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My Bad? (vanity)

Posted on 06/12/2009 6:56:18 AM PDT by MNDude

Yesterday I met with a loan officer along with a liberal woman who has been working as a consultant for my business. During my conversation to the woman from the loan company, I mentioned in casual conversation "There's this girl that works here who is from the same city you are."

Later that afternoon I received the following email from the liberal consultant:

"Subject: DUE RESPECT Please stop referring to females as "girls". You kept using that word during our meeting today with Debbie & Anna when you talked about your company. Any female in the business world will be highly offended if referred to as a girl. You may even prejudice someone against you (hint: she won't recommend the loan). We don't refer to you as "boys". Thank you"

Wow, I'd like to know if I was out of line, or if I should show this PC woman the door.


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1 posted on 06/12/2009 6:56:18 AM PDT by MNDude
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I would fire the consultant.....


2 posted on 06/12/2009 6:57:57 AM PDT by martinidon
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Sounds like a pissy feminist to me. You might ask if that is written in the law somewhere? Surely there is ROOM for individuals to speak freely, in obama’s new America.


3 posted on 06/12/2009 6:58:00 AM PDT by bboop (obama, little o, not a Real God)
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Thin skin=meet door

I’m a chick. Most of my friends are men. Now you know why.


4 posted on 06/12/2009 6:58:29 AM PDT by Daisyjane69
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I would refer to her the next time as a female. “I’d like to introduce you to this female.” Or you could use a better description - it has 5 letters and it doesn’t begin with “W”.

This is from a “female.”


5 posted on 06/12/2009 6:58:41 AM PDT by Thank You Rush
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Plus, she couldn’t just say it quietly in your presence? And she is your CONSULTANT? off with her head/ figuratively of course.


6 posted on 06/12/2009 6:58:41 AM PDT by bboop (obama, little o, not a Real God)
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I second that motion; fire the woman.


7 posted on 06/12/2009 6:59:07 AM PDT by ExTexasRedhead
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I would show her the door. We have to stop bending to their pressure, I am female and don't find it disrespectful. Find yourself a nice, conservative rep/firm to deal with.
8 posted on 06/12/2009 6:59:26 AM PDT by joesjane (The strength of the pack is the wolf - Rudyard Kipling)
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To: Daisyjane69

Yes, I agree — I like men, too. Maybe that’s the difference.


9 posted on 06/12/2009 6:59:27 AM PDT by bboop (obama, little o, not a Real God)
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Show her the door without warning her it may hit her on the way out.


10 posted on 06/12/2009 6:59:37 AM PDT by wastedyears (Rock and roll ain't worth the name if it don't make ya strut)
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I would apologize to her profusely while making all the necessary arrangements to replace her.


11 posted on 06/12/2009 7:00:05 AM PDT by DariusBane (Even the Rocks shall cry out "Hobamma to the Highest")
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First of all....FIRE THAT WOMAN! Why have the devil in your business.

Second, I OWN a commercial real estate business in Florida. I would have/and don’t have, any problem with being referred to as a girl. I AM a girl. Good grief.

This is a very insecure woman who has no business consulting YOU.


12 posted on 06/12/2009 7:00:45 AM PDT by spacejunkie01
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I’m a female, and I think this is ridiculous. Show her the door.


13 posted on 06/12/2009 7:00:47 AM PDT by Nea Wood (Silly liberal . . . paychecks are for workers!)
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To: MNDude

Be very leary about doing business with any protected class.


14 posted on 06/12/2009 7:00:56 AM PDT by monocle
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To: MNDude

Send her an email that says “You go girl!”


15 posted on 06/12/2009 7:00:57 AM PDT by DouglasKC
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-- I would fire the consultant... --

I concur. I would wait about 5 days, then I would terminate the contract without giving a reason. I would refuse to provide substantive feedback to the fired consultant, and I would work backchannels with other businesses to reduce the volume of new work this consultant obtains.

16 posted on 06/12/2009 7:01:19 AM PDT by Cboldt
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That was rude, dude; she’s sure got a ‘tude. Tell her you’re not in the mood!


17 posted on 06/12/2009 7:01:26 AM PDT by Jagman
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I join the crowd that says fire the consultant — she’s a ticking timebomb, and she’ll take someone to court at some point for offending her. Don’t let it be you.


18 posted on 06/12/2009 7:01:38 AM PDT by ClearCase_guy (We are a ruled people, serfs to the Federal Oligarchy -- and the Tree of Liberty thirsts)
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I WOULDN’T have..(should’ve said :))


19 posted on 06/12/2009 7:02:05 AM PDT by spacejunkie01
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To: MNDude

I certainly wouldn’t be paying her to pepper me with her pantload of PC cr@p.


20 posted on 06/12/2009 7:02:44 AM PDT by The_Victor (If all I want is a warm feeling, I should just wet my pants.)
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