If you feel comfortable ripping verses out of their context so that you can have your own private interpretation - go for it - we will hopefully get to have this conversation again in about a 1,000 years or so - if folks are allowed to talk at the Great White Throne.
Perhaps it is you that are doing that. Did Jesus keep the law? Is He our example or not? If we are to follow Him then we need to follow Him. I don't see how we are doing wrong by following His example. But if you feel different then you have followed the way of the world. 2 Thess. 2:11