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Winning Through Non-Retaliation - Protestant Caucus/Devotional
Gracetoyou.org ^ | 1993 | John McArthur, Grace Community Church

Posted on 08/13/2023 4:52:38 AM PDT by metmom

"Love is patient" (1 Cor. 13:4). Love does not retaliate.

We usually think of patience as the ability to wait or endure without complaint—whether it's with people or circumstances. But the Greek word translated "patience" in 1 Corinthians 13:4 refers specifically to patience with people. It literally means "to be long tempered," and speaks of one who could easily retaliate when wronged but chooses not to.

That kind of patience is a spiritual virtue reflective of God Himself (cf. Gal 5:22). It can't be duplicated on a purely human level. But for Christians, it's to be a way of life. Paul said, "I . . . entreat you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing forbearance to one another in love" (Eph. 4:1-2).

God Himself is the supreme example of patience. Peter said, "[He] is patient toward you, not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance" (2 Pet. 3:9). Those who reject His grace are despising "the riches of His kindness and forbearance and patience" (Rom. 2:4).

In the Greco-Roman world of Paul's day, retaliating for a personal insult or injury was considered a virtue. Non- retaliation was interpreted as a sign of weakness. Our society is much the same. Our heroes tend to be those who fight back with physical strength or litigation. But that isn't God's perspective, nor was it Christ's in praying for His killers, "Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing" (Luke 23:34).

As you consider your own patience, remember that retaliation isn't always blatant and forceful. It's often subtle—like withholding affection from your spouse when he or she has wronged you, or withdrawing from a friend who has hurt you. But godly love never retaliates. It cares more for the feelings of others than for its own.

Remember the Lord's patience toward you, and allow His Spirit to produce similar patience in you.

Suggestions for Prayer

If you are harboring resentment toward someone who has wronged you, confess it to the Lord and do everything you can to reconcile with that person.

For Further Study

Read Genesis 50:15-21.

What fear did Joseph's brothers have?

How did Joseph react to their plea for forgiveness?

How did God use the brothers' sin to accomplish His own purposes?

From Drawing Near by John MacArthur Copyright © 1993. Used by permission of Crossway Books, a division of Good News Publishers, Wheaton, IL 60187, www.crossway.com.


TOPICS: Evangelical Christian; Theology; Worship
KEYWORDS: gty

1 posted on 08/13/2023 4:52:38 AM PDT by metmom
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To: Alex Murphy; boatbums; CynicalBear; daniel1212; ealgeone; Elsie; Gamecock; HossB86; Iscool; ...

Studying God’s Word ping


2 posted on 08/13/2023 4:53:01 AM PDT by metmom (He who testifies to these things says, “Surely I am coming soon.” Amen. Come, Lord Jesus.)
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To: metmom

Thank you for the timely reminder.

( and the Spirit directed spanking I was sorely in need of /-)

+

Rom 12:1 - I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.

Rom 12:2 - And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

Rom 12:3 - For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.

Rom 12:4 - For as we have many members in one body, and all members have not the same office:

Rom 12:5 - So we, being many, are one body in Christ, and every one members one of another.

Rom 12:6 - Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, whether prophecy, let us prophesy according to the proportion of faith;

Rom 12:7 - Or ministry, let us wait on our ministering: or he that teacheth, on teaching;

Rom 12:8 - Or he that exhorteth, on exhortation: he that giveth, let him do it with simplicity; he that ruleth, with diligence; he that sheweth mercy, with cheerfulness.

Rom 12:9 - Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good.

Rom 12:10 - Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;

Rom 12:11 - Not slothful in business; fervent in spirit; serving the Lord;

Rom 12:12 - Rejoicing in hope; patient in tribulation; continuing instant in prayer;

Rom 12:13 - Distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality.

Rom 12:14 - Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not.

Rom 12:15 - Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.

Rom 12:16 - Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low estate. Be not wise in your own conceits.

Rom 12:17 - Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men.

Rom 12:18 - If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.

Rom 12:19 - Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.

