Posted on 02/10/2009 4:56:20 PM PST by STARWISE
You can stiff the president on a policy issue and defy him on a political one, but who can turn down an invitation to the White House?
Using one of the worlds most famous private residences as bait, President Barack Obama and first lady Michelle Obama are unleashing a bipartisan charm offensive and exploiting every square inch of their new home to make friends and influence rivals. The social calendar suggests a return to the days of Camelot.
Since moving into their new digs, the first couple has hosted a half-dozen gatherings from bipartisan cocktail receptions to a public open house to the more intimate Super Bowl party two Sundays ago ending many of their days past midnight. Most recently, on Wednesday, the Obamas opened the White House doors to House caucus leaders from the moderate Blue Dog Democrats and the Congressional Black Caucus. White House aides say the couple hopes to make the Wednesday cocktail parties a tradition.
Friends say the Obamas are looking to maintain the dizzying social calendar they had in their pre-White House days, while using their knack for socializing to find new friends and win hearts on Capitol Hill and in other Washington power centers.
They want to replicate the same kind of environment they had in Chicago, said a longtime friend of the Obamas, adding that White House Social Secretary Desiree Rogers is the perfect person for the job because she knows the couples former life inside out and is designing the calendar to reflect the kinds of things they like to do.
If there was a party or an event [in Chicago], they were there, the friend said. Theyve always liked to go to lots of restaurants and be a part of the community. Now they want to be a part of D.C.
Barack and Michelle have always been interested in the details of peoples lives, the confidant said, calling them people people. They know whos engaged to whom, what peoples spouses do for a living, all about their parents, where they grew up, names of children.
The president, the friend added, likes to be in the know.
Sen. Claire McCaskill, one of the presidents closest friends in the Senate and a guest at a recent White House party, said Obama likes a mixed crowd because he knows if hes around people like that, he wont get everything sugarcoated. He wants to make sure he stays grounded and wants to hear the good, the bad and the ugly.
Obama hopes to finesse the bad and the ugly by opening doors to Republicans and other ideological adversaries, but some are suspicious of the outreach. Sen. Lindsey Graham (R-S.C.) said last week that, when it comes to economic recovery plans, he prefers being included in the decision-making meetings, not just the parties before and after.
But Sen. Amy Klobuchar (D-Minn.) said that Obamas aim isnt about one vote, as some assert. Its about building relationships and getting rid of the partisan divide, she said.
Despite the obvious political dimension, guests say there is little overt arm-twisting at the White House soirees.
At a cocktail reception Wednesday evening, Obama joined by the first lady and top administration officials such as Valerie Jarrett, Michael Strautmanis and Phil Schiliro worked the room, talking to members of the Congressional Black Caucus, including Reps. G.K. Butterfield (D-N.C.), Sheila Jackson Lee (D-Texas), Barbara Lee (D-Calif.) and Yvette D. Clarke (D-N.Y.), as they nibbled hors doeuvres.
Butterfield said he teased the president about his commute after the party. It must be mighty nice to get home in two minutes, Butterfield said.
Thirty seconds, the president deadpanned.
At the bipartisan Super Bowl blast, the Obamas kept it casual, serving up hot dogs, pizza, and vanilla and chocolate ice cream, with no mention of politics, guests said. Conversations centered on football, basketball and day-to-day life.
You would have felt like a fool talking about politics at this party, said Del. Eleanor Holmes Norton (D-D.C.), one of the guests. I was surprised how much of a social event it was and how little of a political occasion it was.
Obama asked Rep. Charles W. Dents daughter about field hockey games, and the Pennsylvania Republican and his wife chatted with the Obamas about their mutual obsession with Friday night at the movies.
Theyre very natural in that kind of social setting, Dent said. Theyre both gregarious people and very gracious.
At the start of the affair, the first couple worked their way around the East Wing, where guests initially gathered. Then, just before the start of the game, Obama shouted, Kickoff! and pointed revelers toward the White House theater. During the game, guests said he groaned at bad plays and threw his hands up in the air when the Steelers the team he was rooting for scored. (Meanwhile, kids who scored an invite with their parents played video games in the East Wing.)
At halftime, the president who guests said never downed a beer and ate very little walked around with a plate of oatmeal cookies, schmoozing with Sen. Arlen Specter (R-Pa.), Rep. Trent Franks (R-Ariz.) and others. When someone asked for directions to the bathroom, the president quipped, How would I know? Ive only been here for 10 days.
Dent said he left the White House with a good impression of the new president.
He seems like a great guy, and my family had a lot of fun, he said. I respect what hes trying to do by having these gatherings and trying to build relationships, even though we disagree on issues.
The couples social calendar is markedly different from that of other recent inhabitants at 1600. The Bushes 43 often were in bed by 9 p.m. and kept a tame social life, gravitating toward old pals from Texas and a tight circle of Washington friends. Jimmy Carter and Bill Clinton also kept lighter social schedules.
