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What Do Women Really Want? (Long Read)
The Public Interest, ^ | Winter 2005 | By Neil Gilbert

Posted on 12/19/2004 8:17:15 PM PST by tbird5

With journalists as well as social scientists continually on the lookout for new trends, the public is regularly treated to the discovery of social "revolutions." One of the latest concerns women and work. In October 2003, Lisa Belkin detected an "opt-out revolution" in her New York Times Magazine article about accomplished women leaving high-powered jobs to stay home with their kids. Six months later, reports on the revolution were still going strong. For example, the March 22, 2004 cover of Time showed a young child clinging to his mother's leg alongside the headline, "The Case for Staying Home: Why More Young Moms Are Opting Out of the Rat Race." But the evidence on this score is thin. Both the New York Times and Time stories are based mainly on evocative anecdotes. Princeton college graduates with law degrees from Harvard staying home to change diapers may be absorbing as a human-interest story. But as the saying goes, the plural of anecdote is not data.

The limited empirical evidence offered in support of the opt-out revolution draws upon facts such as these: 22 percent of mothers with graduate degrees are at home with their children, one in three women with an MBA does not work full time, and 26 percent of women approaching the most senior levels of management do not want to be promoted. However, with information of this sort one needs a ouija board to detect a social trend, let alone a revolution. The fact that 57 percent of mothers from the Stanford University class of 1981 stayed home with their young children for at least a year gives no indication of whether the percentage of Stanford graduates remaining at home with their children has increased, decreased, or remained the same over time.

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1 posted on 12/19/2004 8:17:15 PM PST by tbird5
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To: tbird5
What Do Women Really Want?

Shoes.

2 posted on 12/19/2004 8:18:15 PM PST by Billthedrill
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To: Billthedrill

Make that lots and LOTS of shoes. Mostly differing shades of black with various size heels, LOL.

I know of what I speak. :)


3 posted on 12/19/2004 8:20:26 PM PST by exnavychick (Just my two cents, as usual.)
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To: Billthedrill

Expensive designer shoes. And gravitas.


4 posted on 12/19/2004 8:20:42 PM PST by FormerACLUmember (Free Republic is 21st Century Samizdat)
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To: exnavychick

BUMP for later reading...I am too tired to read something this long.


5 posted on 12/19/2004 8:24:14 PM PST by exnavychick (Just my two cents, as usual.)
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To: tbird5

Don't ask, they might tell you.


6 posted on 12/19/2004 8:25:04 PM PST by Classicaliberalconservative
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To: FormerACLUmember

Power and control. And they will break any marriage if they can't get it. American women, by and large, are beyond redemption. American men do not even know what they are missing. For every 1 American woman who still knows how to nurture and take care of her husband, there are 10 screaming witches ripping his guts out daily. (Yeah, I know that the ratio here on FR is actually in favor of Good, not Evil, so hold your flaming arrows. I am speaking about our secular cosiety at large.)


7 posted on 12/19/2004 8:25:18 PM PST by Al Simmons (THANK YOU SwiftVets/POWs for Truth!!!!!)
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To: tbird5
What Do Women Really Want?

As if I'd tell ;-)

8 posted on 12/19/2004 8:27:28 PM PST by Dolphy
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To: FormerACLUmember
Expensive designer shoes. And gravitas.

Some earn both

Dr. Condoleeza Rice

9 posted on 12/19/2004 8:27:34 PM PST by TChris (Most people's capability for inference is severely overestimated)
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To: tbird5

A husband who doesn't yell everytime his wife spends money.


10 posted on 12/19/2004 8:28:18 PM PST by tbird5
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To: Billthedrill
Nah, chocolate.
11 posted on 12/19/2004 8:28:23 PM PST by Reaganesque
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To: tbird5

Protection, passion, and to come first in her man's life.

And shoes.


12 posted on 12/19/2004 8:28:33 PM PST by DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet (I actually voted for John Kerry...before I voted against him.)
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To: Askel5
For every 1 American woman who still knows how to nurture and take care of her husband, there are 10 screaming witches ripping his guts out daily.

It's twu!!!!

13 posted on 12/19/2004 8:28:37 PM PST by Senator Pardek
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To: tbird5
I think women would really like us to stop asking what they want, and just give them whatever we have to give. Is anyone else sick and tired of all this stuff? Most of us don't have a clue what we want from day to day, so why expect more from a woman? I would guess that women want the right to want whatever the hell they want, whenever the hell they want it, and some man will benefit if he shuts-up long enough to just give it to them if he things they are worth it.
14 posted on 12/19/2004 8:28:44 PM PST by Pukin Dog (Sans Reproache)
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To: tbird5
What do women really want?

EVERYTHING!

15 posted on 12/19/2004 8:28:53 PM PST by Rummyfan
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To: tbird5

I think I'll grab a beer and wair for the fireworks to fly on this thread.


16 posted on 12/19/2004 8:29:39 PM PST by Dan from Michigan ("BZZZZZT You are fined one credit for violation of the Verbal Morality Statute")
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To: Al Simmons
Power and control. And they will break any marriage if they can't get it. American women, by and large, are beyond redemption. American men do not even know what they are missing. For every 1 American woman who still knows how to nurture and take care of her husband, there are 10 screaming witches ripping his guts out daily.

Amen. American women are by and large hopeless cases. Marraige is NOT recommended to these horror shows.

17 posted on 12/19/2004 8:30:41 PM PST by FormerACLUmember (Free Republic is 21st Century Samizdat)
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To: tbird5
What do women really want?"

Ask them!

18 posted on 12/19/2004 8:30:41 PM PST by Dashing Dasher (Because I fly, I envy no (wo)man on earth. - Anon)
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To: Billthedrill

Thanks for summing that up for us.


19 posted on 12/19/2004 8:31:13 PM PST by expatguy ("Fallujah Delenda Est!")
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To: Al Simmons

You might think you are speaking of society at large, but you've got no clue what you are talking about.

Even the working mothers I know spend more time wiping their husbands butts because the men are incapable in addition to everything else they do to keep their families happy, fed and clothed.

I'm sorry if you've had a bad experience(s)but don't broadbrush the rest of us. And I speak about some of my liberal friends you won't find on FR just as much as the women on FR.


20 posted on 12/19/2004 8:33:06 PM PST by Gabz
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