Rom 12:20 - Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.

Rom 12:21 - Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.


3 posted on 08/13/2023 6:02:29 AM PDT by cuz1961 (USCGR Veteran )
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To: cuz1961

...oops

Meant to just post ...

Rom 12:14 - Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not.

Rom 12:15 - Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.

Rom 12:16 - Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low estate. Be not wise in your own conceits.

Rom 12:17 - Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men.

Rom 12:18 - If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.

Rom 12:19 - Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.

Rom 12:20 - Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.

Rom 12:21 - Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.


4 posted on 08/13/2023 6:03:54 AM PDT by cuz1961 (USCGR Veteran )
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To: cuz1961

Thank you for that Scripture.


5 posted on 08/13/2023 6:22:28 AM PDT by metmom (He who testifies to these things says, “Surely I am coming soon.” Amen. Come, Lord Jesus.)
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To: metmom

Yep, keep turning them other cheeks! It’s working great so far for Christians in this culture war.


6 posted on 08/13/2023 8:09:05 AM PDT by aquila48 (Do not let them make you "care" ! Guilting you is how they control you. )
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To: aquila48

Fight the good fight

Resist the devil

Occupy till HE comes

Use all legal means

Don’t be a vigilante

Don’t try and fight satan with satanic tactics

DONT say to hell with what GOD says,

or am I misunderstanding your comment ?


7 posted on 08/13/2023 9:16:45 AM PDT by cuz1961 (USCGR Veteran )
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To: aquila48

Are you suggesting to ignore scripture ,

for Christians

to not listen

to Jesus Christ’s Word

( John 1:1-2)

?


8 posted on 08/13/2023 9:19:33 AM PDT by cuz1961 (USCGR Veteran )
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To: aquila48

It’s the Long Game strategy


9 posted on 08/13/2023 1:39:25 PM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: cuz1961

“Are you suggesting to ignore scripture”

If it tells you to never fight back and keep knuckling under, by all means - ignore it.

Or keep knuckling under - your choice. But then don’t complain as your religion gets treated like crap.

I prefer going Old Testament - An eye for an eye. Or you don’t believe in the old testament?


10 posted on 08/13/2023 8:32:47 PM PDT by aquila48 (Do not let them make you "care" ! Guilting you is how they control you. )
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To: Elsie

“It’s the Long Game strategy”

I don’t have that looong.

And it’s actually the cowards strategy. They use the “turn the other cheek” meme, as an excuse to do nothing, while looking smugly pious.


11 posted on 08/13/2023 8:46:35 PM PDT by aquila48 (Do not let them make you "care" ! Guilting you is how they control you. )
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To: aquila48

“Turning the other cheek does not imply pacifism, nor does it mean we place ourselves or others in danger. Jesus’ command to turn the other cheek is simply a command to forgo retaliation for personal offenses.”
https://www.gotquestions.org/turn-other-cheek.html

That’s one of those verses that’s often misunderstood, much like the “judge not” verse.


12 posted on 08/14/2023 4:17:34 AM PDT by ViLaLuz (2 Chronicles 7:14)
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To: ViLaLuz

What’s a “personal offense”?

Is someone punching your face a personal offense?

Is someone jailing you for what you say or believe a personal offense?


13 posted on 08/14/2023 8:35:28 AM PDT by aquila48 (Do not let them make you "care" ! Guilting you is how they control you. )
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To: aquila48

What’s a “personal offense”?

“The slap (or the “smiting,” as the KJV has it) does not have to involve literal, physical violence. Even in our day, a “slap in the face” is a metaphor for an unexpected insult or offense. Did someone insult you? Let him, Jesus says. Are you shocked and offended? Don’t be. And don’t return insult for insult. Turn the other cheek.”

Is someone punching your face a personal offense?
—That would be assault, a criminal offense.

Is someone jailing you for what you say or believe a personal offense?
—It depends. Was it a terroristic threat of some other criminal offense?


14 posted on 08/14/2023 4:11:50 PM PDT by ViLaLuz (2 Chronicles 7:14)
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