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Never, Ever Leave home without It.
Real Life | 8/21/2005 | CholeraJoe

Posted on 08/21/2005 6:02:36 AM PDT by CholeraJoe

"Never, ever leave home without it." No, not your American Express card, your sidearm.

This morning, I woke up about 4:15 and was hungry, so I decided to drive to the local 24-hour beanery. The only other customers were a table of 10, intoxicated 20-somethings making alot of noise.

There were 7 muscular young men and three loud-mouthed young women. After listening to their raucous laughter for 10 minutes, I politely asked the waitress to ask them to hold down the noise. All I wanted to do was eat my breakfast in relative peace.

Her request for quiet lasted about 45 seconds, then the noise and laughter resumed. At that point, I decided to do something.

Bear in mind that I am not an imposing figure. I'm 5'9", mid 50's, and slim. I walked over to the table, and walked completely around it twice. I said, "I'd like y'all to hold down the noise for a while, please." One of the young men started to give me trash-talk but within seconds was elbowed by the guy next to him, who whispered something in his ear. Then everyone at the table said, "Yes, sir, or OK."

What made the difference? Open carry. I was wearing a 9mm semi-auto on my right hip. I never touched it and I made no threats, but it was nevertheless visible.


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To: CholeraJoe

It's one thing to be ignorant. It's another to let everyone else know.


381 posted on 08/21/2005 10:27:03 AM PDT by bigsigh
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To: marktwain

Make of this what you will, but I respectfully decline to go back over a thread that's gotten this big and extract the citations that reveal his lies. I simply don't have time. Top of my head, the kids using racial epithets was one (never mentioned till needed), the reaction of the waitress was another (it evolved, shall we say)....

I also think that, even if I had chapter and verse, you would find argument, as you are leaning in his defense. By the way, Samuel Clemens would have skewered this guy.


382 posted on 08/21/2005 10:28:53 AM PDT by John Robertson (Safe Travel)
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To: Boazo

By that logic, open carry is inherently wrong.

I see nothing wrong with somone lawfully open carrying asking others to mind their manners.


383 posted on 08/21/2005 10:30:54 AM PDT by Atlas Sneezed (Your FRiendly FReeper Patent Attorney)
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To: Puppage
"Having a CCW does not make you a superman, in fact, you need to act the complete opposite."

I absolutly agree with you. I have a CC permit, and do carry, but my FIRST obligation is to AVOID any and all potential confrontations. Funny how firepower under the shirt brngs with it, an incredible level of discernment and responsibility. To confront a petty grievence while carrying is simply looking for trouble and goes against everything I know about personal security.

384 posted on 08/21/2005 10:33:05 AM PDT by two23
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To: Beelzebubba
This apparently went beyond "somone lawfully open carrying asking others to mind their manner." By CholeraJoe's own admission (heck, the very point of the thread), those manners were enforced because he was carrying a gun, circled around slowly so the group could see it. The clear, unambiguous message CholeraJoe sent was, "I have this gun, and if you don't shut up, I'm willing to use it." Otherwise, why would he circle around the group so the kids could see the gun?

This isn't a guy who happened to be armed politely asking the kids to quiet down. This is a hot-head displaying his still-holstered weapon for them to see to make them shut up.

385 posted on 08/21/2005 10:34:02 AM PDT by jude24 ("Stupid" isn't illegal - but it should be.)
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To: cbkaty
Expecting people to be civil in a public place at 0430 is somehow out of line?

Not out of line at all, but enforcing that expectation by displaying one's firearm is. Way out of proportion, in my opinion. Protecting one's "right" to a quiet meal is not exactly defending one's home or person.

386 posted on 08/21/2005 10:34:24 AM PDT by SupplySider
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To: John Robertson

Sorry, not a lawyer.

How do you tell someone they came of a hair width of losing their life over a mistaken principle?

CJ

I must be on the wrong side of the law, film maker. That's it. Got any investment money looking for me? LOL

DK


387 posted on 08/21/2005 10:35:03 AM PDT by Dark Knight
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To: John Robertson
OK...this thread is getting to me...

I guess I'll just sashay up to the local noisy eatery...Honey get my 45....

I'll keep ya posted...I'm the guy with hair though....not the bald guy....


388 posted on 08/21/2005 10:35:43 AM PDT by cbkaty (I may not always post...but I am always here......)
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To: CholeraJoe
Pumped two glasers into his skull. That's self-defense isn't it?

No. You initiated the confrontation and your actions could easily be construed as threatening. If the manager didn't or wouldn't get them to quiet down, you leave - they were no threat to you.

