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Advice needed on how to make a good general confession.

Posted on 07/08/2017 4:12:04 PM PDT by Catmom

Have been attending a Latin Rite parish for about four months now. The last time I went to confession the priest suggested I make an appointment to make a general confession because I admitted to feeling overwhelmed by all the sins of my past life since I had returned to the faith later in life and didn't feel like the priest at my previous, Novus Ordo parish took such matters seriously enough. All such suggestions will be much appreciated. I'm going through an unpleasant time but I know it's because taking my faith more seriously has served to show me how much time I've wasted and how much I have to ammend for.


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To: Claud

I take it you’ve not read Montfort.


81 posted on 07/09/2017 5:12:39 AM PDT by ealgeone
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To: ealgeone
What did Montfort say that contradicted what I just said? He said the same Mass I go to every week. Did he ever offer the Holy Sacrifice of Mass to Mary?

In the ancient world, people didn't just pray to the gods/God, they sacrificed to them. Sacrifice was always seen as a greater act than prayer.

I know you don't share our sacrificial theology, but you can't judge us by your limited standards either. What we define as the highest form of prayer and the supreme sacrifice is never, ever, ever offered to Mary. Not even close. So there remains an infinite gulf between her and God at the very heart of Catholicism, which even Montfort's rapturous devotion cannot ever bridge.

82 posted on 07/09/2017 5:29:57 AM PDT by Claud
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To: Claud
I'll dig up Montfort later...but for now I offer this.

Second Vatican Council (Lumen gentium ## 61-62) 1 Timothy 2:5 and Titus 2:13-14
Mary invoked by Roman Catholicism as Advocate, Auxiliatrix, Adiuxtrix and Mediatrix. For this reason, the Blessed Virgin is invoked in the Church under the titles of Advocate, Auxiliatrix, Adiutrix, and Mediatrix. For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, 1 Timothy 2:5

13looking for the blessed hope and the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Christ Jesus, 14who gave Himself for us to redeem us from every lawless deed, and to purify for Himself a people for His own possession, zealous for good deeds. Titus 2:13-14


83 posted on 07/09/2017 5:50:55 AM PDT by ealgeone
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To: Catmom

I read your post as if you were returning to Confession after a long while as other have apparently others did.

So it seems you’ve already been to Confession since returning to the Faith. If this is the case don’t let yourself be overwhelmed with your past sins, they’ve already been absolved if you honestly forgot to mention them the last time you went.

If any particular sin is still weighing on your conscience then confess it next time you go but don’t worry about trying to remember all of them next time. They’ve already been forgiven if you honestly forgot them the first time you went back after a long time. God understands that.

Go monthly or twice a month now (or as needed when/if you commit a mortal sin of course) And from now on when you are aware of a sin mark it down somewhere and then you can tell the priest how many times you committed sin X. That’s a good practice for you and helpful for him so he may give you some good advice if he’s so inclined to avoid ones that are habitual for you. But always don’t worry if you forget one here and there. If you go to Confession truly contrite the precision of the recounting doesn’t matter that’s only to help you and the priest make a good confession. But all your sins are always forgiven even ones you honestly forget. So don’t become scrupulous about counting them and obsessing over them.


84 posted on 07/09/2017 10:49:04 AM PDT by FourtySeven (47)
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To: Claud

So there remains an infinite gulf between her and God at the very heart of Catholicism, which even Montfort’s rapturous devotion cannot ever bridge.


What is overlooked about Montfort is that his motto was “God alone.” That everything flows from God and everything returns to God. For Montfort, the overarching principle regarding the role of Mary is that it does not exist on its own, that it is entirely reliant on God.

The handbook at the link gives a more complete description of the spirituality of St. Louis de Montfort.

http://www.ewtn.com/library/Montfort/Handbook/Mary.htm


85 posted on 07/09/2017 11:01:14 AM PDT by rwa265
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To: ealgeone

Are you saying you don’t bother with the Ten Commandments, then?? I don’t see them as equal, at all, to the OT laws.


86 posted on 07/09/2017 5:48:40 PM PDT by bboop (does not suffer fools gladly)
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To: ealgeone

I will say - Protestant/ Evangelical/ Holy Roller for 20 years, THEN converted to the Catholic Church. I love confession. I walk with the Lord. Those things are not mutually exclusive.


87 posted on 07/09/2017 5:50:00 PM PDT by bboop (does not suffer fools gladly)
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To: MayflowerMadam

Amen!


88 posted on 07/09/2017 6:21:19 PM PDT by teeman8r (Armageddon won't be pretty, but it's not like it's the end of the world.)
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To: bboop
Are you saying you don’t bother with the Ten Commandments, then?? I don’t see them as equal, at all, to the OT laws.

Jesus noted something different than what you're saying regarding the 10 Commandments.

34But when the Pharisees heard that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees, they gathered themselves together. 35One of them, a lawyer, asked Him a question, testing Him, 36“Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” 37And He said to him, “ ‘YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND.’ 38“This is the great and foremost commandment. 39“The second is like it, ‘YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.’ 40“On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets.” Matthew 22:34-40 NASB

If you're trying to justify yourself by keeping the 10 Commandments you have to keep them perfectly...both in word and spirit.

