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Gay priests doubts, fears grow as Church deals with abuse crisis
Dallas Morning News ^ | 7/27/2002 | Mark Wrolstad

Posted on 07/27/2002 8:06:59 AM PDT by sinkspur

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To: sinkspur
Gay Priest is a neo-redundancy.
81 posted on 07/27/2002 6:50:09 PM PDT by Old Professer
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To: A. Pole
But there is no need to let new homosexuals into seminaries. Especially that times are very corrupt and homosexuality is being promoted left and right. Being a priest is not a right or privilege, it is a service. The Catholic Church cannot afford more experimentation.

The Church can minister to homosexuals, as to any who suffer from an acute affliction. But you are right, A.Pole. The Church does not need homosexual priests. It has paid an unbelievable price in ruined lives, mental and physical anguish, a massive loss of trust and faith, among young and old alike. They couldn't have done worse if they'd tried.

82 posted on 07/27/2002 6:50:34 PM PDT by yendu bwam
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To: LadyDoc
Sin is an action, not the temptation. So God indeed does love someone who is tempted and tries to stay pure.

But improper sexual thoughts are also sinful. (A man who looks at a woman with lust in his heart...)

83 posted on 07/27/2002 6:52:06 PM PDT by yendu bwam
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To: LadyDoc
As for God not liking people who are tempted with same sex attraction: ah, if you only knew how wide and deep is the love of God who showed us this love when Jesus died for us.

God does love each and every one of us, assuredly!

84 posted on 07/27/2002 6:53:04 PM PDT by yendu bwam
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To: valkyrieanne
Why does anyone have to know about a gay priest's homosexuality at all? If he's supposed to not have sex with anyone, who needs to know? Who cares?

Being gay requires demonstration of some sort; either an announcement or a witnessed act. Absent an act, how are we to believe that a priest is gay or simply sad?

85 posted on 07/27/2002 6:54:08 PM PDT by Old Professer
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To: yendu bwam
Those priests who are active homosexual (what, 1/3 of the priesthood?) have no business being around my sons, ever.

This is the best description of the """GAY""" """PROBLEM""" in the church I've read. Note the use of quotes because it goes much deeper than Gay sex.

How about Ted Kennedy and all the crap he's pulled off.

It is the American Bishops!

86 posted on 07/27/2002 6:55:43 PM PDT by BeAllYouCanBe
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To: Old Professer
Being gay requires demonstration of some sort; either an announcement or a witnessed act. Absent an act, how are we to believe that a priest is gay or simply sad?

Great numbers of priests are shouting it from the rooftops, both in word AND IN DEED.

87 posted on 07/27/2002 6:55:44 PM PDT by yendu bwam
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To: BeAllYouCanBe
How about Ted Kennedy and all the crap he's pulled off. It is the American Bishops!

Most of them are little Ted Kennedys - so greatly concerned about intellectual political correctness - and so little concerned about the welfare of children. They are little, cowardly, banal and sometimes evil men. We deserve a million times better.

88 posted on 07/27/2002 6:58:08 PM PDT by yendu bwam
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To: Jorge
Furthermore if they even identify themselves as "gay"

Enpowerment.

They can because they have the govenment and media.

89 posted on 07/27/2002 7:02:54 PM PDT by BeAllYouCanBe
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To: A. Pole
BTW, are you a Christian, sinskspur?

Based on what I've seen from you on this forum, I'd say much more of a Christian than you.

90 posted on 07/27/2002 7:04:45 PM PDT by sinkspur
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To: yendu bwam
I can't imagine what it's like to be in your shoes. That is, Catholic with boys in the church. I think it's great that you're speaking your mind on the subject, which probably means more to some folks than a non Catholic Christian like myself speaking out on the issue.
91 posted on 07/27/2002 7:16:21 PM PDT by scripter
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To: sinkspur
"Their numbers, like those nationally, are significant in the Dallas Diocese, church officials said."

Sounds like they have really known about this all along.

Maybe the priesthood should limit their membership to Christians only.

92 posted on 07/27/2002 7:16:44 PM PDT by nightdriver
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To: sinkspur
You know, we have a holy, faithful and dedicated priest as the head of our parish. His life has been devoted to the path of Christ. I think he is heartbroken, though as with so many other priests, he bears his Cross bravely in the face of this scandal. I have never seen so much pain in a man as in his face these days. I cry inside when I see him. He almost broke down in Church the other day when discussing this, in his measured words. All I know is, he didn't deserve this. Neither did we lay Catholics who want to be guided in God's truth and lifted up by our Church.
93 posted on 07/27/2002 7:17:31 PM PDT by yendu bwam
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To: scripter; sinkspur
I can't imagine what it's like to be in your shoes. That is, Catholic with boys in the church. I think it's great that you're speaking your mind on the subject, which probably means more to some folks than a non Catholic Christian like myself speaking out on the issue.

