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Same-Sex Couples Marry in San Francisco
ABC News ^ | 14 February 2004 | The Associated Press

Posted on 02/14/2004 4:08:41 PM PST by MegaSilver

SAN FRANCISCO Feb. 14 — Gay and lesbian couples from across the country answered this city's Valentine's Day invitation to wed in an unprecedented spree of same-sex marriages that has challenged California law and sent conservative groups scrambling for court intervention. About 500 people lined up Saturday morning outside City Hall to secure marriage licenses and then take each other as "spouse for life" in brief vows that have given San Francisco's seat of government the feel of a Las Vegas wedding chapel.

As passing drivers honked and strangers passed out roses, those waiting hours in line cheered couples who emerged from the ornate building clutching the controversial marriage licenses.

"It's finally somebody saying, 'Yes, you can do this,'" said Peter Subers, 57, of Washington County, N.Y., as he stood in line with husband-to-be Rob Bauer, 63.

They already had plans to head to Northern California, but decided Friday on the flight west to marry. Saturday was their 34th anniversary.

It was the third straight day that officials issued the licenses to hundreds of gay and lesbian couples. The response has been so overwhelming that nearly 200 city officials, led by newly elected Mayor Gavin Newsom, have volunteered to pitch in, from sheriff's deputies providing security to clerks processing the licenses.

Rodney Vonjaeger and his partner John Kussmann, both 37, drove overnight from San Diego and arrived at 3 a.m. Saturday.

"We decided if there was ever an opportunity we would do it, so the drive wasn't even a consideration," Vonjaeger said as he waited in line Saturday. They set the hotel alarm for 8 a.m., "but we were up at 7 because of the excitement."

Across the country, other gay couples didn't wait for a marriage license. About three dozen same-sex couples exchanged vows at Philadelphia's LOVE Park on Saturday as part of a "mass commitment ceremony" organized by a gay-friendly church.

Led by a minister, the couples gathered in front of Robert Indiana's famed "LOVE" sculpture a rainbow flag draped under it and repeated their vows.

"If they're not going to let us get married, we're going to do it anyway," said Dan Farley, shortly after exchanging silver rings with his partner, John McCann.

Despite legal challenges from advocates of traditional marriage, San Francisco's wedding march is expected to continue throughout the long holiday weekend.

City authorities had officiated at 665 same-sex weddings in City Hall by late Friday, and issued still more licenses. By mid-afternoon Saturday, city officials reported recording 214 same-sex marriage licenses.

City officials said they would welcome license applications on Saturday, Sunday and Monday President's Day to accommodate couples that have flocked here from places including Oregon, Minnesota, New York and Seattle.

On Friday, a judge denied a petition to block more licenses from being granted. Two separate groups of opponents were asked to return Tuesday for a hearing.

"No one made the mayor of San Francisco king; he can't play God. He cannot trash the vote of the people," Randy Thomasson, director of the Campaign for California Families, said at a news conference in Los Angeles.

Aside from the lawsuits, the newly married couples may face other obstacles. After a marriage license is recorded by county officials, it is sent to the state Office of Vital Records. A ballot initiative approved by voters in 2000 said the state would only recognize marriages between a man and a woman.

San Francisco officials have insisted the licenses they have handed out are legally binding, although they are revised to be "gender-neutral." But a deputy city attorney acknowledged that the state may not accept them.

San Francisco appears to be the first city in the nation to officially support same-sex marriage licenses; city clerks in Arizona and Colorado in 1975 issued licenses to gay and lesbian couples that were later revoked or declared void.

Emboldened by the prospect of the nation's first legal same-sex marriages in Massachusetts, gay couples went to courthouses around the nation Thursday and Friday to demand the right to marry. They were quickly turned away.

The Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court recently ruled that it is unconstitutional to bar gay couples from marriage. Under the decision, the nation's first legally sanctioned gay marriages are scheduled to begin in mid-May.

Lawmakers are proposing a constitutional amendment that would define marriage a union between one man and one woman, and the Legislature resumes its deliberations of amendments on March 11.

Some American couples headed to Toronto Saturday, where gay marriage is legal.

"Canada as a country is more accepting and tolerant, we didn't give it a second thought," said Robin Hanson, a St. Louis doctoral student who was marrying her girlfriend Susan Levin.


TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Government; News/Current Events; Politics/Elections; US: California
KEYWORDS: anarchy; chaos; civilunion; dictator; endofamerica; gavinnewsom; gayagenda; gaymarriage; homosexualagenda; homosexualmarriage; lawlessmayor; marriage; newsom; sanfrancisco; stunt; tyranny

1 posted on 02/14/2004 4:08:42 PM PST by MegaSilver
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To: MegaSilver
These people have finally come out of the closet and now they want to force the rest of society to accept them as legal and moral equals. They may be able to get the law changed but they will never get me to accept them as equals in my heart.
2 posted on 02/14/2004 4:12:49 PM PST by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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To: MegaSilver
They may have some "paperwork" but they aren't married.
3 posted on 02/14/2004 4:18:08 PM PST by bluesagewoman
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To: MegaSilver
City authorities had officiated at 665 same-sex weddings in City Hall by late Friday

I am certain they miscounted... they missed one.

4 posted on 02/14/2004 4:48:08 PM PST by calcowgirl (No on Propositions 55, 56, 57, 58)
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To: goldstategop; Dataman; EggsAckley
I can't read past the start. No, no; they didn't "marry." They will never "marry." If you gathered a bunch of hugely fat folks and had the mayor pronounced them thin, they'd still be fat and miserable.

But what KILLS me is that this story is reported as "Same-Sex Couples Marry." The title ought to be, "Elected Official Breaks Law by Fiat," "Lawless Mayor Defies History and Culture," "Lawless Mayor Thwarts Will of People."

And it should detail his removal from office, and possibly his jailing.

Dan
5 posted on 02/14/2004 4:52:45 PM PST by BibChr ("...behold, they have rejected the word of the LORD, so what wisdom is in them?" [Jer. 8:9])
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To: MegaSilver
Same-Sex Couples Marry in San Francisco

And I thought that "jumbo shrimp" would always be the best example of an "Oxymoron".

6 posted on 02/14/2004 4:55:46 PM PST by EGPWS
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To: MegaSilver
"If they're not going to let us get married, we're going to do it anyway," said Dan Farley, shortly after exchanging silver rings with his partner, John McCann.

It's another 'Romans 1' day in The City.
7 posted on 02/14/2004 8:55:12 PM PST by Gal.5:1
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To: MegaSilver
Hey, maybe I should consider marrying my sister. She devoted her life to caring for my parents and that resulted in her having a very modest retirement from her modest job with no health insurance. I ended up with a good job that has great insurance benefits. How about I marry her also and extend my good fortune to her. Hell, if the butt f*ckers can qualify why shouldn't my sister?
8 posted on 02/14/2004 8:58:48 PM PST by det dweller too
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To: det dweller too
Do it! Go down to city hall and demand that they issue you a "marriage license". They wouldn't have a leg to stand on to deny you one!
9 posted on 02/14/2004 9:07:18 PM PST by GregoryFul
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To: BibChr
The title ought to be, "Elected Official Breaks Law by Fiat," "Lawless Mayor Defies History and Culture," "Lawless Mayor Thwarts Will of People."

"Fudge Packers Unite"
"Frisco Opens New Zoo"
"Mayor Picks Fruit"

10 posted on 02/15/2004 2:15:42 AM PST by Dataman
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To: BibChr
And it should detail his removal from office, and possibly his jailing.

I'm with you, Dan. Somebody in California needs to have the balls to jail this mayor. He needs a basic education in civics. The job of the executive is to execute the laws, not interpret them.

You can find the text of the letter he wrote to the County clerk here .

11 posted on 02/15/2004 2:33:41 AM PST by Terabitten (Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of All Who Threaten It)
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To: All; MegaSilver
Time to start Freeping the Governor's office.

Any contact Information to post?.

Ahnold is sitting this out probably b/c of his hollywood connections.

The Governor's office needs to act to stop this.

Who is AG in California?
12 posted on 02/15/2004 3:06:30 AM PST by longtermmemmory (Vote!)
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To: MegaSilver
There is only one thing that can be worse that all those gay marriages....

The honeymoons...

13 posted on 02/15/2004 3:35:35 AM PST by ColdSteelTalon
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To: MegaSilver
Some American couples headed to Toronto Saturday, where gay marriage is legal.

Hey, I've got no problem with them going to Toronto. They just shouldn't be allowed to come back.

14 posted on 02/15/2004 4:47:32 AM PST by Vigilanteman
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To: Tragically Single; Dataman
Well-put, both of you.

Hey Dataman — is it Christian to hate the media, as a mass? If so pray for me; I'm being tempted.

Dan
15 posted on 02/15/2004 6:28:57 AM PST by BibChr ("...behold, they have rejected the word of the LORD, so what wisdom is in them?" [Jer. 8:9])
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To: BibChr
Hey Dataman — is it Christian to hate the media, as a mass?

Since the media is not a person, no problem. Love not the world nor anything that is in the world.

16 posted on 02/15/2004 12:59:45 PM PST by Dataman
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