The "Once Saved" theory would force the conclusion that you can never know IF you really HAD the faith, or if you were fooling yourself all along. I don't see how that would give anybody the claimed state of assurance. It's a tautology anyway. No believer can ever apostatize. Josh apostatized. Therefore Josh was never a believer. Not a true believer. It's the No True Scotsman Fallacy.
Many scholars, studying the whole of Scripture, recognize that Hebrews warning passages are NOT to believers (”...but I am convinced of better things concerning you, things pertaining to salvation”. Also numerous passages dealing with God’s keeping of the elect (Biblical terminology, not mine) With all respect, 1 John 2:19, Philippians 1:6 and many others deal specifically with the fact that God keeps us and no one takes them out of the Fathers Hand (John 6). Todd Friel addresses this well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fl1bQdHfac0 In summation, those who discover they arent saved are the ones who leave. Biblically, they never were.