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Massachusetts preschool tells children to stop saying 'best friend'
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Posted on 04/21/2018 5:24:06 AM PDT by Sub-Driver

Massachusetts preschool tells children to stop saying 'best friend'

By Greg Norman | Fox News

None of the students at a Massachusetts preschool have a best friend. And that's an order.

Pentucket Workshop Preschool's "best friend" policy is being blasted by a parent who says her daughter got upset after reportedly being told by a teacher she couldn’t use the term because it could make other students feel excluded.

"How do you police a 4-year-old from expressing their feelings?" Christine Hartwell, whose daughter, Julia, attends the Georgetown school, told FOX25 Boston. "It's outrageous, it's silly [and] it hurts.

Hartwell added: "When I asked her what was wrong she said she was really sad about what her teacher did that day."

The school does not spell out the policy in their handbook, according to Hartwell, but she told FOX25 Boston she got a letter from Pentucket's director.

"It has been our experience (which spans decades) that the use of the term 'best friend,' even when used in a loving way, can lead other children to feel excluded [...] which can ultimately lead to the formation of 'cliques' and 'outsiders,'" the letter was quoted as saying.

It adds the school will continue to discourage children from saying the term.

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To: Buttons12

The educator is a sad sack loser who was never invited to the in lunch table and was always an outcast by the cliques. She always was and still is a loser


21 posted on 04/21/2018 6:42:45 AM PDT by bert (RE)
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To: Sub-Driver

Is the child not allowed to ‘friend’ anyone on Facebook?

Or must they friend everyone?


22 posted on 04/21/2018 6:47:53 AM PDT by Balding_Eagle ( The Great Wall of Trump ---- 100% sealing of the border. Coming soon.)
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To: bert

The educator needs to read Ayn Rand’s “Anthem.”


23 posted on 04/21/2018 7:12:44 AM PDT by Buttons12
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To: Sub-Driver
Why can't the kids tell their teachers that “best friend” is their preferred pronoun?
24 posted on 04/21/2018 7:26:37 AM PDT by yuleeyahoo (Those are my principles, and if you do not like them...well I have others. - Groucho Marx)
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To: Sub-Driver

Close the government schools NOW!


25 posted on 04/21/2018 7:28:37 AM PDT by Petrosius
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To: Sub-Driver

Individualism is the only sin the collectivist recognize.


26 posted on 04/21/2018 7:36:51 AM PDT by E. Pluribus Unum (<img src="http://i.imgur.com/WukZwJP.gif" width=800>https://i.imgur.com/zXSEP5Z.gif)
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To: Sub-Driver

There isn’t enough bandwidth here at FR to explain it.

Metal poisoning may be the only solution, with swift delivery system used.


27 posted on 04/21/2018 7:40:25 AM PDT by ridesthemiles
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To: yuleeyahoo

I think they’re called “besties” now anyway.


28 posted on 04/21/2018 7:44:12 AM PDT by JoeRed
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To: Sub-Driver

They were not their parents favorite child...


29 posted on 04/21/2018 7:50:06 AM PDT by Vendome (I've Gotta Be Me https://youtu.be/wH-pk2vZG2M)
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To: Sub-Driver
All the folks who grew up without best friends have grown up to take over the education system and now they are out for revenge.

Bitter nasty people.

30 posted on 04/21/2018 7:55:06 AM PDT by BBell (calm down and eat your sandwiches)
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To: Sub-Driver
And just as with no scoring little league where the kids know who won the game.

The kids not in the cool kids clique know they are not in the clique.

These wanabe social engineers are not helping the kids. They should be figuring it out with the rash of school shootings that the kids who used to be jus socially awkward are being made homicidal by their interference in the normal progression of their evolution.

If left to their own devices most socially awkward individuals learn how to enter groups or form their own social groups. But because these social engineers interfere in the social development by suppressing normal development these outsiders learn a false lesson that the others are doing wrong by not accepting them are evil people deserving of punishment. The adults have tried to correct them and they still do wrong by not accepting them as they are.

31 posted on 04/21/2018 7:56:05 AM PDT by Pontiac (The welfare state must fail because it is contrary to human nature and diminishes the human spirit.)
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To: Petrosius

“Close the government schools NOW!”


Idiotic statement.

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32 posted on 04/21/2018 7:58:17 AM PDT by Mears
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To: Sub-Driver
So I guess BFF is out?


33 posted on 04/21/2018 8:00:49 AM PDT by BBell (calm down and eat your sandwiches)
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To: Sub-Driver

This “director” has an address.

I’m just saying.

L


34 posted on 04/21/2018 8:02:06 AM PDT by Lurker (President Trump isn't our last chance. President Trump is THEIR last chance.)
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To: BBell

No more playing this classic from “The English Beat”

Best Friend
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFv1kqdl2VQ


35 posted on 04/21/2018 8:02:31 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: Sub-Driver
"How do you police a 4-year-old from expressing their feelings?"

First you have to send your 4 year old to one of those kiddy prisons.

Next you have to vote to give them power and oodles of money.

The you have to pay no attention what so ever to what they are teaching until it runs over your child.

That is how.

The question is not "how" but "what". As in what are YOU going to do about it?

36 posted on 04/21/2018 8:18:04 AM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear ( Bunnies, bunnies, it must be bunnies!! Or maybe midgets....)
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To: Sub-Driver

1. They think that everyone needs a friend, and that banning best friends will force kids to spend more time with the “isolated kids”, curing all kinds of social ills.

They don’t recognize that the problem is often poor socialization of self-centered brats that is the reason no one wants to play with them, not that they are brats because no one plays with them.

2. They think that equity means everyone is equally interchangeable. Everyone is a friend, and that requires forbidding best friends to distribute the “good feelings”.

The same motivation is why liberals are saying you’re a bad meanie if a man won’t have sex with his homosexual friend even if he’s not attracted to them. That you’re bad, cruel, immoral if you don’t have sex with the ugly person who wants you. That the lesbian is contributing to oppression if she doesn’t have sex with the man in a dress attracted to her.

They look at “Brave New World” as a utopia to be created, not a dystopia to be avoided.


37 posted on 04/21/2018 8:22:39 AM PDT by tbw2
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To: Will88

You’re a bigot if you wouldn’t have sex with a gay friend
https://medusamagazine.com/youre-a-bigot-if-you-wouldnt-have-sex-with-a-gay-friend

And lesbians are getting bullied for not having sex with mentally ill men in dresses who are sexually attracted to women. It is called the “cotton ceiling”.


38 posted on 04/21/2018 8:25:16 AM PDT by tbw2
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To: Sub-Driver

These poor children. These so-called “educators” won’t let them be kids!


39 posted on 04/21/2018 8:39:01 AM PDT by EdnaMode
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To: Sub-Driver

“Best friend”.....activate alarms and sirens immediately. Code BF.


40 posted on 04/21/2018 8:47:26 AM PDT by windsorknot
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