to fire a gun and run for his life you do not pass elementary applied probability. You do not understand humans.

Unless the corruption in the system is dealt with and those abusing power and influence arrested and jailed, there will be more gunfights and more men brought down in the war against fathers. Some will no longer have the compassion for life that Catalino Morales displayed. Their instinct to fight when threatened will win out over flight. They will aim at police before firing and not relinquish their weapons to hostages. We will all be guilty if we do not hold those responsible for the child support system as we know it today guilty of conspiracy.

Copyright © 2002 Roger F. Gay


Roger F. Gay is a professional analyst and director of Project for the Improvement of Child Support Litigation Technology. He has also been an intensive political observer for many years culminating in a well-developed sense of honest cynicism. Other articles by Roger F. Gay can be found at Fathering Magazine and Men's News Daily.


TOPICS: Business/Economy; Constitution/Conservatism; Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Government; Miscellaneous; News/Current Events; Philosophy; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: childsupport; constitution; fathers; policestate
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To: Jerry_M
Oh, I read it alright. Are you certain that it is not you who is reading it with blinders on?
Shouldn't that read: Are you certain that it is not you who is reading writing it with blinders on?
741 posted on 08/27/2002 7:07:14 PM PDT by almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo
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To: almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo
I assumed you meant whiners...or is it winners in court you refer to?)

,,, you do know what assumption is the mother of, don't you? Winners in Court, yes. "Get over it" is a very condescending, self assured line. Here's another... "what goes around, comes around."

742 posted on 08/27/2002 7:17:14 PM PDT by shaggy eel
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To: Red Jones
Perhaps it's what Roger and others are upset over Red; however, I had a court ignore letters making threats and proving physical abuse in his own writing. I had proof that he took off with all the marital assets. I had proof of harrassment. But the court would hear none of it. I've also had over 16 years of simply trying to get any help at all out of her father...any help. Instead, he's causing her problems since he can no longer contact me...his own daughter. He causes her all kinds of grief...even asking a 17 year old to file for emancipation????

Yet a woman who would make false allegations of abuse, change the locks on the house and refuse to let her ex see the kids because her lawyer said she could or because she heard it from all her friends, or the woman demanding $1,000/mo. for one child because she doesn't want to leave welfare...those aren't the kind of women I would portray in an article dealing with deadbeats. I'd take the woman who for the past 16 years has been raising her child alone when the courts felt her case needed to be ushered out of the courtroom and the CSE consistently lied to her and her ex constantly harrassed her.

I expect no less of any FR activists who expect to be heard. If you want to make a case for something, you don't make it so inherently stupid as to do nothing but draw attention away from your cause. Unless of course that is what you're aiming for. Sometimes I wonder if the real FR activists shouldn't be more aware of who is fighting for their cause. They may not actually be on your side afterall.
743 posted on 08/27/2002 7:17:39 PM PDT by almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo
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To: almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo
Yet a woman who would make false allegations of abuse, change the locks on the house and refuse to let her ex see the kids because her lawyer said she could or because she heard it from all her friends, or the woman demanding $1,000/mo. for one child because she doesn't want to leave welfare...those aren't the kind of women I would portray in an article dealing with deadbeats.

I'd take the woman who for the past 16 years has been raising her child alone when the courts felt her case needed to be ushered out of the courtroom and the CSE consistently lied to her and her ex constantly harrassed her.

Wouldn't you want your article to acknowledge both types equally? Surely both equally represent injustices equally worth opposing.

744 posted on 08/27/2002 8:17:46 PM PDT by Right To Life
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To: Right To Life
I agree with men standing up for their parental rights, I did. I do not agree with the actions of this author's examples.
745 posted on 08/27/2002 9:21:47 PM PDT by wattsmag2
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To: wattsmag2
Ditto!
746 posted on 08/27/2002 9:24:03 PM PDT by Right To Life
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To: Jerry_M
You are not responding to what the article says.
747 posted on 08/28/2002 2:10:44 AM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo
Yes, absolutely.
748 posted on 08/28/2002 5:47:42 AM PDT by Jerry_M
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To: RogerFGay
Why should I respond? You begin with a faulty premise, i.e. this poor slob couldn't help himself because he is a victim of the system.

Rather, I see that he is irresponsible, and this fact is seen in his blindly firing shots through a door, terrorizing an innocent family at gunpoint, and barricading himself in such a way that his community is put in danger during his arrest.

This type of irresponsible behavior leads me to wonder if it wasn't also a contributing factor in the break-up of his marriage/relationship (or worse, his fathering a child with a virtual stranger) and his failure to pay for the support of his child(ren).

750 posted on 08/28/2002 5:55:44 AM PDT by Jerry_M
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To: RogerFGay
In post #719, unless you're living in the middle east and talking about their history, you simply repeated feminist propaganda.

