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1 posted on 12/28/2013 3:59:04 PM PST by NYer
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There is no one reason and this is happening in other churches, as well. The best explanation for this shift and movement, was provided by (then) Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger in his PRO ELIGENDO ROMANO PONTIFICE, delivered at the mass preceding the conclave that elected him pope. Referring to the 2nd reading at mass that day, he said:

How many winds of doctrine have we known in recent decades, how many ideological currents, how many ways of thinking. The small boat of the thought of many Christians has often been tossed about by these waves - flung from one extreme to another: from Marxism to liberalism, even to libertinism; from collectivism to radical individualism; from atheism to a vague religious mysticism; from agnosticism to syncretism and so forth. Every day new sects spring up, and what St Paul says about human deception and the trickery that strives to entice people into error (cf. Eph 4: 14) comes true.

Today, having a clear faith based on the Creed of the Church is often labeled as fundamentalism. Whereas relativism, that is, letting oneself be "tossed here and there, carried about by every wind of doctrine", seems the only attitude that can cope with modern times. We are building a dictatorship of relativism that does not recognize anything as definitive and whose ultimate goal consists solely of one's own ego and desires.

This homily was delivered on April 18, 2005. Since then, the evidence of his preaching has manifested itself in all too personal a reality for many of us. We raised our children in the Church, ensured they were properly educated and received all of the sacraments yet many of them have slipped away.

Secularism can be a strangle hold to impede the development of one's growth in faith.

2 posted on 12/28/2013 3:59:39 PM PST by NYer ("The wise man is the one who can save his soul. - St. Nimatullah Al-Hardini)
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I am Catholic but not “practicing”. Until the church starts kicking out some politicians I find no reason to be in the pew.


3 posted on 12/28/2013 4:00:51 PM PST by Ghost of SVR4 (So many are so hopelessly dependent on the government that they will fight to protect it.)
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It’s happening all over American Christianity. People have decided that they don’t need church or religion. Oprah tells them that its more important to be spiritual than religious. They meditate through yoga to “commune with diety”. They stop attending church because they don’t agree with one part of doctrine...and the next church has a different disagreeable piece of doctrine....and the next church another.

Basically, they believe they hold all knowledge on their cell phone. They can publish their beliefs for the whole world to see via the phone everytime they discover that they believe something new. They can reach out and buy things on their phone.

So, they worship the phone. We’ve become a cargo cult.


4 posted on 12/28/2013 4:04:41 PM PST by Bryanw92 (Sic semper tyrannis)
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“The Spirit has explicitly said that during the last times some will desert the faith and pay attention to deceitful spirits and doctrines …” (1 Tm 4:1-7).

The problem for me is that the people this describes are those that occupy high and low office in the Church. I refer to the pro-abortion-politician-loving USCCB in particular. And not only do they force public policy, they actively thwart the teaching of proper Catechism and morals.

That's why I left the church - things are so awful by me that I now have serious doubts about the beneficial value of the Eucharist. I wish this were not the case, but I'm seeing a negative correlation between the frequency that a person participates in the sacrament of Communion and the amount of vile (yet sanctimoniously executed) actions taken by them.

It breaks my heart, really (no sarcasm whatsoever), but I can't ignore what's happening.

6 posted on 12/28/2013 4:12:26 PM PST by Yossarian
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>> Over the past 50 years or so, a profound change, other than that effected by Vatican II,

Discovered the cause in the very first sentence yet failed to make the connection.

7 posted on 12/28/2013 4:14:42 PM PST by NewJerseyJoe (Rat mantra: "Facts are meaningless! You can use facts to prove anything that's even remotely true!")
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I can definitely see why religion is unappealing to women and women are leaving in droves. The only women who go to church are really old, like some of my aunts in their 60’s.

The only reason my family went to church is because my father dragged my mother and me/sibling down there. He actually liked church. Once he died, we stopped going. It’s a very depressing place.


12 posted on 12/28/2013 4:27:57 PM PST by snowstorm12
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It is a matter of God touching the individual with his grace.

