When you see the extreme damage caused right now to the house in Detroit by a 'small' plane, it seems as extensive as the damage to the Pentagon, to me it should have 'looked' much worse and more to be seen
Another small plane crashs into home in Atlanta now on Fox!
Also, my recollection at the time was that there were accounts of the plane's wing hitting the ground before the plane hit the Pentagon. How much of the kinetic energy of the plane was transfered to the structure very much depends on details of how it hit.