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Five Reasons to Oppose Gay Marriage
Townhall.com ^ | February 17, 2012 | John Hawkins

Posted on 02/17/2012 4:43:39 AM PST by Kaslin

1) Gay marriage is incompatible with Christianity (and for that matter, Islam & Judaism). If someone asks you why you oppose gay marriage, the only thing you really have to say to explain it is, "I'm a Christian."

God doesn't condemn anyone for who he is; so if you're attracted to the same sex, that absolutely, unconditionally doesn't make you bad, evil or "un-Christian." On the other hand, let me note that I do consider hating, tormenting, or bullying people because of their sexual orientation to be distinctively "un-Christian" behavior. As Billy Graham has said, “God will not judge a Christian guilty for his or her involuntary feelings.” However, God has drawn a clear line in the sand when it comes to homosexual acts. If you're gay, you're not allowed to act on it. If that seems harsh or unfair to you, well, sorry, but you'll have to take it up with God. It's His rule.

"Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is an abomination." -- Leviticus 18:22

The people of Sodom and Gomorrah could tell you how serious God is about that -- if there were any of them left. So as a Christian, you can no more condone gay marriage than you could give the thumbs up to prostitution or wife swapping. That means if you're a Christian standing in favor of gay marriage, then you're a Christian who's standing directly in opposition to the God whom you claim to worship.

2) Gay marriage will end up infringing on religious freedom. The moment gay marriage becomes the law of the land, all sorts of First Amendment freedoms involving the free exercise of people's religion will likely be infringed upon as a consequence. No pastor should be forced to marry a gay couple. No wedding photographer, cake maker, caterer, or wedding planner should be forced to be involved in these weddings. No church or any other location should be forced to be the site of a gay wedding. Children will be taught in schools that gay marriage is normal, legal, and moral -- and it directly contradicts the teachings of Christianity, Judaism, and Islam. To create this special privilege for gay Americans would mean impinging on the First Amendment rights of more than 200 million Americans.

3) Civil unions could confer every "right" that marriage does. Gay marriage is not about "rights;" it's about special privileges. After all, every right conferred upon a couple via marriage could be just as easily conferred on a gay couple via a civil union, which is a compromise that could probably be had if gay activists wanted it. In fact, the biggest objection conservatives have had to civil unions is that there's a fear they'd be used as a stepping stone to gay marriage. So, let's be clear: there are actually no "rights" whatsoever at stake in the push for gay marriage.

Instead, what gay activists are looking for is a special privilege of the worst sort because it's as much about dragging everyone else down as it is about raising everyone up. To accommodate gay marriage, the whole meaning of marriage has to be warped and twisted. The religious content has to be taken out and marriage has to become just one more reason to file paperwork with the government.

So, this isn't really so much about marriage per se as it is an attempt to force society and religion to accept gay unions as every bit as normal and healthy as straight relationships, which will never truly happen. You might be able to intimidate some people into silence with political correctness, but the truth is still there and people know it, even if they don't want to be screamed at and accused of being bigots for pointing out the obvious.

4) Gay marriage may be where it starts, but it wouldn't be where it ends. Once the definition of marriage is arbitrarily transformed to make gay activists happy, there's no chance it's going to stop there. For example, you could make a much better case for polygamy than you can for gay marriage. It has a much more robust historical tradition, it's more consistent with religious values, it produces children -- there simply is no compelling, logical reason why gay marriage should become the law of the land without also granting polygamy the same legal status.

Furthermore, once that door is opened, where does it stop? How about brother and sister? Marrying the dead sound any better? How does man and dog strike you? Adults marrying children? How does marrying a tree or a clay urn hit you?

People get outraged by this sort of comparisons, but this isn't just speculation; these are unions that have occurred in other countries. So, if it has happened somewhere else, you can be sure some wacko will want to do it here, some lawyer will decide marrying your sister is a civil right, and some liberal judge will agree with him. Next thing you know, anyone who opposes it is accused of being George Wallace and trying to stop the progress of civil rights. Sound farfetched? Well, isn't that exactly what happened with gay marriage?