Simple answer: Pray to God for your loved ones and all persons who have left the faith that He may show them the way back. On a personal note from certain members of my own family (my sister and a nephew) who have left the Church, it is my perception that neither one of them seem to have a sense of a "fear of the Lord." They truly have no profound sense of guilt for a sin, which is sad.

13 posted on 12/28/2013 4:28:37 PM PST by Gerish (Feed your faith and your doubts will starve to death.)
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Count me in as one of the 30 million former Catholics. Between Kool Aid drinking ultramontanists on the Catholic Right, and illegal alien enablers on the Left, why bother?


14 posted on 12/28/2013 4:44:47 PM PST by Clemenza ("History, I believe, furnishes no example of a priest-ridden people maintaining a free civil governm)
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In any case, given the variety of reasons for people leaving the Church, the degree of separation, and especially assuming good will on the part of those leaving, it is difficult to classify them as heretics or schismatics

Being called heretics or schismatics would be mild language for many RCs on FR. But the charge is mutual btwn Scripture Christians and RCs.

23 posted on 12/28/2013 5:01:23 PM PST by daniel1212 (Come to the Lord Jesus as a contrite damned+destitute sinner, trust Him to save you, then live 4 Him)
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I see several very clear, distinct reason for those who before called themselves Catholics to no longer do so.

The largest, single reason is that these were CINOs, Catholics in Name Only, who were only socially aligned with Catholicism. Where they had lived the church effectively ruled over them, dominating the government, the police, and all the good jobs. It even after a fashion dominated the criminal element. The ticket to anything was that a person had to call themselves a Catholic and be affiliated with a parish.

When this social omnipotence of the church ended, so did any reason the CINOs had to be anything other than nominal members.

The second biggest reason was Vatican II. To traditional, conservative Catholics, it felt like a betrayal at the top.

I got to see what happened when a church in Phoenix was again allowed to conduct a Latin Mass. Catholics who had not been to church since Vatican II *had* to return. The first two rows of pews were filled with aged invalids, some on death’s door. Standing room only in that large church, with floor fans because of the heat of so many crowded together. A few elderly people carried icons of their deceased spouses.

These were people who felt the church had deserted them. They wanted their religion back, not whatever trendy ideas were popular for the moment.


24 posted on 12/28/2013 5:02:17 PM PST by yefragetuwrabrumuy (Last Obamacare Promise: "If You Like Your Eternal Soul, You Can Keep It.")
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Questions naturally arise. What has caused such a massive defection? How might one account for this phenomenon? It hardly seems possible that any single factor could explain a phenomenon of such magnitude.


27 posted on 12/28/2013 5:12:38 PM PST by daniel1212 (Come to the Lord Jesus as a contrite damned+destitute sinner, trust Him to save you, then live 4 Him)
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the Catholic church I remember had very respected youthful priests with the one older pastor overseeing them all....

we had nuns in nun outfits....

we had processions all the time...and in May we did special devotions to Mary...

we sang simple nice music, but definately not the kumbaya stuff around now...

the old Catholic church was built aroung the family.....all those huge families after WW2...we had cyo basketball...we had church choir picnics...we had blue and gold dinners for our parish boy scout troop...

it was all good...a wonderful time to be a kid...

now....there is little fellowship...at least not like before...we don't know what we believe....we think we need to "reach" out to every pervert and not be judgemental on abortion and birth control and especially, we don't encourage large families....no, not that...we couldn't have large families...

large families is what the Catholic church in America was all about and now its just a moot point...

33 posted on 12/28/2013 5:33:24 PM PST by cherry (.in the time of universal deceit, telling the truth is revolutionary.....)
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My husband grew up in a very Catholic community. He went to a Catholic grade school through 8th grade. Unfortunately, the local Catholic Church had few activities for the young people. My husband had lots of friends in high school and was regularly invited to attend Luther League events. The Lutheran college, only 15 miles away, offered summer courses for high school students. My husband attended one and liked the college so much that he applied there and was accepted. That’s where he met me - a life long Lutheran. His priest’s greatest fear was realized. :-)

So my dear husband has been a Lutheran for many years. I think he may have left the Catholic Church on his own, based on issues he has had with it over the years. But it was the outreach of the Lutheran Church with first drew him away.


