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Where have all the real men gone?
The Times Online ^ | August 3, 2008 | Kathleen Parker

Posted on 08/06/2008 12:31:58 PM PDT by Publius804

From The Sunday Times

August 3, 2008

Where have all the real men gone?

Top American columnist Kathleen Parker is causing a furore with her new book Save the Males, in which she argues that feminism has neutered men and deprived them of their noble, protective role in society

I know. Saving the males is an unlikely vocation for a 21st-century woman. Most men don’t know they need saving; most women consider the idea absurd. When I tell my women friends that I want to save the males, they look at me as if noticing for the first time that I am insane. Then they say something like: “Are you out of your mind? This is still a male-dominated world. It’s women who need saving. Screw the men!”

(Excerpt) Read more at entertainment.timesonline.co.uk ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: bookreview; feminism; kathleenparker; men; savethemales; women
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To: Publius804

My buddy’s wife once asked this question...I told her I tell her after she got us another beer.


61 posted on 08/06/2008 2:16:36 PM PDT by skully (The Demoplubican party is killing this country...We need a 2 party system.)
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To: Publius804

62 posted on 08/06/2008 2:26:53 PM PDT by april15Bendovr (Free Republic & Ron Paul Cult = oxymoron)
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To: Melas
Of course it does, give us one.
63 posted on 08/06/2008 2:31:08 PM PDT by Candor7 (Fascism? All it takes is for good men to say nothing, (Ridicule Obama))
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To: Publius804

I guess I feel fortunate - last night my 9 yr old son explained who his heroes were and then asked his mother who her heroes were. My wife said “Sometimes it’s your father, sometimes it’s my father and sometimes it’s you.”


64 posted on 08/06/2008 2:32:55 PM PDT by mdk1960
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To: Knitebane

Or as the Amish say,

“Kissin’ wears out. Cookin’ don’t.”

;^)

Anyway, I have attempted to date women who are attractive and otherwise intelligent, but they have completely bought into the worldview that MEN ARE JERKS!!

BTW, they work in the local university administration, they’re not faculty, mind you, where you find the real Amazons.


65 posted on 08/06/2008 2:33:56 PM PDT by elcid1970 (My cartridges are dipped in pig grease)
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To: Publius804
Where have all the real men gone?

The ones I know are now retired and playing softball at least 4 days a week..........

66 posted on 08/06/2008 2:35:11 PM PDT by Hot Tabasco
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To: Candor7

I can’t give you one. My wife was a stunning 6’ blonde even before we got married. I want before and after pictures of one of these women who supposedly transmorgified (thank you Calvin) after marriage.


67 posted on 08/06/2008 2:58:00 PM PDT by Melas (Offending stupid people since 1963)
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To: HamiltonJay

If you’re married, you’d better keep that woman because it’s not every man who’s lucky enough to be married to a saint. If you’re single, get used to it.


68 posted on 08/06/2008 3:05:10 PM PDT by Melas (Offending stupid people since 1963)
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To: elcid1970
they’re not faculty, mind you, where you find the real Amazons.

And I suppose they look nothing like the Amazon hotties from Xena or those B-grade '80s sword & sandal flicks.

69 posted on 08/06/2008 3:44:57 PM PDT by lesser_satan (Cthulu '08! Why vote for the lesser evil?)
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To: Publius804
I still have some "SAVE THE MALE" bumperstickers. Yes, I'd been sporting one on my bumper in the mid/late 90s. It's a long story. But what I want to say is this: Just as once my "Who is John Galt? Ask Rush!" bumpersticker brought me all kinds of FU finger gestures and also Conservatives running to my car; It was the Save the Male bumpersticker which brought to me some of the most interesting people and conversations. No set age or ethnicity, political ideology, or income -- but I kid you not, there'd be females, young, middle, older, waiting for me to show up at my car when I was out shopping -- wanting to agree with me and talk about this subject.

And men? All ages, all demographics too -- wanting to thank me for giving a "damn".

Oh, I should add here, I was living in the San Francisco Bay Area.

It was always great to be up in Mendocino, Napa and Sebastopol: People, who most would coin as "uber hippies" -- were all on the same page on this matter, agreeing with my bumpersticker. And really well-informed folks, too.