Dee Dee Myers, former White House press secretary to Clinton, said he and Hillary were not as social as the Obamas appear to be.
We havent seen this kind of entertaining in a really long time, she said.
Myers said the Clintons who did not have a wide circle of friends in Washington liked movie screenings and small dinners, but they did not host many bipartisan gatherings.
I dont remember it happening while I was there, she said.
Julian Zelizer, a professor of history and public affairs at Princeton University, said Obama is smart to use the off hours to move forward with his ideas and agenda in a town that is so harsh.
He wants to convey this idea of someone who is young, alive and active. Young people host parties, they go out to eat, especially when there are young kids around, Zelizer said. But he cautioned that the gatherings could detract from the image he is trying to cultivate.
At some point, he looks more like them than us, because many people dont realize that parties are work in Washington, he said. Theres an agenda behind every event.
no kidding.....I feel like I live in a parallel universe.
I hope they take away car keys so nobody can drive home drunk!
Sounds like the beginning of the French Revolution.
And how did that end???
And I have no doubt they are “peoples people” and want to know every detail about everyone...should come in handy when the kenyan bastard child begins his extermination of the non-believers
You might want to rethink the wording on that posting, 'cause if you show up in a limo with some blow, he might accept!
I was thinking along the lines of way back when I was a bachelor and had a nice bachelor pad, I was hanging out with a friend one day and there was a knock on the door. It was a guy we knew pretty well, though I wouldn't consider him a great friend. He came in and immediately asked if he could use the bathroom.
He stunk up my entire apartment big time, stuffed up the toilet near permanent, and then left. Turned out he was just passing by and needed to divest himself of a bubblin' log. :)
So I figured that it would be fulfilling if I went on an all cheese diet for a couple of weeks, then go on beans and plums for 24 hours before visiting Zero's new crib.
Oh, I’m sure the MSM is loving this!! They hope THEY’LL be invited sometime. Journalists didn’t like George and Laura Bush, because they weren’t schmoozers, and didn’t have lots of parties to suck up to the MSM.
President Bush invited Democrats to the White House, too, in order to ‘build relationships’. The Democrats still voted against all his proposals, which is fine, but they didn’t just disagree with President Bush; they trashed him in the press, which these Republicans don’t seem to be doing to Obama. Just goes to show the Repubs. have much more class!
Pres. and Mrs. Bush are class personified.
And he DID reach across the aisle .. where did the
No Child Left Behind law begin? Teddy the Swimmah.
In the beginning, he made many attempts, but after
so many attacks, mocking, and hate mongering ...
I’m sure he realized it wouldn’t matter what he did.
And, it wouldn’t have mattered.
He and Laura Bush, however, never stooped to their
rank and disgusting level or responded with what
would’ve been understandable venom or anger. How
they kept their graciousness in the face of such
vitriol is something for which I’ll always hold
them in the deepest admiration and pride. God
bless them.
No mention of the socializing Reagans? Why am I not surprised?
I think it’s great that the Obamas are having social interactions with all sorts of people. Good for them.
My, oh my. Sean Hannity offers to have a beer with the president, and everybody goes crazy.
We could always tape fruit to his head and blow it up for our own amusement, and then laugh when he freaks out and spills his latte on his loafers.
LOL! You're right! All that socializing was BAD, BAD, when the Reagans did it. Ostentatious displays of wealth, and all that. Didn't matter if it was just an informal gathering, because the Reagans were doing it, it MUST be just sucking up to the wealthy.
Perhaps that's something we shall have to remedy...
Let's do it!
Perhaps that's something we shall have to remedy...
Works for me!
Caviar and champagne, big golden rings and expensive cigars
Sweaty butts on a couch whuch cost as much as ticket to Mars
Phony smile... Those eyes as they pay unbelievable price
for the right to decide what to do - for me and you
House in France and a Benz -
you see, the whole world’s right in their hands
Such a waste - Wicked Lounge’s a happening place.
Balding guys - filthy rich and every one’s such a son of a bitch
Countrys sold, countrys bought.
They’re trading wars and can you tell me why not?
Write a check - or a pass? It’s just as easy as scratching your ass
What is right?What is wrong?
Pay the price and it won’t take too long
to decide what is right thing to do - for me and you
Maybe this makes you sick
You see, the point is their wallet’s too thick
Such a waste - Wicked Lounge’s a remarkable place
Dearest God, please get pissed -
I’m sure that none of these jerks will be missed
Such a waste - Wicked Lounge’s a wonderful place
I’ll bet the hired help love this guy (sarc on).
No cerveza will be served, to avoid having some wag say, of the Sock Puppet, the old Groucho Marx line, “I’ve seen better heads on a glass of beer.” ;’)
So I see what you posted, and the first thing that comes to mind in response is Tom Waits lyrics: “Pasties and a g-string, beer and a shot ...”
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