5) Marriage already has enough problems as it is without gay marriage. One of the weirdest arguments in favor of gay marriage goes like so: Marriage is already on the rocks. Look at all the people cheating, look at all the divorces; so why not gay marriage, too?

This is like arguing that someone has already accidentally eaten some rat poison; so why not give him some cyanide to go along with it? When someone's sick, you don't make him sicker, you heal him. If marriage has been tarnished in our society -- and it has -- we should be looking for ways to strengthen marriage, not weaken it.

Sure, if gay marriage were to become legal tomorrow, you wouldn't have legions of people who are already married running off to get divorced. But, gay marriage would further degrade the religious element of marriage, cut down on the "sacredness" of it, and make it less of a special event. That would cause people to put less value on marriage, make them less likely to get married in the first place, and make them more likely to get divorced. This leads to more children being born out of wedlock and kids from single parents are more likely to commit suicide, take drugs, go to jail, drop out of high school, etc., etc. in every category that matters than kids from two parent families. You can already see this starting to play out in Sweden, Norway, and Denmark and you'll see it happen here, too, if gay marriage becomes the law of the land.


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To: lentulusgracchus; TheOldLady; darkwing104; Old Sarge; Norm Lenhart

Hey hey hey!!!

A well deserved zotting.


81 posted on 02/17/2012 1:46:34 PM PST by little jeremiah (We will have to go through hell to get out of hell)
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To: sickoflibs

Yes, referendums are a great way to change things, and get information out. As well as contact elected representatives, sometimes they listen....


82 posted on 02/17/2012 1:47:41 PM PST by little jeremiah (We will have to go through hell to get out of hell)
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To: little jeremiah
RE :”If each person did whatever he could do, things would improve. I help run the homosexual agenda ping list, give information to people, talk to people in my actual life, and so on. I have no money to donate to good causes, or I would do that as well. Whining about losing is the very best way to lose wars

I talk to people here and none of them really care. They buy the ‘let them be happy’ argument. Most love Obama, the 30% that doesnt are not the least bit interested.

The work discrimination laws in Maryland cover gays so talking about the issue at any job here is dangerous, in fact the state government pushes employers to encourage gay support groups at work under diversity goals.

When I saw that FNC wouldn't talk about the DADT repeal in any meaningful way, I knew we were screwed. FNC may not be perfect, but it has a huge Republican audience.

Just wait till they start putting gay war heroes on TV whining about wanting to get married, yuk!

83 posted on 02/17/2012 1:59:39 PM PST by sickoflibs (You MUST support the lesser of two RINOs or we all die!)
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To: Logic n' Reason; TheOldLady; Old Sarge; MestaMachine; shibumi; little jeremiah

It appears that Logic n’ Reason decided to ride the lightning........

Adios, homosexual agena pusher!!

ZOT! ping!


84 posted on 02/17/2012 2:28:45 PM PST by Absolutely Nobama (NO COMPROMISE! NO RETREAT! NO SURRENDER! I AM A CONSERVATIVE! CASE CLOSED!)
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To: Logic n' Reason; 50mm; darkwing104; Arrowhead1952; Darksheare; onyx; TheOldLady; Lady Jag; ...


85 posted on 02/17/2012 3:29:06 PM PST by Old Sarge (RIP FReeper Skyraider (1930-2011) - You Are Missed)
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To: Logic n' Reason; Old Sarge; darkwing104; Darksheare; 50mm; TheOldLady
OK...now give me five good reasons against gay marriage without referring to god, religion, or the bible directly or indirectly.

I'll let God respond in due time. Which will occur at precisely the time you realize you were wrong about Him.

Meanwhile...

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86 posted on 02/17/2012 3:40:02 PM PST by bcsco
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To: Old Sarge

Fantastic, LOL! Thanks for the ping!


87 posted on 02/17/2012 4:13:25 PM PST by CatherineofAragon (I can haz Romney's defeat?)
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To: Logic n' Reason

The taxonomy of a species defined by reproduction.

