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Dear America: Pause A Bit Before You Wed Donald Trump
The Federalist ^ | February 18, 2016 | Cheryl Magness

Posted on 02/18/2016 7:14:59 PM PST by Fester Chugabrew

Hey there, honey. It's me, Cheryl. I just got the "save the date" announcement for your impending nuptials. Looks like you're planning on a November wedding. That will certainly be a beautiful time of year to get married, and I am glad to see you so excited and full of hope. You deserve some happiness.

Here's the thing, though. I've been watching you with this guy Donald for a while now, and I'm concerned. I know how loudly he professes his love for you. He's taken you to some amazing parties and promised you an incredible future. After the way you were treated by the last guy, it must be exciting to have found someone who seems to put you on a pedestal. I can understand why you think he's the one you've been waiting for.

But I have to be honest — I am worried about you. When I look at you with him, I see red flags everywhere. I just don't trust the guy. So I'm going to take a deep breath and tell you what I think you need to hear, whether you want to or not. It's what your parents would say if they were still around (may they rest in peace).

Don't Expect Him to Change

First, you need to remember what your mama always taught you: you cannot fix someone. What you see is what you get, and a wedding isn't going to change that. So if he gambles too much now, he'll gamble too much then. If he insults and calls people names and uses foul language now, he'll do it then. If he lies now, he'll lie later.

He never asks you what you think, but tells you what you ought to think.

He may say he will clean up his act after the wedding, but he won't. You only need to look at the way he treats others now to know how he will treat you later. If you think he will be better with you, you are wrong.

Second, marriage is not supposed to be a dictatorship, but a two-way street. I have watched you around this guy and it seems you are always in the shadows and he is in the forefront. He never asks you what you think, but tells you what you ought to think. He makes all the decisions, and if you disagree with him on something, you are stupid.

You know, you are your own person, with your own history and identity and worth. You had a life before him. But he doesn't seem interested in that. Instead, he wants to start from scratch and remake you in his own image. That is not love but narcissism. I am afraid if you marry this guy you are going to lose yourself forever.

Third, I know that our politically correct culture has been oversold on the value of sensitivity. But that doesn't mean you should throw the baby out with the bathwater. Gentleness and sensitivity are good things. So are thoughtfulness and caring.

In fact, sometimes strength is exhibited best in the exercise of restraint.

Yes, you want someone who is strong and who will stand up for you, protect and defend you. But a man can be strong as well as sensitive. The best men are both. In fact, sometimes strength is exhibited best in the exercise of restraint. But restraint isn't anywhere in this guy's vocabulary that I can see.

Look, I know you were bullied and abused by the last guy. But the answer is not to yoke yourself to another bully. Please don't make the same mistake again. It's not too late to reconsider. You are beautiful and smart and have so much to offer. You've just had a rough run of it lately and have lost your confidence. But you deserve so much better.

This guy—he doesn't really care about you. He doesn't want to serve you; he wants to lord over you, put you on his arm and parade you around to all his friends, a new trophy added to his collection. Don't let him do that to you. Don't be his trophy. Be the independent-minded, thoughtful, intelligent, and self-respecting woman you were brought up to be.

And, hey, when you're ready, there's someone I'd like to introduce you to. His name is Ted.

Love,

Cheryl


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Government; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: 1stcanadiansenator; caution; election; gangof14; president; proamnestypiece; propagandadujour; tds; tdscoffeclutch; tedspacificpartners; trump; usualsuspect; willthemudstick
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The above is mildly-put. It is not in our best interest to elect an unseasoned, unprincipled, self-interested mega-star to the highest office of the United States of America.
1 posted on 02/18/2016 7:14:59 PM PST by Fester Chugabrew
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To: Fester Chugabrew

2 posted on 02/18/2016 7:18:39 PM PST by Helicondelta
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To: Fester Chugabrew

Here are our choices:

1) A politician bought and paid for by special interests

2) A special interest (Trump) who has bought and paid for politicians.