If you break one it's as if you've broken the whole Law as noted per James.

8If, however, you are fulfilling the royal law according to the Scripture, “YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF,” you are doing well. 9But if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors. 10For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles in one point, he has become guilty of all. 11For He who said, “DO NOT COMMIT ADULTERY,” also said, “DO NOT COMMIT MURDER.” Now if you do not commit adultery, but do commit murder, you have become a transgressor of the law. 12So speak and so act as those who are to be judged by the law of liberty. 13For judgment will be merciless to one who has shown no mercy; mercy triumphs over judgment. James 2:8-13 NASB

89 posted on 07/09/2017 6:28:22 PM PDT by ealgeone
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To: Catmom

To all those who have confessions to make...Get on you knee’s and pray to God the Father and His Son, our Lord Jesus Christ. Your sins will be forgiven. Jesus is the High Priest. No intermediaries needed. He alone intercedes with God the Father.


90 posted on 07/09/2017 6:59:17 PM PDT by GGpaX4DumpedTea ((I am a Tea Party descendant...steeped in the Constitutional Republic given to us by the Founders))
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To: gitmo

then you are living a lie. If all I have to do is go to God and ask forgiveness of my sins, then I don’t have to go to church either, all I have to do is raise my hands on Sunday and praise God from my kitchen...Jesus gave us a priesthood and the 7 sacraments for the priest to administer them.


91 posted on 07/09/2017 8:00:07 PM PDT by Coleus (For the sake of His sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world.)
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To: laplata

she was asking Catholics for advice. If you are not Catholic then you should have had enough common sense to not post to her.


92 posted on 07/09/2017 8:08:37 PM PDT by Coleus (For the sake of His sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world.)
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To: Coleus

I saw nothing that specified she wanted only Catholics for advice and it was not in a Religious Forum. I offered friendly advice because I wish her well and want to help.

You need to get off your pious high horse and mind your own business.

I am Catholic.


93 posted on 07/09/2017 9:07:05 PM PDT by laplata (Liberals/Progressives have diseased minds.)
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To: Coleus

I see that she only replied to one poster on that thread. It seems that she doesn’t have the courtesy to thank people for their help and advice or even reply to them. That is improper and actually, rude.


94 posted on 07/09/2017 9:57:28 PM PDT by laplata (Liberals/Progressives have diseased minds.)
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To: Coleus
then you are living a lie. If all I have to do is go to God and ask forgiveness of my sins, then I don’t have to go to church either, all I have to do is raise my hands on Sunday and praise God from my kitchen...Jesus gave us a priesthood and the 7 sacraments for the priest to administer them.

We're not told to confess our sins to a Roman Catholic Priest....we are however told not to neglect our church meetings.

We also know there were people meeting for church in the early NT.

We do not see the Roman Catholic church in the New Testament.

95 posted on 07/10/2017 4:29:01 AM PDT by ealgeone
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To: ealgeone
Mary invoked by Roman Catholicism as Advocate, Auxiliatrix, Adiuxtrix and Mediatrix.

You didn't answer what I asked about the Mass. So I'll assume that you probably can't answer it, and instead have a little Latin lesson:

Auxiliatrix = female helper.
Adiuxtrix = female assistant.
Mediatrix = female mediator.

Explain to me how any of those titles indicates divinity, since helping, assisting, and mediating are all things humans can do for each other and are not exclusively divine. Did you find Creatrix anywhere in Montfort? Omnipotenta?

96 posted on 07/10/2017 7:45:24 AM PDT by Claud
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To: Claud
Auxiliatrix = female helper. Adiuxtrix = female assistant. Mediatrix = female mediator.

Explain to me how any of those titles indicates divinity, since helping, assisting, and mediating are all things humans can do for each other and are not exclusively divine. Did you find Creatrix anywhere in Montfort? Omnipotenta?

The NT notes there is ONE mediator between God and man and that is Christ.

The NT also notes Jesus is our Advocate and so is the Holy Spirit.

Roman Catholicism has very subtly raised Mary to the status of Jesus and the Holy Spirit.

97 posted on 07/10/2017 10:00:49 AM PDT by ealgeone
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To: laplata

Perhaps she hasn’t been online in a few days.


98 posted on 07/10/2017 2:43:53 PM PDT by piusv (Pray for a return to the pre-Vatican II (Catholic) Faith)
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To: ealgeone; Claud

Roman Catholicism has very subtly raised Mary to the status of Jesus and the Holy Spirit.


You keep saying this, Ealgeone. But you never provide any evidence supporting this claim. Where has it ever been stated in Catholic doctrine or teaching that Mary is to be accorded the same status as that which is given to Jesus and the Holy Spirit?


99 posted on 07/10/2017 3:22:13 PM PDT by rwa265
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To: rwa265

Her titles of Mediatrx and Advocatrix for starters.


100 posted on 07/10/2017 3:37:59 PM PDT by ealgeone
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