Posted on 09/20/2019 7:55:37 AM PDT by SeekAndFind
I met my husband through a church sponsored young adults group. The group was for the region so it drew on multiple parishes.
It still beats the corner bar.
Yes.
That was before so many churches became covers for queers and when congregants could be expected to behave somewhat morally.
I agree that, done right, these kinds of offerings promote Christian familial virtues and good morally based relationships in general.
The part about them believing Jesus is the Son of God must have gotten cut off at the bottom...
RE: No.
I am interested in reading your reasons as to why.
I, for one, would prefer to go on a “date” with someone the members of my church knew and respected. You can’t possibly know about the guy’s history or intentions from a dating site profile. Plus, dating website are less than helpful for women unless they are 25-45yrs old, beautiful, and look great in a bathing suit. There’s nothing quite like posting a profile and waiting days or weeks without a single response.
From the article:
It was the latest gathering of the Peter and Fevronia Club, a sort of speed-dating night for Moscow’s Orthodox Christians. Each Sunday, after the week’s final service at the 17th Century Dormition Church, Father Alesky Gomonov brings together the single men and women of his parish, and anyone else keen to join. As they chat over cucumber sandwiches and black tea, he dispenses relationship advice mixed with church teachings.
In 2007, they gave Gomonov a special gift: an icon depicting Peter and Fevronia, the Orthodox patron saints of marriage. He led a prayer in their honor that Sunday, and it became a weekly event. Eventually he began serving tea and snacks, and encouraging guests to communicate. The Peter and Fevronia Club was born.
The Peter and Fevronia Club may be the largest weekly gathering of Orthodox singles in Russia, but believers on the market aren’t short of resources to aid their search. Since the 2000s, there’s been a boom in dating sites tailored specifically to them, with names such as Alphabet of Fidelity, Seagull, and Fate.
They offer access to an exclusive community in exchange for heightened scrutiny and compliance with a strict code of conduct.
To register on Alphabet of Fidelity, one must fill out an electronic form consisting of 78 detailed questions about lifestyle choices, religious practices, and political views, ranging from “Would you consider a marriage without carnal knowledge?” to “What for you is the meaning of life?” Other questions relate to clothing style, views on gender and preferred speaking register. The question “How many children do you have?” offers a drop-down menu with options up to 69.
When I was in my late 40s, after my ex divorced me, I signed up for eHarmony for a 3-month membership on three different occasions. I got 7-10 “matches” per week.
Over that time I was “matched” with 18 women I already knew, including two I had dated previously. Some of those “matches” made some sense, but some were “no way in hell.”
I met my current wife through match.com. We also shared each other’s eHarmony profiles. I have been married to the love of my life now for over 9 years after being single for about 10 years. We have never had a real argument in the 10 years we’ve know each other. If something bugs one of us, us bring it up, discuss any misunderstanding, and that’s the end of it. We both have a significant health issue, but are more in love than ever before. I tell the guys in my Sunday morning Bible study that I never realized a marriage could be so peaceful. I can sense that some of them are envious.
My first secretary was the organist in her church. She told me there was a young lady there I should meet. I did and we’ve been married for 40 years.
If the church still taught proper morals and the benefits of marriage in a Christian context, it would have no need to think about a “dating service”.
Unfortunately, the church is doing a substandard job in evangelism, teaching morals and values that it needs to fix this before they can think about providing social services to “lonely” Christians.
Both of you must have been in the illiteracy ministry. :P
In truth,Christian single groups would have cordinators and rules that would keep out any trouble makers.
Not just only the young adults, but also those who are older, have been around the block,(older never married,divorced,or widowed).
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