35 posted on 12/28/2013 5:40:20 PM PST by ConstantSkeptic (Be careful about preconceptions)
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Doctrinal differences here.

The more I read of Scripture, the bigger difference between it and the teachings of the Catholic church I saw.

It finally reached a breaking point and the Word of God won out.


40 posted on 12/28/2013 5:56:26 PM PST by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith....)
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Churches that are Biblically accurate and culturally relevant are growing like crazy.

People see whether a church is congruent with its message. They know whether the message is meaningful.

Churches that fail one or both are shrinking - and this without regard to denomination.


46 posted on 12/28/2013 6:18:12 PM PST by aMorePerfectUnion (Truth is hate to those who hate the Truthorth reading)
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48 posted on 12/28/2013 6:20:41 PM PST by narses (... unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you do not have life within you.)
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I was received (Baptism, Confirmation, Eucharist)) into the Church in 2009. I am probably one of the more traditionally minded in our small rural VA parish. What drew me into the Church, was not quite what I found. It seems that some in the Church are more interested in a worldly kingdom (social things), not a heavenly one(true conversion). Maybe the lack of pastoral challenge against our sinfulness keeps people away.


54 posted on 12/28/2013 6:49:19 PM PST by cutofyourjib (Repent and pray for one another!)
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I was received into the Church in 2001, via EWTN. Of course I found neither the piety, reverence nor the teaching anywhere in my diocese to even begin to compare with EWTN, nor even a single effort in the diocese to accommodate the Extraordinary Form. The nearest accomodation is almost a 7 hour drive.

The parish churches are stripped now, taking on the appearance of protestant churches, along with guitars and 2nd grade level lyrics in many of the song selections. No silence to speak of, because music has prime of place. The sign of Peace is out of control, exaggerated now, into other rows and scandalously across the aisles and back, even extending cheerfully into the Lamb of God prayer.

I wretch at the fall of the Mass every single Sunday, but I would NEVER miss a Mass. I am outraged and revolted every Sunday, but I would never miss a Mass. My heart is pierced by the abuses I witness, but I would never miss a Mass.

I made a pact with God Himself to acknowledge that He is there in the Mass and He is pained also, but He is there for me, in Holy Communion, and I must be there for Him to receive Him.

All He asks is for me to endure unto the End.

He warned us in Sacred Scripture what was to come, and it is here. We did it to ourselves and we accept His warning— that but a remnant of even the faithful will be saved— that were not the days shortened even the very elect would be lost. I believe Him. He knows of the outrage, pain and disgust.

“....and you, my brothers and sisters to pray for me to the Lord our God.”

Have a blessed Christmas and a blessed New Year.


59 posted on 12/28/2013 7:01:43 PM PST by RitaOK ( VIVA CHRISTO REY / Public education is the farm team for more Marxists coming.)
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I don’t know, I went to a friend to his Catholic mass on Christmas day. The church had two masses going at all times and several times throughout the day. It was full to the last seat.


63 posted on 12/28/2013 7:04:44 PM PST by CodeToad (When ignorance rules a person's decision they are resorting to superstition.)
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I worship where God has placed me, and am grateful that He finds me useful, even though I know that anything that I do, He could do it better. I have no qualms whatever denomination a Christian is led to worship, as long as it presents the essentials of God, Christ, and salvation, without evident heresy (as in the liberalism of the UUs, or the Pelagianism of the Mormons).

But if I were looking for the "original" church, I would go to the Orthodox: the doctrine is essentially the same, but the hierarchical setup and the "style" of the RC is more medieval/Renaissance, while that of the Orthodox is pre-medieval.

66 posted on 12/28/2013 7:06:15 PM PST by chajin ("There is no other name under heaven given among people by which we must be saved." Acts 4:12)
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