But when that bunch came of age they had very different ideas. Tradition was "square". They had to find themselves. I think their parents never really burdened them with piety. They wanted them to be happy and so the parents just looked the other way.
Now here we sit. People back in the day would be mortified if they had one divorce, now they have multiple divorces and not only are they not embarrassed they demand that the Church change to accommodate them.
Then there is this need for things! No one wants to raise the few children they bring into the world. Day care at 6 weeks old all so the couple can have a bigger house to fight over when they split up. It goes on and on.
By way of example. My grand niece(not Catholic, not that it matters but let me just show how this goes, she also is employed).
She is now married, but has two children with a man she never married, now she has married and has one on the way plus a step child. Unknown whether the man she married was ever married to that child's mother. The niece is the product of a mom who had three kids with a man she never married, but married another man and had two more kids.
Her Mom's parents are both divorced and remarried. Her biological fathers parents are both divorced and remarried. Her step fathers parents are both divorced and remarried and the father of her first two children, his parents and all of his grandparents are divorced and remarried. So the children have 24 grandparents. How the Hell does anyone keep track of this let alone honor it?
You have some sound reasoning for me to ponder too. I don’t think we can blame it on any one thing, but a combination of things.
Excellent points.