Strong Women Should NEVER Do These Things For a Man — or Anyone Else

PopSugar ^ | April 20, 2017 | Nicole Yi

[EveningStar]

...Ladies, don't ever do the following five things for a man — or for anyone.

1. Change your appearance...

2. Compromise your passions...

3. Wait for his approval...

4. Cancel already-set plans...

5. Let him change who you are...

[Roman_War_Criminal]

Well ain’t she a catch!

Anyone who’s ever dated “women” should know that they are some of the most mentally unbalanced, depressed, compulsive, manipulative, materialistic, conniving, and childish humans you’ve ever encountered. Especially Gen-X’ers. Don’t even get me started on Millennials.

It didn’t used to be this way either. I thank Liberalism for it.

Dennis Prager said it best when he said this (and I paraphrase):

Put a woman’s brain in a man and she’ll be like “Oh my gosh, I’m free...happy”

Put a man’s brain into a woman and he’ll say “get me a gun”.

[ThanhPhero]

Filipinas, alas, are hip to American ways of doing things. They understand how to marry an American man who becomes prosperous and they can leave him and strip him of possessions and get his paycheck just as well as an American woman. They are less apt to do it than that American woman but more so than others. Vietnamese and Thai women have not progressed so far yet. They are Marriage Olympics gold.

[Dilbert San Diego]

Well said. When married, both husband and wife have to make sacrifices for the greater good. If they are mature adults, both will make those sacrificies without bitching about it.

And especially when kids are involved, you aren’t going to be a good parent or a good spouse, if you don’t put your family first.

[Sam Gamgee]

I suppose one shouldn’t change WHO they are. I think it is impossible in any case. The real you will pop out eventually.

[Conservative4Life]

I had some friends back in the late 80’s & 90’s (early 00’s) that got married back then. Their ‘soon to be wives would often brag about how they could ‘change’ their man or ‘train’ them. years later (only one couple did not have kids) when the divorces went into effect, the women were asked what happened. Their response was “He’s not the man I married, He CHANGED”

I am glad I waited for a like minded person to get married to and have children with.

[Mears]

“Vietnamese and Thai women have not progressed so far yet. They are Marriage Olympics gold.”

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So it’s just like shopping for a car?????

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[SkyDancer]

I love the looks guys give me when boarding and they see me sitting in the right seat of my Airbus in uniform going over stuff.

[SkyDancer]

Lots and lots of cats ~

[NorthMountain]

I’d rather see you in the right seat of a Twin Otter.

[ThanhPhero]

Take it how you will. Arranged and purchased marriages which are the norm in some societies work out much better than love matches. It's a long discussion. In Việt Nam, at least, women are actually freer to do what they want than in most other places in Asia. You can see the differences between city populations made up of people who have left extended families in the smaller places and the still traditional people outside the metropoli. City folks do not have families to arrange matches and their marriages turn out rather like American arrangements do, lots of divorce. In the countryside marriages are deals between families and they work much better. Divorce is easy in Việt Nam but very rare outside the big cities. An American man is every mother's dream for a mate for her daughter for several reasons and wealth is not the biggest one.

[SkyDancer]

If I was in a Twin Otter I’d be in the left seat. LOL

[Vlad The Inhaler]

A strong woman is secure in being a real woman - not a pseudo-male.

She isn’t afraid to be a woman.

She isn’t afraid to be feminine

She doesn’t feel she has to compete with or emulate men.

She isn’t afraid to be an equal partner in a marriage

She isn’t afraid to be a wife or a mother.

She isn’t scared or repulsed by a masculine man.

[NorthMountain]

If I was in a Twin Otter, I’d be doing something interesting. And I’d be telling you where to go. ;’}

Much more fun for both of us than an Airbus.

[tiki]

Exactly. I’ve done most of them for my husband at times and so has he. You live, you learn, you give, you take, it is the nature of humanity.

[SkyDancer]

Yes you are.

[TiGuy22]

1. Change your appearance...

Yes, never let any one tell you what the rest of the world sees. You’re right, dammit, and whatever you wear is right too- and if they don’t like it they can go to hell. And they should make you VP of the company too because you NEVER take good advice...
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Yes dear, you look great in those yoga pants...

[Demiurge2]

You’ve got to give a little,
Take a little,
And let your poor heart break a little...

[TiGuy22]

1. Change your appearance...

Yes, never let any one tell you what the rest of the world sees. You’re right, dammit, and whatever you wear is right too- and if they don’t like it they can go to hell. And they should make you VP of the company too because you NEVER take good advice...
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Yes dear, you look great in those yoga pants...

[farming pharmer]

I love the looks guys give me when boarding and they see me sitting in the right seat of my Airbus in uniform going over stuff.

Yeah, I'll admit that's pretty hot...

[NorthMountain]

If you get me to the test site and fly the pattern for 3-4 hours, I’ll be very happy indeed.