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The Divorce Revolution Has Bred An Army Of Woman Haters
The Federalist ^ | May 19, 2016 | W. Bradford Wilcox

Posted on 05/20/2016 7:34:08 AM PDT by C19fan

Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine I’d earn the ire of a character named Turd Flinging Monkey, the nom de plume of a popular online activist. A leader in the Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) movement, which encourages men to avoid romantic relationships with women, Monkey did not take kindly to my new Prager University video talking up the benefits of marriage for men.

In the video, I noted, among other things, that married men work harder (about 400 more hours), smarter (they’re less likely to quit without having found another job), and more successfully (they make about $16,000 more per year) than their single peers. I described these as features, not bugs, of married life for men.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: awalt; divorce; hypergamy; marriage; mgtow; pua; redpill; trp
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To: blueunicorn6

I think a lot of parents of girls are going to know the joy of bouncing their daughter’s checkbook on their knee.

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Well said!


141 posted on 05/20/2016 9:21:57 AM PDT by Bigg Red (Keep calm and Pray on.)
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To: MeganC
Sorry on the rant. Don’t give up, there’s decent women out there and I hope you find one!

What you are saying is that Not-All-Women-Are-Like-That (NAWALT). Something I've heard from plenty of people.

I counter with Enough-Women-Are-Like-That (EWALT). The time I spend looking for a NAWALT unicorn could be time better spent on me. Taking up aikido and karate again. More skydiving & scuba diving. Target practicing at the range.

I am going to go hermit mode. I will avoid women the same way I would avoid someone with Ebola. I am not going to put myself in situations where any women could even get attracted to me. I don't do jack on social media, either.

I am working on growing my own food, and I mainly shop online. I'm done with stupid games. I've already had kids; I don't need more. I can't think of anything a "romantic relationship" can give me that I can't find through substitutions. (except maybe lying, cheating, STD, burning up the credit card).

I concede the possibility that there may be actually decent women out there. I simply don't care anymore.
142 posted on 05/20/2016 9:22:10 AM PDT by baltimorepoet
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To: usconservative

Unless of course they’re bipolar and refuse treatment. Then it’s only worse and starts sooner and never ends.


143 posted on 05/20/2016 9:22:10 AM PDT by HombreSecreto (The life of a repo man is always intense)
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To: Beagle8U

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o70wMlJO3ck#t=84.868934


144 posted on 05/20/2016 9:22:59 AM PDT by Mariner (War Criminal #18)
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To: Yaelle

Love? Get a dog. /s


145 posted on 05/20/2016 9:24:48 AM PDT by HombreSecreto (The life of a repo man is always intense)
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To: Dilbert San Diego
Is marriage really a bad deal for men? Depends on the individual man and woman involved, and their relationship together, I think.

Your comment doesn't address what happens if the marriage ends.

146 posted on 05/20/2016 9:25:17 AM PDT by gogeo (Donald Trump. Because it's finally come to that.)
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To: HombreSecreto

So, you’ve met Mrs. USConservative then?


147 posted on 05/20/2016 9:27:05 AM PDT by usconservative (When The Ballot Box No Longer Counts, The Ammunition Box Does. (What's In Your Ammo Box?))
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To: null and void

One of the pieces of advice I have have given to my is to be careful where he lays his seed.


148 posted on 05/20/2016 9:27:16 AM PDT by BBell
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To: baltimorepoet

Sorry, man.


149 posted on 05/20/2016 9:27:41 AM PDT by gogeo (Donald Trump. Because it's finally come to that.)
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To: Beagle8U

Yes, well I like intelligent women — but they are always too smart to get involved with me.


150 posted on 05/20/2016 9:27:53 AM PDT by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either satire or opinion. Or both.)
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To: MeganC

151 posted on 05/20/2016 9:27:55 AM PDT by Snickering Hound
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To: Jim 0216

Everything you said is right on the mark. But I must add to it.

Re: ... women’s abandonment as keepers of the home as wives and mothers....

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This abandonment began when women started agreeing with men’s description of full-time homemaking as “not working”.


152 posted on 05/20/2016 9:29:30 AM PDT by Bigg Red (Keep calm and Pray on.)
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To: usconservative

No, but I had to deal with that scenario. Then the drug overdoses and the honking around with guys half her age, run ins with the law.

It gets better from there!

