Posted on 06/28/2024 10:39:38 AM PDT by Morgana
Check out Gary Curtis’ related article, “Avoiding Sexual Sins and Scandals,” at this link.
Some contend that God sees all sins as the same and that one sin is not more difficult for God to forgive than another. While they may think that sounds reasonable and righteous, it ignores the admonitions of revealed Scripture and how sexual impurity damages us personally, weakens our witness and can be destructive to the family of God.
Pastor Jack Hayford, respected author, songwriter and church leader, once wrote, “I believe that sex sins are worse in that they are more damaging personally and socially than all other sins.” Hayford also observed that sexual sins may be the entry points of many other sinful actions, thoughts and lifestyles. “I don’t believe that any other sin can be said to devastate believers so thoroughly as sexual sin,” he said.
Sexual intercourse is more than a biological experience or experiment. It is more than just another physical act, like drinking water or sneezing. It involves the communion of life itself and is to be shared only under the covering of a covenant of commitment (Eph. 5:30-31).
If a believer, who is “washed … sanctified … justified” and filled with the Spirit of Christ (1 Cor. 6:11), would be so crass as to commit sexual immorality casually in what some have termed “recreational sex,” he or she would literally be contaminating the body of Christ by involving Him in immorality. It is an unthinkable proposition and one of the primary reasons that, for believers, sexual sins are worse than others (1 Cor. 6:12-17).
“Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body. Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself, for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body” (1 Cor. 6:18-20, NLT).
It is due to the constant temptation to sexual immorality that Paul advises, “each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband” (1 Cor. 7:2b). The writer to the scattered Messianic Hebrews warned: “Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely, judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery” (Heb. 13:4).
The sexually immoral can be understood as sexually active unmarried people, and adulterers are sexually unfaithful married people. Promiscuous premarital or extramarital activity could become an appetite or “felt need” that normal marriage doesn’t break. Review Paul’s admonition above: “Run from sexual sin!”
God doesn’t forbid fornication (the broad biblical term for sexual immorality) because He is against our enjoying the pleasures of life. Rather, He doesn’t want people to be abused, cheated on or taken advantage of. He doesn’t want the most intimate human relationships to be entered dishonestly without full and responsible commitment.
Sexual activity between unmarried partners is:
— Biblically wrong because it violates the clear commandment of God.
— Morally wrong because it can result in broken and twisted lives—for generations—as well as unwanted pregnancies and dreaded venereal diseases
— Spiritually wrong because it provides a “place to the devil” (Eph. 4:27b, NKJV) to control our lives, limit our influence and destroy our testimony before our church, our families and any children.
In the face of the many moral failures in society and even in our churches and Christian institutions, true believers will want to glorify God by following His pathways of purity: “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then, you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect” (Rom. 12:2, NLT).
Gary Curtis served for 27 years as part of the pastoral staff of The Church on The Way, the First Foursquare Church of Van Nuys, California. Since retirement in 2016, he has continued to blog at worshipontheway.wordpress.com. Gary and his wife live in Southern California and have two married daughters and five grandchildren.
Probably not as “bad” as other sins as even Samson often visited a prostitute among the Philistines.
but then there is ... for those who follow the LAW of Moses..James 2:10
10 For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all.
The description in 2 Peter 3 about the fate of false teachers leads me to believe that is the worst sin a believer can commit.
2 Peter 2:17
These are springs without water and mists driven by a storm, for whom the black darkness has been reserved.
The black darkness appears to be the worst.
No.
Mark 3:28-29
"Truly, I say to you, all sins will be forgiven the children of man, and whatever blasphemies they utter, but whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit never has forgiveness, but is guilty of an eternal sin"
JESUS CHRIST on one occasion told certain Pharisees: “Every sort of sin and blasphemy (abusive speech; slander; impious word) will be forgiven men, but the blasphemy against the spirit will not be forgiven.
Yeah, this guy and his entourage have one of those mega churches ... asked me also why I wasn’t married, etc. I flat told him it was none of his business. Whether or not he flies with us or not I don’t care - egotistical bore.
“Wasting seed” is a terrible sin, worse than ever in history thanks to the ease of access to porn. God killed Onan for this.
I brought the plane down through some rough weather and nailed the landing
= = =
And David cut off Goliath’s head and took it to Jerusalem.
Kind of a show-off, maybe?
For me, it is the same as other sins - sin is sin - equally bad for me.
But the effect on others could be widly different.
Murder vs. flipping the bird, for example.
You need to stop listening to that person then. Enjoyment isn’t a sin. That person is also using pride in the wrong way.
Oh? So doing my job and safely brought the plane down is showing off? I feel for you.
Mr Dancer,
I’m sorry, you seem to have taken me exactly the wrong way.
Some preacher gets after you for ‘pride’, in your masterful landing job.
I took a Bible reference, implying that David, after doing a skillful job, slaying Goliath, cut off his head and took it home, showing some pride.
Arguing against the preacher, using his own Bible as an example., after he got after you for a good job.
It’s Ms. Dancer. Check my profile.
Billy Joel?
Not the worst sin, but certainly the most common.
Yeah. Unrepentant sin is the worst kind.
Think I’ll see what Rev. Cleophus James down at the Triple Rock Baptist Church has to say.
Swingers and partner swappers are wallowing in the very sin we're talking about. So are sodomites, and straight people in a "hook-up" culture. None of these people want to hear the truth: that their lifestyle is a highway to hell ... but they desperately need to hear that truth.
Ms. Dancer -
Sorry again. Your profile refelcts an exciting life/career.
And a comforting recognition of God in our ultimate existance.
Sexual acts by adults against children are the most abhorrent and despicable in God’s eye; followed by homoexuality but that too if by an adult is uber despicable to God.
God hates those who harm children in any manner. Those who promote sexuality dentity confusion or surgery are as despicable as the sexual act of abuse.
Murder to include abortion is a close second.
Can you be a democrat and not LIVE IN SIN.... You know the answer which makes this a statement and not a question.
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