Kathleen Parker should, IMHO, consider a book signing event possibly in that part of CA.

70 posted on 08/06/2008 6:25:50 PM PDT by Alia
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To: Publius804
Most are serving in Iraq, Kuwait, Afghanistan, Korea, Germany, and at embassies all over the world.

There are some real women there too.

71 posted on 08/06/2008 6:32:26 PM PDT by Jet Jaguar (Obama: The presumptuous democratic nominee)
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To: Jet Jaguar
There are some real women there too.

Absolutely. We send Christmas cards to the troops each year, addresses from AnySoldier.com, and last year we got nice notes back from some really cute lady MPs in Afghanistan. One of them was planning to be a hairdresser after her enlistment, and she'd done all their hair in very attractive, but G.I., styles.

72 posted on 08/06/2008 6:55:17 PM PDT by Tax-chick (When life gives you habaneros, make hot sauce!)
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To: Tax-chick

cool!


73 posted on 08/06/2008 6:56:47 PM PDT by Jet Jaguar (Obama: The presumptuous democratic nominee)
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To: FrPR

Thailand?


74 posted on 08/06/2008 6:57:24 PM PDT by rintense (McCain can pound sand.)
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To: Publius804
Where have all the flowers gone?


75 posted on 08/06/2008 7:01:18 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Are you ready to pray for Teddy?)
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To: Knitebane
My late grandfather used to say, "Kissin' don't last. Cookin' do."

Well, he hasn't smelled the back of my fridge!

76 posted on 08/06/2008 7:03:31 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Are you ready to pray for Teddy?)
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To: Publius804

I’m divorced after 21 years, and after 4 years of being single, I have to ask, “Where have all the real women gone?”


77 posted on 08/06/2008 7:05:40 PM PDT by airborne (Don't hate me because I'm white!)
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To: Publius804

And if you (the woman) want to dress all in black, don’t object if I call you a Sicilian widow!


78 posted on 08/06/2008 7:12:29 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Are you ready to pray for Teddy?)
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To: totallyFREE; nathanbedford
The troubling outcome of all this is, the intelligent men are not marring and having children... There is nothing anybody can do to stop it.

It is a valid point.  Close examination reveals that there is a qualitative and quantitative decline in incentives for men to marry. Why? 

Generally, there need not be a sinister cabal when liberalism is pervasive, as otherwise well-meaning folks will over-emphasize (and thus, pervert to selfish ends) individualism when faced with the debasement of revered institutions.  Witness the thread a couple of days ago where the "mature" woman sued and won 100k+ for her fiance calling off their engagement.  There were as more Freepers who opined agreement, as there were who recognized the damage (on many levels) that had been rendered.  This response is amongst the vanguard of conservatism; imagine the response and ramifications for Joe Lotery Ticket, and Fred America Idol.

To some here, the above thesis may sound a bit wild; however, try to remember it some time when you our considering these fundamental questions of our society, and you will be amazed at your predictive powers of the behavior of individual actors and society as a whole.  But be forewarned: The real crisis comes when you plot all of these newfound correct predictions, thus discerning the slope of our nation.  And finally, consider that there is currently no serious organ/institution with the power AND influence to slow this change, let alone render an inflection.

79 posted on 08/06/2008 7:25:50 PM PDT by Harrius Magnus (LIBERALS: We should invade their countries, kill their leaders and convert them to Christianity.)
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To: Knitebane
I wonder what the percentage of men under the age of 30 (or 40) who can change a tire is? That's not a fair measure of a man.

Rather, what percentage of men under the age of 30 have a 12V impact wrench, a 120V impact wrench and a 4-way lug wrench along with a bottle jack, a floor jack and (for those out-of-the-way pneumatic interludes) a manual ratcheting-type jack?
*drool*

Are you maried? Do you wanna be?

Hold up a sec.

You ARE a guy, right?
80 posted on 08/06/2008 7:31:48 PM PDT by Titan Magroyne ("Drill now drill hard drill often and give old Gaia a cigarette afterwards she deserves it." HerrBlu)
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