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Top 10 Reasons our Kids Leave Church
Marc5solas.com ^ | February 8, 2013 | Marc5Solas

Posted on 04/07/2013 7:22:38 PM PDT by hiho hiho

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1 posted on 04/07/2013 7:22:38 PM PDT by hiho hiho
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To: hiho hiho

An initial question: Whose definition of church are we using here?


2 posted on 04/07/2013 7:25:32 PM PDT by Belteshazzar (We are not justified by our works but by faith - De Jacob et vita beata 2 +Ambrose of Milan)
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To: Belteshazzar

And what is that definition, exactly?


3 posted on 04/07/2013 7:26:31 PM PDT by Belteshazzar (We are not justified by our works but by faith - De Jacob et vita beata 2 +Ambrose of Milan)
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To: Belteshazzar
An initial question: Whose definition of church are we using here?

Why yours .. of course. :-)

4 posted on 04/07/2013 7:30:27 PM PDT by plain talk
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To: Belteshazzar

He is using “church” to refer to the “church universal”

You might also read his “about” page —
http://marc5solas.com/about-marc5solas/


5 posted on 04/07/2013 7:32:22 PM PDT by hiho hiho
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To: hiho hiho
11. Kids only went to church became Mom and Dad said so. Now that they are out of the house, they stop attending.

Until they settle down and grow up and understand why Mom and Dad went to church.

6 posted on 04/07/2013 7:35:41 PM PDT by Darren McCarty (If most people were more than keyboard warriors, we might have won the election)
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7 posted on 04/07/2013 7:43:50 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (May the Lord bless you and keep you, may He turn to you His countenance, and give you peace.)
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To: hiho hiho

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8 posted on 04/07/2013 7:49:13 PM PDT by DocRock (All they that TAKE the sword shall perish with the sword. Matthew 26:52 Gun grabbers beware.)
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To: plain talk

Snarky, but you make your point ... for whatever it is worth.


9 posted on 04/07/2013 7:50:29 PM PDT by Belteshazzar (We are not justified by our works but by faith - De Jacob et vita beata 2 +Ambrose of Milan)
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To: hiho hiho

If you want more about this, you may want to consider getting the book “Broken: 7 Rules Every Christian Should Break” by Rev. Jonathan Fisk. He really gets into how Satan uses his lies to get people into false faith.


10 posted on 04/07/2013 7:58:11 PM PDT by freemama
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To: Belteshazzar

well I found your ‘question’ kind of snarky. so answer snarky with snarky I suppose :-)


11 posted on 04/07/2013 7:58:59 PM PDT by plain talk
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To: plain talk

Really? I just wanted to know under what definition we would be operating on this thread so as to know how to respond. No snark. Just looking for clarity. But, if clarity is not desired, so be it.

The question of “church” and what it means is by no means a small matter, as a perusal of ecclesiastical (I know, just a fancy word for church, but one that plainly reveals the original meaning of the word) history will readily make clear. These days among church goers in the USA I don’t think anything can be commonly assumed in regard to understanding and definitions. This is part of the reason we have so many denominations and, even, non-denominational “denominations.” I put the last word in parentheses because non-denominationals seem to believe that because they say they are not denominational, they are in fact non-denominational. I doubt any denomination ever started with a different conviction.

So, again, if that is snark in your book, I guess it is snark in your book.


12 posted on 04/07/2013 8:14:03 PM PDT by Belteshazzar (We are not justified by our works but by faith - De Jacob et vita beata 2 +Ambrose of Milan)
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To: hiho hiho

Have you ever noticed how many hateful atheists there are on the Internet?


13 posted on 04/07/2013 8:15:08 PM PDT by MNDude (I survived the sequester!)
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To: hiho hiho
Painful topic.

Three sons all gone from home, none practicing a faith in Christ, to my knowledge.

Can't disagree with the "reasons", would add some of my own, including a youth minister who was unfaithful to his wife and publicly and painfully resigned, in front of the church and youth.

I don't judge this young man whatsoever, however it is evident that when young people look up to a leader in the church and that leader's sin of adultery follows behind him or her the obvious is going to happen in effect cause disenchantment with the gospel, the church, you name it, among the youth.

14 posted on 04/07/2013 8:18:53 PM PDT by gettinolder (Pursue the enemy relentlessly to the limit of every man's endurance.)
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To: hiho hiho

My guess is it is because of something called ‘free will’, and the normal tendency of man to hate God. Faith isn’t carried on the X or Y chromosome.


15 posted on 04/07/2013 8:23:39 PM PDT by Mr Rogers (Liberals are like locusts...)
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To: Belteshazzar

I mean no disrespect. But I really thought you were being flippant. The question was a broad question and wasn’t aimed at any particular denomination ... therefore one would assume it would deal with all churches. Not sure where you are going. I guess you could limit it to what I call real bible-believing churches but even there people have different opinions. That’s why there are 14B different churches :-)

I belong to a very conservative PCA church. My wife is Catholic but has been seeking other churches. This morning I got to go to a new one she is trying out - an Episcopol church. It was OK but I read their intro which says they welcome people of all races and sexual orientation etc. I thought “hear we go”. Then I look up and one of the female deacons is obviously a dyke. There is no other explanation for a haircut that short in the back. Wife prefers a more liberal church so she may stay. I wanted to puke. I’ll stay put where I am. :-) Cheers


16 posted on 04/07/2013 8:28:59 PM PDT by plain talk
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To: hiho hiho

thanks for posting.


17 posted on 04/07/2013 8:29:28 PM PDT by Nevadan
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To: hiho hiho

Went to church & religion as a youth. Got a Bible and started reading it. I soon released I didn’t believe it.

And that’s probably the number one reason people leave the church, They just don’t believe.


18 posted on 04/07/2013 8:31:55 PM PDT by qam1 (There's been a huge party. All plates and the bottles are empty, all that's left is the bill to pay)
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To: hiho hiho
When they leave home, they realize that they can be “spiritually fulfilled” and get the same subjective self-improvement principles (and warm-fuzzies) from the latest life-coach or from spending time with friends or volunteering at a shelter.

I remember a pastor who took a very difficult, very challenging passage from the Bible, and through a remarkable set of contortions used it to back up his message of "You're all fine just the way you are, and God will never ask you to change anything, ever."

Seriously. The level of feel-good cr__ coming out of that pulpit was literally making me sick. People don't grow if they keep hearing that they'll never have to grow.

If a body is starving for meat, cotton candy doesn't cut it.
19 posted on 04/07/2013 8:36:38 PM PDT by Ellendra ("Laws were most numerous when the Commonwealth was most corrupt." -Tacitus)
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To: qam1

So are you a doubting Thomas? Unless you can touch it, you don’t believe??

Do you believe in the sun, the moon, the stars, the conception and immediate soul of a baby??

You can’t touch those things. Yet I bet you beleieve in them.


20 posted on 04/07/2013 8:44:04 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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