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Flyboy...you aren't reading the facts. I know the mother and daughter personally. I know the havoc he has caused in their lives. The mother isn't rolling in the dough because there IS no child support coming their way, bud. Hello?!

Why would an ER Doc reduce his hours so severly as to make a pittance of a salary? His child support is 24k...he earns 15k. Who's he fooling. The answer, it would seem, is you.

I would guess you've been down a hard road with an ex-wife and hold great bitterness for her and the $ you must dole out for your kiddos. We have a choice in life...to become bitter or better. I would suggest you seek to put away your bitterness. It's not healthy to hold on to such emotion. You need to move forward onto dry land rather than remaining in muddy water.

I take it as a great insult to be referred to as a feminazi. If you continue to do so I will consider it an attack of the worst kind upon my character.

Sure, sure, right, you know the mother so you know everything about what's going on in this case, including details that the media, which has been all over this case, hasn't uncovered. Moreover, you insist on dragging them all over FR.com to lend your arguments the veneer of authority. Whatever.

You're 0 for 2 on the family situation, as neither my wife nor I have been married before nor have either of us had children out of wedlock. We're quite happy. Thanks for your concern all the same.

We do, in fact, have a choice, and it is you have chosen to be bitter. I have more respect for myself than to play amatuer psychiatrist, so I won't speculate why, but I do know that bitterness is why you have dragged me and this argument into two threads and that is why you have stooped to ad hominem arguments, calling me "flyerboy" and "swine". Using the term "feminazi" is indeed harsh but it accurately describes the POV of anyone who thinks fathers are unimportant beyond their financial contributions.

Finally, I would once again like to point out that unlike you, I have not stooped to relying on personal attacks, as you have done in both this thread and the other thread which you dragged me into. Your POV on this issue is both clouded and bankrupt. It is deserving of criticism, in fact, by dragging this argument into another thread, you have invited that criticism. I'm sorry you seem to be unable to separate your opinions from your person. I will not cease to criticize your opinions just because you would rather I not, nor will I cease to defend fatherhood despite your opinions. When you call me into a thread, I will respond. Please consider that before you do it again.