If you have a legal dictionary, guardianship by nature is defined there. Cases listed will get you started in your research of our history. The presumption has not been argued for a good many years, not because the natural right has been superseded, but because of years of feminist propaganda.

Why is this such a scary concept?

751 posted on 08/28/2002 6:10:48 AM PDT by right2parent
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To: Right To Life
Right To Life answering almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo: Wouldn't you want your article to acknowledge both types equally? Surely both equally represent injustices equally worth opposing.

That's the problem with no-fault divorce. These injustices must enter a custody equation. No-fault may work just fine where there are no children involved.

752 posted on 08/28/2002 6:23:04 AM PDT by right2parent
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To: Jerry_M
Agreed, this man has many more problems than child support issues, but it very likely contributed to his abnormal behavior, as it surely does in other cases. This is what I have focussed on:

The new system seems designed to ruin men's lives. Decisions are arbitrarily based on statistical projections that have no basis in reality. State governments are encouraged to take as much from fathers as possible in order to increase the amount of federal funds they receive.

This is what we can do something about.

753 posted on 08/28/2002 6:29:41 AM PDT by right2parent
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To: Jerry_M
Agreed, this man has many more problems than child support issues, but it very likely contributed to his abnormal behavior, as it surely does in other cases. This is what I have focussed on:

The new system seems designed to ruin men's lives. Decisions are arbitrarily based on statistical projections that have no basis in reality. State governments are encouraged to take as much from fathers as possible in order to increase the amount of federal funds they receive.

No-fault divorce is another huge problem. These are also things we can change. Custody issues are too closely associated to talk about independently, and child support laws are certainly a factor contributing to divorce and paternity problems.

754 posted on 08/28/2002 6:39:44 AM PDT by right2parent
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To: Right To Life; right2parent
Anyone this goes to have an opinion on this prescription which they would like to post? I'd be interested to read them, if you wanted to reply to this and add right2parent in the address line as well.

OK, I'll respond.

It was long held that a father's natural right to guardianship was only overcome by proof that the child's welfare would by jepardized by leaving him in the father's care after a divorce. The burden of proof was on the accuser.

Well, as you might remember, RightToLife, my position is the opposite (and I'm assuming that's why you pinged me): As the one who carries the pregnancy and gives birth, the mother holds the "natural" right, unless the child's welfare would be jeopardized by leaving him/her in the mother's care. I agree that the burden of proof is on the accuser.

However, in contrary to Right2Parent's position on fathers, I don't think a mother should be permitted to deny partial custody to the father unless he is proven in a court of law to be dangerous for the child. Also, I set other parameters that Right2Parent doesn't seem to set: If the mother has dissolved the marriage with extramarital affairs, or if she simply has decided that she wants a divorce without a valid reason (i.e. "Gee, I just need to go out and find myself"), then the father should receive custody of the kids and property of the house.

I think all these situations could be handled well with a good pre-nuptial agreement.

That doesn't mean the mother wouldn't have a case for visitation, or that a father wouldn't be expected to allow the child to maintain that relationship, but what it does mean is there is a presumption he will make those decisions in the best interest of the child.

I disagree. In fact, I don't think the mother alone should make the decision about what's in the best interest of the child, either. The only thing I would do is to give the mother's interest slightly more weight in considering who gets custody. Otherwise, the gov't is simply turning women into living incubators for men's offspring. You could make any demand, cheat on us, or simply get sick of looking at us, and tell us to leave, and then take the children from us, too. I don't think a woman should be permitted to take children from a man without a valid reason, and I don't think a man should be permitted to do that to a woman, either.

755 posted on 08/28/2002 6:58:35 AM PDT by Tired of Taxes
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To: one_particular_harbour
No, he said he read it - and I assume that like me, he thinks that it is trash.

So you both have feelings that you feel justify talking trash. Since it's something other than what the article says that is the subject of the discussion, why don't you talk trash somewhere else? The imagined connection between your trash and the discussion is just too weak.
756 posted on 08/28/2002 6:58:46 AM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: Jerry_M
You're just making stuff up as you go along. You're not talking about what it actually says in the article.
757 posted on 08/28/2002 6:59:30 AM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: right2parent
Much of the history written about custody etc. is not the history of the United States. Even considering the history elsewhere, much of the recent historical writings about family law issues are not scholarly, but aimed at producing a picture of historical victimization of women. Your comments were "off" both ways. Considering the context in which you made the remarks (this discussion) and the fault of extreme one-sidedness (beyond the point of inaccuracy) it was apparent that you were repeating feminist propaganda rather than objectively discussing history.
758 posted on 08/28/2002 7:03:40 AM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: one_particular_harbour
You're presenting your own (extremely biased and ignorant) view rather than discussing what it says in the article.
760 posted on 08/28/2002 7:18:08 AM PDT by RogerFGay
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