You're a dangerous guy, judging from this story, and really should rethink your decision to carry a weapon. Or the odds of you ending up in prison for negligent homicide will eventually catch up with you.

I work late, handle cash in public and have a business, employees and myself to care for. I also have a CCW and guess what - I think you acted like an ass.

389 posted on 08/21/2005 10:36:01 AM PDT by Hank Rearden (Never allow anyone who could only get a government job attempt to tell you how to run your life.)
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To: SupplySider
Not out of line at all, but enforcing that expectation by displaying one's firearm is.

Let us not overlook the fact that open carry is LEGAL in some places....that may offend you...but it is legal.

390 posted on 08/21/2005 10:37:09 AM PDT by cbkaty (I may not always post...but I am always here......)
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To: T Minus Four
It really torques my jaw that I can't carry my weapon into our church building.

We have at least 5 LEO in our congregation and one of them seems to either be going off shift or coming on for each of the services so we have open carry.

391 posted on 08/21/2005 10:37:16 AM PDT by SLB ("We must lay before Him what is in us, not what ought to be in us." C. S. Lewis)
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To: CholeraJoe
Pumped two glasers into his skull. That's self-defense isn't it?

No, it is not. Montana law requires that you do all that is possible to avoid a confrontation. Here, you were the aggressor, in violation of MCA 45-3-105. Montana (unlike other jurisdictions) does not require you retreat to avoid a confrontation (State v. Merk, 53 M. 454 [1917]), but since you inttiate the confrontation, you couldn't plead justification of self-defense.

392 posted on 08/21/2005 10:41:40 AM PDT by jude24 ("Stupid" isn't illegal - but it should be.)
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To: CholeraJoe

"Er, um. I think case law and the US Civil Rights code would state that any establishment open to the public is not private property."

Joe- you aren't a lawyer, are you? Neither am I, but here in Northern Virginia, some restaurants do not allow you to conceal/carry in their establishments.

Why? well I didn't really understand why. It seemed hysterically anti-gun, and so I avoid those places that I know about that have this policy. I get it now though. You are the reason.

The point is, they can do this because it's their property and they can set the rules. I can choose not to abide by them by not patronizing them.


393 posted on 08/21/2005 10:41:49 AM PDT by RFEngineer
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To: cbkaty
Let us not overlook the fact that open carry is LEGAL in some places....that may offend you...but it is legal.

There's a difference between open-carry and flaunting the firearm to enforce your noise preferences.

CholeraJoe did the latter.

394 posted on 08/21/2005 10:42:56 AM PDT by jude24 ("Stupid" isn't illegal - but it should be.)
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To: cbkaty
Let us not overlook the fact that open carry is LEGAL in some places....that may offend you...but it is legal.

That doesn't offend me at all. Circling the table of some noisy kids to give them a good look at the gun while "politely" asking them to be quiet does.

395 posted on 08/21/2005 10:43:37 AM PDT by SupplySider
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To: Hank Rearden
"I work late, handle cash in public and have a business, employees and myself to care for. I also have a CCW and... "
Good thinking Hank, 99% of prison employees are Union Members LOL!
396 posted on 08/21/2005 10:45:18 AM PDT by investigateworld ( God bless Poland for giving the world JP II & a Protestant bump for his Sainthood!)
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To: Squantos; Jeff Head; Joe Brower; Mr. Mojo; Morgan's Raider; pocat; archy; Travis McGee; ...


397 posted on 08/21/2005 10:45:33 AM PDT by SLB ("We must lay before Him what is in us, not what ought to be in us." C. S. Lewis)
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To: two23
Funny how firepower under the shirt brngs with it, an incredible level of discernment and responsibility

I couldn't agree more with you.

398 posted on 08/21/2005 10:46:29 AM PDT by Puppage (You may disagree with what I have to say, but I shall defend to your death my right to say it.)
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To: SLB

Eaker checked in earlier, but I'd like to see what the others on your list think.


399 posted on 08/21/2005 10:47:46 AM PDT by Tijeras_Slim (Now that taglines are cool, I refuse to have one.)
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To: CholeraJoe
I think case law and the US Civil Rights code would state that any establishment open to the public is not private property.

You know enough to be dangerous here. Heart of Atlanta v. United States, 379 U.S. 241 (1964) and Katzenbach v. McClung, 379 U.S. 241 (1964) allowed the Federal Government to prohibit diner and hotel discrimination on the grounds of the Commerce Clause. This did not abolish the private nature of the property, just opened them up to regulation since they were open to the public.

400 posted on 08/21/2005 10:48:06 AM PDT by jude24 ("Stupid" isn't illegal - but it should be.)
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