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1 posted on 11/10/2012 8:15:11 AM PST by RoosterRedux
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Check out this letter to the editor of the NYT earlier this year. (July 13, 2012) The plot thickens.

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/07/15/magazine/a-message-from-beyond.html?_r=0

MY WIFE’S LOVER

“My wife is having an affair with a government executive. His role is to manage a project whose progress is seen worldwide as a demonstration of American leadership. (This might seem hyperbolic, but it is not an exaggeration.) I have met with him on several occasions, and he has been gracious. (I doubt if he is aware of my knowledge.) I have watched the affair intensify over the last year, and I have also benefited from his generosity. He is engaged in work that I am passionate about and is absolutely the right person for the job. I strongly feel that exposing the affair will create a major distraction that would adversely impact the success of an important effort. My issue: Should I acknowledge this affair and finally force closure? Should I suffer in silence for the next year or two for a project I feel must succeed? Should I be “true to my heart” and walk away from the entire miserable situation and put the episode behind me?” NAME WITHHELD

Don’t expose the affair in any high-profile way. It would be different if this man’s project was promoting some (contextually hypocritical) family-values platform, but that doesn’t appear to be the case. The only motive for exposing the relationship would be to humiliate him and your wife, and that’s never a good reason for doing anything. This is between you and your spouse. You should tell her you want to separate, just as you would if she were sleeping with the mailman. The idea of “suffering in silence” for the good of the project is illogical. How would the quiet divorce of this man’s mistress hurt an international leadership initiative? He’d probably be relieved.

The fact that you’re willing to accept your wife’s infidelity for some greater political good is beyond honorable. In fact, it’s so over-the-top honorable that I’m not sure I believe your motives are real. Part of me wonders why you’re even posing this question, particularly in a column that is printed in The New York Times.

Your dilemma is intriguing, but I don’t see how it’s ambiguous. Your wife is having an affair with a person you happen to respect. Why would that last detail change the way you respond to her cheating? Do you admire this man so much that you haven’t asked your wife why she keeps having sex with him? I halfway suspect you’re writing this letter because you want specific people to read this column and deduce who is involved and what’s really going on behind closed doors (without actually addressing the conflict in person). That’s not ethical, either.


2 posted on 11/10/2012 8:17:46 AM PST by Travis McGee (www.EnemiesForeignAndDomestic.com)
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She has claws in there?


3 posted on 11/10/2012 8:17:53 AM PST by RichInOC (Palin 2016: The Perfect Storm.)
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Everything made sense

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4 posted on 11/10/2012 8:19:41 AM PST by frithguild (You can call me Snippy the Anti-Freeper)
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Not bad. Not bad at all...

6 posted on 11/10/2012 8:22:11 AM PST by isthisnickcool (Sharia? No thanks!)
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I guess we know why she titled the book, “All In”.


9 posted on 11/10/2012 8:23:29 AM PST by dfwgator
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For goodness sake. The blame game begins. Both parties are guilty. But if you want to blame the woman, it only highlights what a weak soul Petraus was.

Maybe she should have been the head of the CIA since she supposedly ruled the actual head of the CIA.

11 posted on 11/10/2012 8:25:20 AM PST by CaptainK (...please make it stop. Shake a can of pennies at it.)
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'Got Her Claws Into Him'

Of course. It's all her fault.

"It wasn't me, Lord, it was the woman..." (Adam)

22 posted on 11/10/2012 8:37:14 AM PST by newheart (The greatest trick the left ever pulled was convincing the world it was not a religion.)
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BS, no rooster gets hen plucked without a priapic salute.


23 posted on 11/10/2012 8:37:18 AM PST by Cyman
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Petraeus was a potential GOP nominee for 2012.

Obama’s team does great opposition research (using the FBI).

The Obama team plays chess well.


25 posted on 11/10/2012 8:37:57 AM PST by Erik Latranyi (When religions have to beg the gov't for a waiver, we are already under socialism.)
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Honor Code, eh?


32 posted on 11/10/2012 8:48:34 AM PST by onedoug
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Does anyone have any of the Petraeus family photos that she featured so much in her book?

Would love to see some of them, please.

42 posted on 11/10/2012 8:58:25 AM PST by LADY J (You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have. - Author Unknown)
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I despise anybody that cheats on their spouse. I have been married for 29 years and have never ever thought about doing that. In my business over the years I’ve known clients and acquaintances that have cheated and carried on affairs and it just kills me that I can’t say anything. Most of the participants are single women after high profiled Corporate men at the top and are leaches. They know exactly what they are doing.


45 posted on 11/10/2012 9:00:26 AM PST by coconut47
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Why isn’t she a victim?


52 posted on 11/10/2012 9:07:46 AM PST by BuddaBudd (F U B O)
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He's by no means the first, and it's for certain sure he won't be the last.

The timing is very interesting, however.

55 posted on 11/10/2012 9:11:49 AM PST by Jim Noble (Diseases desperate grown are by desperate appliance relieved or not at all.)
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Was Paula connected to Obama’s coven by chance? Inquiring minds want to know.....


67 posted on 11/10/2012 9:39:03 AM PST by txrefugee
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It’s interesting to hear that Broadwell is a West Point graduate too........


69 posted on 11/10/2012 9:42:39 AM PST by Hot Tabasco (Jab her with a harpoon.....)
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I think this is just another Fluke.


70 posted on 11/10/2012 9:47:38 AM PST by Sacajaweau (r)
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Within the Army, it was hard to criticize Petraeus. He was a one star, I think, when he was put in charge of training the Iraqi police. They had their first graduation of recruits and two car bombs go off at the graduation. They interviewed Petraeus, who was there, and he mumbled. I made the comment that this guy is an idiot, and man, did I get yelled at. The sad truth is that Petraeus is trim and a good distance runner and that is what has mattered in the Army for the past 30 years. Good, skinny runners who aren’t smart enough to figure out how to win.


71 posted on 11/10/2012 9:51:46 AM PST by blueunicorn6 ("A crack shot and a good dancer")
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Crazy eyes...

Always a bad sign!

91 posted on 11/10/2012 10:38:34 AM PST by BenLurkin (This is not a statement of fact. It is either opinion or satire; or both)
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What information did she obtain from him and where did it go?.


101 posted on 11/10/2012 11:16:15 AM PST by Vaduz
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