< Hey thanks Scripter. My older son was just accepted to a very prestigious Catholic (all boys) high school in our area. 25% of those who apply are accepted. He worked hard to prepare for the tests and interviews. He is excited and ready to work hard there. But it seems like every school in our area (but this one) has been hit somehow with this sexual scandal. I want so much to believe that it won't happen here as well. But I really don't know who to trust in the Church anymore. I don't believe the bishops on anything at all. I have researched the school very, very thorougly, and there was only one incident (homosexual molestation again) over ten years ago. Still I am fearful and torn. I want so much to trust, and I want my son to obtain all the good things that the Church has to offer. But if something bad happened to my son at the hands of a priest, I would be shattered. It's unbelievable that I find myself in this position as a parent in Christ's Church. Just unbelievable.

94 posted on 07/27/2002 7:23:42 PM PDT by yendu bwam
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To: sinkspur
more of a Christian

OK, so you are more of a Christian.

95 posted on 07/27/2002 7:29:06 PM PDT by A. Pole
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To: valkyrieanne
"why does anyone need to know about a gay priest's homosexuality at all...?"

In my opinion, it boils down to the priest's opinion about his own sexuality. If the priest has gay inclinations but professes that such activity is immoral according to church doctrine, then I see no great problem.

BUT...in my experience, most of the gay priests are flaming liberals who, aside from being gay, do not believe that such a lifestyle is sinful. Thus, they are playing a dishonest game. They are (even when not practicing) attempting to hide behind tolerance to change church doctrine.

Its a question of priority....is the priest a believing catholic who happens to be gay (and who commits his life to spreading the church's doctrines of morality)....or is he a liberal who is attempting to alter the church's doctrines to suit his liberal philosophy? Is he more concerned with spreading catholocism to the world...or liberalism in the church? That is the question.

If I had my way, I'd prefer that the church ONLY ordain priests who are in a heterosexual marriage...thus by and large rendering this point moot (in ancient Judaism, one had to be married before one could be a rabbi).

96 posted on 07/27/2002 7:32:41 PM PDT by quebecois
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To: yendu bwam
Still I am fearful and torn. I want so much to trust, and I want my son to obtain all the good things that the Church has to offer. But if something bad happened to my son at the hands of a priest, I would be shattered. It's unbelievable that I find myself in this position as a parent in Christ's Church. Just unbelievable.

My advise is that you have a thougthful discussion or two with your son. Make sure that he understand what he needs to understand. Everywhere are problems and part of parenting is to instruct children when it is needed.

97 posted on 07/27/2002 7:36:27 PM PDT by A. Pole
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To: A. Pole
"If a priest CAN be celibate, then who would know or care what his orientation is?"

Are you really so naive? Imagine a few years in a close knit seminary with 50% of homosexuals. Can you imagine co-ed monastery?

Thank you! The idea that we shouldn't care what a priest's sexual orientation is as long as they are "celibate" is totally naive.
By the same token we shouldn't care if their orientation is pedofilia, bestiality, sado-masochism etc. just as long as they behave themselves. Right.
Sorry, but people with such sexual orientations do no belong in positions of such great responsibility as to be representatives of Christ.

98 posted on 07/27/2002 7:37:05 PM PDT by Jorge
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To: quebecois
Its a question of priority....is the priest a believing catholic who happens to be gay (and who commits his life to spreading the church's doctrines of morality)....or is he a liberal who is attempting to alter the church's doctrines to suit his liberal philosophy? Is he more concerned with spreading catholocism to the world...or liberalism in the church? That is the question.

Well put, M. quebecois. That is one of the central questions here.

99 posted on 07/27/2002 7:37:12 PM PDT by yendu bwam
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To: valkyrieanne
One more additional point: This whole article points to a rather ironic twist in the pedophilia scandal that is rocking the church. Namely, when it first came to the surface, most of the liberals in the church were salivating that this would be their great opportunity to push forward liberal doctrine. They thought that this affair could be used to achieve several major goals (women priests, married priests, and rendering gay conduct unsinful).

At the time, I warned the libs not to get too cocky, as this whole affair could well blow backwards against the gays in the church and their liberal apologists. Lo and behold, that seems to becoming true. The laity is angry and afraid....they see church doctrine being openly flouted by gay priests, and are seeing the top management covering for them. They are afraid for their kids, and are baying for blood.

Since I believe that gays (esp liberal ones) who join the priesthood are entering their post under false pretenses, I have little sympathy for their situation now. If they were gay, and had a sincere belief that it is merely an "alternative lifestyle"...then they had no business joining the priesthood to begin with.

100 posted on 07/27/2002 7:41:38 PM PDT by quebecois
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