Bluntly, the cost of doing business with women has risen dramatically with feminism. No wonder guys won't commit, you'd have to be crazy to lock yourself into the death grip of most American women.
Reading betweeen the lines, the singles ads you see are like "Lesbian BBW with attitude looking for smart, handsome affectionate man ONLY if he has a great job. Want to have babies, then get divorced, after which I will keep the kids and your paycheck." At what point do guys get smart and just dump the biatches.
BBW?
Feminism didn't used to be like that - reading such luminaries as Mary Wollstonecraft reminds us that the rights of women took a very bad turn sometime in the 1960s, when they fell under the leftward swing of liberation theory and the pseudoscientific drive of better living by chemistry. A poisoned seed, and we are now reaping a poison plant.