Tonight, I am separated, and now I'm truly alone.

New Horizon | 02/27/2002 | New Horizon

[New Horizon]

I posted a thread last night entitled:

Tonight, I am officially separated.

I am frightened, I have no family, I am alone...I have nobody but you guys to turn to. I received much valuable advice from fellow FReepers, which I expected. Why else would I post that type of "vanity"?

For some reason, my thread was pulled. Thank God I can salvage at least some of the intelligent replies were via FReepMail. Unfortunately, I never made it through the entire thread. I believe it was a good thread, for more than just my own selfish interests.

If I was rich (which is unlikely now) I would contribute to a forum like this. I'm not. I won't be.

If this thread is pulled, consider it my "opus".

[isthisnickcool]

While you may at the end of something you are also at the beginning of something else.

Pick yourself up, brush yourself off and start all over again. It's fun.

[umgud]

Been there, done that. It really hurts. It's really lonely and painful. But it passes. The legal ramifications linger longer than the hurt. I sympathize and wish you well.

[f.Christian]

hang in there---come back...the old horizon---lean and tougher!!

[xm177e2]

I'll re-post what I said last time:

Sometimes when friendships end, women get the irrational desire not just to leave, but to DESTROY you. So be careful, and even if you try to work things outside of court, make sure you have a good lawyer handy, because things can get really, really nasty. Women are strange that way.

[oprahstheantichrist]

Thanks for re-posting. I looked for it too today, as it was late last night.

Why would they pull that?

[Senator Pardek]

I am frightened, I have no family, I am alone...I have nobody but you guys to turn to.

Buddha told a parable in sutra:

A man traveling across a field encountered a tiger. He fled, the tiger after him. Coming to a precipice, he caught hold of the root of a wild vine and swung himself down over the edge. The tiger sniffed at him from above. Trembling, the man looked down to where, far below, another tiger was waiting to eat him. Only the vine sustained him.

Two mice, one white and one black, little by little started to gnaw away the vine. The man saw a lucious strawberry near him. Grasping the vine with one hand, he plucked the strawberry with the other. How sweet it tasted!

[william clark]

Never fear. You're among friends. From that base, there are many new doors that can be opened for you.

[GuillermoX]

Turn your computer off. Go outside. Buy a puppy tomorrow.

[Focault's Pendulum]

Please go over to our sister site at Yahoo. What you need to express is better done in a chat room. If it makes you feel any beter...I'll be there waiting.

[RedBloodedAmerican]

Separated? Why?

[cmsgop]

Watch Out For The French!

[cactmh]

Start jogging and excercising if you don't already. It feels good to run til you're about to drop. Find some other activities to fill your time. Time heals...

[Focault's Pendulum]

Watch Out For The French!

It's OK I'm taking foreign language lessons from a Brazilian

[Justa]

Stay away from booze and broads. The rest of life will usually takes care of itself.

[kayak]

With all due respect for the men who have been wronged by spiteful women, I must say that is a two-way street. My s-i-l, who abused my daughter (both emotionally and physically ... we have pictures to prove it plus a guilty plea to assault charges), is now waging a very ugly custody battle for their children and is doing his best to turn the children against their mother. The children are just 2 1/2 and 3 1/2 years old. He came very close to driving our daughter to suicide and is still determined to destroy her.

It's not women who are strange that way .... it is some people .... of both sexes.

New Horizon ~~~ hang in there. Life will get better if you let it happen! God bless you!

[Sally'sConcerns]

Yahoo sister site

[oprahstheantichrist]

"...sister site?"

Please link.

(newbie)

[scott91]

boy, there is some very good advice. and remember. God will not leave you. ever. leon