Do humans reproduce homosexually?

Can two males produce offspring by themselves, without a surrogate?

NO.


88 posted on 02/17/2012 4:48:01 PM PST by LomanBill (Animals! The DemocRats blew up the windmill with an Acorn!)
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To: Logic n' Reason
>>What ever happened to "god bless diversity!!"

It got ZOTted.  Like it always does.


89 posted on 02/17/2012 4:52:56 PM PST by LomanBill (Animals! The DemocRats blew up the windmill with an Acorn!)
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To: MrB

[One of Nietzsche’s tenets was that holding all men to a common morality was detrimental to the higher men.]

The due penalty for perversion is the same regardless of socioeconomic status.


90 posted on 02/17/2012 5:08:28 PM PST by LomanBill (Animals! The DemocRats blew up the windmill with an Acorn!)
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To: trailhkr1
[Most people my age I know are somewhat conservative or at the very least moderate because we know we are going to get this financial mess of a country that was not our doing.]

That's bullshyte.

Look closer.   Observe the progressive Rainbow symbol of Ameriquest Mortgage...

...and the young 20-something-year-old Useful Idiots who facilitated YOUR financial slavery:

 

" As a 19 then 20 year old boy, my managers and handlers taught me the ins and outs of mortgage fraud, drugs, sex, and money, money, and more money. My friend and manager handed out crystal methamphetamine to loan officers in a bid to keep them up and at work longer hours. At any given moment inside the restrooms - cocaine and meth was being snorted by my estimates more than a third of the staff, and more than half the staff manipulating documents to get loans to fund and more then 75% just completely made falses tatements on 1003s regarding stated income etc to get loans funded. A typical welcome aboard gift was a pair of scissors, tape, and white out, three things a loan officer or financial professional should never need.. Of course no where in training OR in management training did this 20 year old ever learn that false statements on a 1003 were a federal offense. Overall in the two and half years I was at Ameriquest I funded over $90,000,000 in mortgages, of which more then$75,000,000 contained some sorts of material frauds undetected by management and funders..."

Fugitive financier arrested at U.S. border
globeandmail.com ^ | Feb. 12, 2009 | via AP

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/2184646/posts?page=8

 

Now, how did that happen?  Well FRiend - here's a clue:

 

"According to my opinion, and the opinions of many defectors of my caliber, only about 15% of time, money, and manpower is spent on espionage as such. The other 85% is a slow process which we call either ideological subversion, active measures, or psychological warfare. What it basically means is: to change the perception of reality of every American that despite of the abundance of information no one is able to come to sensible conclusions in the interest of defending themselves, their families, their community, and their country.
 
It's a great brainwashing process which goes very slow and is divided into four basic stages.
 
The first stage being "demoralization"...

It takes from 15 to 20 years to demoralize a nation. Why that many years? Because this is the minimum number of years required to educate one generation of students in the country of your enemy exposed to the ideology of [their] enemy. In other words, Marxism-Leninism ideology is being pumped into the soft heads of at least 3 generation of American students without being challenged or counterbalanced by the basic values of Americanism; American patriotism."
--KGB Defector Yuri Bezmenov
--Soviet Subversion of the Free Press (Ideological subversion, Destabilization, CRISIS - and the KGB)
 
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/2095202/posts
 
 
Don't need no Weatherman to see which way the perverted wind blws.
 
"Behind the Violence, Says Jane Alpert, Was Sex"

--November 09, 1981--
"The leaders of the Weather Underground, she believes, followed a similar pattern of constantly shifting sexual alliances..."

http://www.people.com/people/archive/article/0,,20080637,00.html

"He [Bill Ayers] also writes about the Weathermen's sexual experimentation as they tried to 'smash monogamy.' The Weathermen were 'an army of lovers,' he says, and describes having had different sexual partners, including his best male friend."

