Posted on 08/23/2019 8:20:20 AM PDT by SeekAndFind
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Dear Chuck,
So, I cosigned for a student loan and now Im stuck paying for it. Is there anything I can do?
Regretful
Dear Regretful,
Unfortunately, the same thing happened with my Dad and we have not found a satisfactory remedy. He was approached by an employee whose son needed assistance to get a head start in life. Because my father wanted to help and believed the story that the young man would respect those who helped him do what no other family member (of this boy) had ever achieved, he cosigned for a large student loan. As soon as the boy graduated, his mother quit her job at my fathers company and he never heard from either of them again. He was conned.
While I am tempted to reveal the persons name since he has flaunted his achievement by driving expensive cars and living the high life while refusing to even return a phone call from my elderly father about his student loan obligation, I will refrain from using my platform for hurting others and instead use it to warn others.
Its easy to make an emotional decision when trying to help a friend, family member, or person in need. But trouble brews when emotions overrule Gods Word.
When someone cosigns for a borrower who is honorable and responsible, payments are made in a timely fashion and no problems occur. But, when someone does not pay on time, either by choice or by circumstances outside their control, the cosigner is stuck, sometimes completely unprepared to pay the balance due.
Surety and Cosigning Defined
Surety is the principle of taking on an obligation to pay or to make a pledge for an obligation. When a borrower cannot get approval for a loan, a cosigner makes it possible by loaning their credit worthiness, thus reducing the risk for lenders. Cosigners are simply people with decent credit and credit history who guarantee payment of a loan should the prime borrower fail to make payments.
Responsibility of Cosigner
Consequences for Cosigner
A Few Options
Another Option: Cosigner Release
This is an important provision for some student loans. Upon graduation and once working full-time, former students should pursue cosigner release. There are numerous requirements but this protects graduates and cosigners in the long run.
What the Bible Says
Surety is the primary means our society uses to buy now and pay later. Many Christians, ignorant of what the Bible says, cosign because they genuinely want to help family or friends.
But, one of Gods financial principles is avoiding surety. It keeps His people on the correct financial path and protects them from traps set by the worlds economic system. Those who take on surety pledge their future and presume upon Gods will.
One who lacks sense gives a pledge and puts up security in the presence of his neighbor. (Proverbs 17:18 ESV)
Whoever puts up security for a stranger will surely suffer harm, but he who hates striking hands in pledge is secure. (Proverbs 11:15 ESV)
The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty. (Proverbs 21:5 ESV)
When someone asks you to cosign, explain that it goes against Biblical principles. Use the opportunity to offer to teach basic personal finance, direct them to Crowns online study and explain that you want to avoid souring your relationship over money. If they do need a loan, suggest they consider the following options.
Ways to Get a Loan Without a Cosigner
In Your Case
While you did not reveal your relationship with the original borrower of the student loan, most often this problem occurs between family members when the student looks to parents, stepparents or grandparents for help. Try to preserve your relationship with the one who has defaulted and left you responsible for the debt. Pray for them to have a change of heart or circumstances to enable them to take back over the loan at some point. Go so far as to ask how you can assist them in getting in a position to be able to take back the obligation for the loan. Since you have no other remedy that I am aware of, do your best to pay the note in full and ask the Lord to work it together for good in a mysterious way only He can do.
Thanks for asking your question. I hope your pain will help many others like you and my Dad avoid a similar plight. That would create some good out of it all.
“Should I cosign a loan?”
Only if you like taking bigger risks than a bank, and want to own the asset.
I find that Proverbs 22 to be relevant.
In particular Proverbs 22:7 “The rich rules over the poor, and the borrower is the slave of the lender.” and Proverbs 22:26 “Be not one of those who give pledges, who put up security for debts.”
NO.
I believe that Benjamin Franklin said it best: “Never a borrower or a lender be”.
We need a lot of Benjamin Franklin devotees in our government.
What does the Bible say about Linux vs Windows?
Loan cosigning is a par of our culture that I made a decision not to participate in after my brother cosigned for his daughter’s car loan. She didn’t make the payments and he didn’t know. Guess who’s credit was impacted - exactly when he went to buy a house.
My advise is NEVER cosign for a loan unless the need is a matter of life and death. People can learn to wait - or live within their means.
For smaller amounts, like maybe a few hundred, I just give it.
Eliminates all that slave stuff.
While you’re cosigning for that loan don’t forget to introduce your young daughter to Bill Clinton, help out that Nigerian prince with his inheritance, and vote for Bernie.
RE: I believe that Benjamin Franklin said it best: Never a borrower or a lender be.
Uncle Ben never had a mortgage I presume.
I think Ben if he said it was quoting a line from Hamlet.
However, it is splendid advice especially when it comes to cosigning.
No such thing as “co-sign”. You signed for a loan. It’s your loan. It just happens to also belong to someone else.
Well, I seem to recall that it does say something about not revealing something shared in confidence (concealing a matter) so I’m thinking data slurping might be looked down on.
If everyone followed his edict, everyone would be poor.
NEVER cosign a loan. Give someone money if you must. Do not expect repayment. Consider it a gift back if they repay you. You will save yourself much grief if you do not expect the money back.
This advice is for individuals, not people who make loans for a living.
Delayed gratification vs the days of the newest smart phone ... we’ve gone way beyond mortgages.
Bank guidelines say that if the cosigner does not pay the loan, the other cosigner owns the loan.
Be careful.
Back in the day, Thomas Jefferson co-signed a loan. He subsequently because responsible for that loan. When he died, he was not free to free his slaves, but they along with other property were put up for auction to make good on his obligations. To this day, Jefferson not freeing his slaves is a black mark on him. Compare Jefferson to Washington. Washington was a diligent farmer and businessman in general. Washington’s wealth grew over time, and in his will made many benefactions, including freeing his slaves upon his wife’s death.
Benjamin Franklin said “save and be free.” But, many Americans are addicted to debt.
The American Dream used to be to have a mortgage burning celebration. Now, many Americans borrow against their equity through Reverse Mortgages.
Few Americans have any financial wealth, and we are the worst in the developed world for people living “paycheck to paycheck.”
It is a great time for pastors to speak to the problem of debt.
Or boxers vs. briefs?
Neither a borrower nor a lender be. Polonius (I think), from Hamlet.
While this expression is appealing, there is a place for debt. For example, when young. But, you should have a goal of being net positive in terms of financial assets and liabilities by middle age, and free of debts entirely by your golden years.
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