3 posted on 02/18/2016 7:18:52 PM PST by VerySadAmerican (Crouch down and lick the hands which feed you. - Sam Adams)
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To: Fester Chugabrew
You could substitute the R Establishment for Trump in that letter and it would be true.

Do you REALLY think Trump is more dishonest, more narcissistic, more of a liar than the current Republican leadership?

4 posted on 02/18/2016 7:19:21 PM PST by tinyowl (A equals A)
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To: Fester Chugabrew

No, let’s nominate an owned hack that most definitely won’t win the general ...


5 posted on 02/18/2016 7:20:31 PM PST by Neu Pragmatist (Will Cruz endorse Trump or Jeb? That is the question... Vote Trump)
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To: Fester Chugabrew

Waaaaaaaah. Yummy tears.


6 posted on 02/18/2016 7:20:41 PM PST by The Toll
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To: Helicondelta

Right on time, like its your job or something


7 posted on 02/18/2016 7:20:45 PM PST by BlueStateMadness (Two commonly violated premises: you can save people from themselves, and the free lunch myth)
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To: Fester Chugabrew

Well, this article just makes me want to hold hands with Ted Cruz and talk about the importance of my feelings.

That will bring jobs back to the country. GO TED CRUZ!


8 posted on 02/18/2016 7:20:45 PM PST by 20yearsofinternet (Border: Close it. Illegals: Deport. Muslims: Ban 'em. Economy: Liberate it. PC: Kill it. Trump 2016)
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To: Fester Chugabrew

Remember, negotiations are fluid. Remain calm and don’t settle easily. If you have the goods, you will ultimately win.


9 posted on 02/18/2016 7:20:54 PM PST by pilgrim
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To: Fester Chugabrew

Wow - you characters are coming out of the woodwork!

You go ahead and vote for Jeb or Hillary.


10 posted on 02/18/2016 7:21:18 PM PST by Chainmail (A simple rule of life: if you can be blamed, you're responsible.)
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To: VerySadAmerican

Not to mention he’s not eligible like Obama isnt.


11 posted on 02/18/2016 7:21:29 PM PST by hope
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To: VerySadAmerican

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12 posted on 02/18/2016 7:22:04 PM PST by Parmy
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To: Fester Chugabrew

Oh great, let’s all go stupid in soccermomvillebrain.


13 posted on 02/18/2016 7:23:40 PM PST by Talisker (One who commands, must obey.)
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To: Fester Chugabrew
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14 posted on 02/18/2016 7:24:25 PM PST by digger48
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To: Helicondelta

Nice train . . . WRECK!


15 posted on 02/18/2016 7:24:37 PM PST by Fester Chugabrew (Diversity is Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama sharing the same jail cell.)
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To: Fester Chugabrew

Marrying Hillary would be like marrying two or three ex-wives mixed with nurse Ratchet. Marrying Bernie would be like marrying the old guy in the retirement center who always grouses about the portions at the buffet. Trump would not be the worst choice.


16 posted on 02/18/2016 7:25:17 PM PST by SERKIT ("Blazing Saddles" explains it all.......)
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17 posted on 02/18/2016 7:26:56 PM PST by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: Fester Chugabrew

Too late. Wedding dress on, off and cherry popped!

GO TRUMP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


18 posted on 02/18/2016 7:28:00 PM PST by bigtoona (Lose on amnesty, socialism cemented in place forever Trump is the only hope.)
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To: Fester Chugabrew

If the Framers have believed America should be governed only by seasoned, unprincipled, establishment politicos, they would have included that in the Constitutional qualities required for the job.


19 posted on 02/18/2016 7:30:30 PM PST by sparklite2 ( "The white man is the Jew of Liberal Fascism." -Jonah Goldberg)
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To: Fester Chugabrew

Trump has worked with tens of thousands of people in projects around the country and around the world.

If they have criticism or complaints about trump, where is it??


20 posted on 02/18/2016 7:31:45 PM PST by aMorePerfectUnion (SC - Feb. 13, 2015 .....BREAKING.... Vulgarian Resistance begins attack on the GOPe Death Star.....)
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