It will take me years to economically dig out, but at least I’m still alive. (she solicited my murder during the divorce but the law wouldn’t prosecute)


153 posted on 05/20/2016 9:29:47 AM PDT by HombreSecreto (The life of a repo man is always intense)
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To: CivilWarBrewing; MeganC
Also, men are NOT monogamous! Our INSTINCTIVE desire is to sleep with as many women as possible. Females once had the supreme authority to 'ground' a man with marriage in exchange for a regular and safe place to put his ****. In the '60's, females decided to give it all away for free, thus forfeiting their power over men and destroying the institution of marriage.

^^^^ Your Thoughts Megan?

154 posted on 05/20/2016 9:31:50 AM PDT by KC_Lion (Never Killary!)
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To: MeganC; DesertRhino
"You just need to be more discerning in your choice of women is all."

Notice she just obliquely declined to address the obvious point of your post...that many women, herself included, use demeaning language and ridicule in an attempt to belittle men who don't play by their rules.

155 posted on 05/20/2016 9:31:55 AM PDT by Mariner (War Criminal #18)
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To: HombreSecreto
No, but I had to deal with that scenario. Then the drug overdoses and the honking around with guys half her age, run ins with the law. It gets better from there! It will take me years to economically dig out, but at least I’m still alive. (she solicited my murder during the divorce but the law wouldn’t prosecute)

Sounds like John Entwistle in "My Wife"

156 posted on 05/20/2016 9:33:22 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: MeganC
So your Husband knows what it means to be a man.

But he was raised with that I am sure.

Boys you age were taught that by their fathers.

What did men our age say when they found out you had married an Older Successful Man?

157 posted on 05/20/2016 9:33:25 AM PDT by KC_Lion (Never Killary!)
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To: HombreSecreto

Personally, I think “Eat, Pray, Love” should be read by all men as a cautionary tale as to why to avoid marrying American women.

I’m not going to re-marry with a foreign woman either, even one from a more traditional values culture, because it would always be in the back of my mind that she is just marrying me for the money and to get into the US.


158 posted on 05/20/2016 9:35:45 AM PDT by baltimorepoet
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To: baltimorepoet
I’m done with women. Never again. I’ve learned my lessons well.

What do you get When you fall in love?

You only get lies And pain and sorrow

So far at least Until tomorrow

I'll never fall in love again

159 posted on 05/20/2016 9:37:15 AM PDT by BBell
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To: C19fan

In today’s world, marriage is a risky business venture. As someone who practices family law, I can tell you all of the war stories, but the problem lies with the no fault divorce.

Prior to the no fault regime, if you wanted a divorce you had to prove a “cause” such as adultery, insanity, incarceration, physical abuse, etc. Also, there was an action for alienation of affection. That meant that if you screwed around, the jilted spouse could bring a civil action against you for breaking up the family. Additionally, there was the social stigma of divorce. When you combine all of this, you get a strong incentive to maintain the marriage.

In the current world, people simply get tired of each other. They go to court on the grounds of irreconcilable differences, and boom, divorce is granted. Of course, there are arguments about custody and property, but it is pretty cut and dry: the community property will be divided, the kids go to mom, and the dad will pay child support at a predetermined statutory rate. It really is that simple.

I can tell you personally that in my practice, I have noticed that women are much more likely to file for divorce than men. Men might be unhappy or disappointed, but they fight like hell to keep the family together, even after catching the woman in an affair. Women on the other had have ever economic advantage to the divorce. They’ll get maintenance, child support, half of the property, and most likely qualify for every government program under the sun.

But then, once the woman is on their own, they realize that even with the man paying child support and uncle same footing part of the bill, its still not enough to get by. This is when the woman will usually, ape to the lowest common denominator and shack up with the first man that offers her the opportunity. This is where it get dangerous for the kids because the woman is willing to overlook character flaws in the man in the name of economic security (think drunk, physical/verbal abuser, sexual pervert, etc I’ve seen it all).

So, you wonder why men are ticked at women when their ex-wife takes half of their property, 1/3 of their paycheck, the kids, and shacks up with some drunk loser that slaps his kids around? You wonder why the younger generation that grew in that environment or have been exposed to it have a grudge against women and marriage?


160 posted on 05/20/2016 9:37:39 AM PDT by WilliamCooper1
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