Source: New York Times, September 11, 2001: "No Regrets for a Love Of Explosives; In a Memoir of Sorts, a War Protester Talks of Life With the Weathermen"
http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9F02E1DE1438F932A2575AC0A9679C8B63&sec=&spon=&pagewanted=1

"...the Weathermen, when not engaged in group sex, committed such revolutionary acts as parading with a Viet Cong flag through a local park on Independence Day and spray-painting the walls of a high school with the slogans, "Off the Pigs," "Viet Cong Will Win," and "F#$k U.S. Imperialism."..."

Campus Wars: The Peace Movement At American State Universities in the Vietnam Era

"What happens next bears watching closely, as does the response of the president, ex-Speaker Pelosi, and others on the left. Encouraged by leftists in the Democratic Party and funded by left-leaning nonprofit organizations and celebrity contributors, Occupy Wall Street may in time morph into something resembling the radical factions of the late 1960s and 1970s."

http://www.americanthinker.com/2011/10/predicting_the_weatherman.html

 

The Osawatomie Coincidence

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/2818309/posts

 
 

91 posted on 02/17/2012 5:25:20 PM PST by LomanBill (Animals! The DemocRats blew up the windmill with an Acorn!)
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To: Logic n' Reason

>>Kind of opinionated and biased, aren’t we??

Kind of ZOTted aren’t we?

Keep your perverted thieving hands out of my reproductive resources.


92 posted on 02/17/2012 5:35:43 PM PST by LomanBill (Animals! The DemocRats blew up the windmill with an Acorn!)
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To: Old Sarge

ROTFLOL! I like the Noot laugh you’ve added. It’s contagious...hehehh


93 posted on 02/17/2012 6:14:34 PM PST by little jeremiah (We will have to go through hell to get out of hell)
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To: massgopguy

Wow, I didn’t know all that. Unfreakingbelievable. What a hell hole.


94 posted on 02/17/2012 6:20:07 PM PST by little jeremiah (We will have to go through hell to get out of hell)
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To: Logic n' Reason

She did what she felt was her job. Caring for people.


But you hate us bigots - do you think Mother Theresa hated “us bigots” the way you do? So it’s good to think homosexuals are lovely people, and it’s good to think those who condemn same sex acts as hateful bigots...

(I realize you’re gone now, if I’d had the time, I would have asked you earlier.)


95 posted on 02/17/2012 6:24:35 PM PST by little jeremiah (We will have to go through hell to get out of hell)
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To: sickoflibs

Even if the people you talk to don’t care now, if you give them factual information, they may remember in the future and start to care. I used to be a very hardcore leftist. People can and do change. And many states in the midwest, south and west are not as liberal as the east coast (thank GOD!).


96 posted on 02/17/2012 6:33:35 PM PST by little jeremiah (We will have to go through hell to get out of hell)
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To: Logic n' Reason; 50mm; darkwing104; Arrowhead1952; Darksheare; onyx; TheOldLady; Lady Jag; ...

You're A Homo!!

97 posted on 02/17/2012 7:49:31 PM PST by DarthVader (Politicians govern out of self interest, Statesmen govern for a Vision greater than themselves)
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To: Logic n' Reason

The thread is about so called gay marriage

Yuh parsimonious tard.


98 posted on 02/17/2012 7:57:57 PM PST by Vendome (Don't take life so seriously, you won't live through it anyway)
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To: Kaslin

Only need one reason, it’s absurd.

I first heard of the concept when Vermont legalized civil unions, before that I never conceived of it. I never tried to wear gloves on my feet either.


99 posted on 02/17/2012 8:05:02 PM PST by Impy (Don't call me red.)
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To: Kaslin

Logical and reasonable points, politely presented... Gotta be a new low for hate speech. These hateful people who don’t want to grant special privileges to all these homosexuals who only want total acceptance of their loving and normal perversions are totally sickening. Such speech needs to be banned, just like it is in Canada and the UK... Oh, wait. It almost IS!!!


100 posted on 02/17/2012 8:09:07 PM PST by dcwusmc (A FREE People have no sovereign save Almighty GOD!!! III OK We are EVERYWHERE!!!)
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