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Mormons in Mourning: Post Election Depression
A Well-Behaved Mormon Woman ^
| November 2, 2012
| Kathryn Skaggs
Posted on 12/29/2012 9:10:37 AM PST by greyfoxx39
From childhood it has been my nature to find that double rainbow in even the worst adversity I've experienced throughout my life, and like so many of you I've had my share. As an adult I am now well conditioned to find it immediately -- as I've learned that to do so I'm able to overcome a setback much quicker, press forward -- come what may. (Of note, this usually accompanies a very fast turn to Christ as part of the process.) But on occasion, life's disappointments refuse to allow such expediency and we are compelled to pause briefly -- rest on why that is -- and find the possible lessons to be learned, seemingly necessary.
So, today I want to pause from my normal, upbeat blogging style to acknowledge what I've been observing throughout my Mormon community since Mitt Romney's bid to become the first President of the United States failed: post election depression.
Like many of you hoping to celebrate the 2012 election results, I was ready to enthusiastically write that historic victory post, not only here, but also on the Washington Post:
Mitt Romney First Mormon President of the United States!
But alas, what many Mormons have been anticipating, praying for and some going so far as to fast for -- some believing it God's will -- were literally left devastated at the final election results! I know this because I've read what you think and heard what many of you are saying. And let me be quite honest here -- I've been somewhat taken back at the public displays of both anger and disappointment displayed by many members through the use of social media and on social networks -- causing me to wonder how future scripture would describe us as a people and what lessons our behaviors would teach future generations.
But please know, I'm not here to judge anyone -- I'm sincerely concerned by such outcry. Strange enough, I read an article a few days before the election suggesting that either way, a Romney win or defeat, Mormons would not have much of a reaction . Boy did that lady have us wrong! I knew how excited we would all be if it were to have been a victory, but truly I had no idea the level of sadness and/or anger that I would witness by members I personally know and associate with. And this observation is not mine alone. I've receive a few emails from other members expressing this same concern -- which has ultimately driven this post.
I can't really say why, for sure, that my own immediate response turned to finding the positive for Mormonism, in general -- of which I wrote election night and posted here, and then turned to give my response, as promised, whatever that was to be, to the Washington Post's On Faith Blog -- but somehow I was blessed to be given a view that enabled me to find a triple rainbow -- right away!
How grateful I am for that immediate blessing. Little did I know but that our little band of latter-day saints would collectively be so saddened by these election results. Let me just say, because I know if I don't I will be called out: but I do realize that for many of you it had little or nothing to do with the fact that Mitt Romney is a Mormon -- as I stand in that place -- but for many it was. And that's okay.
I'm not really sure why such extreme responses by so many members. I do realize that many believe this country is heading into some very dark days, and that by having Mitt Romney, a Republican and a Mormon, surely we could course correct this seeming downward spiral -- and with his loss such hopes have been dashed! I get this thought process and I'm sure there's much more that I'm not understanding -- or get -- but I'm still asking myself why? Why such sadness?
I found this quote by President Ezra Taft Benson responding to the popular Mormon belief that our Constitution would hang by a thread (which it likely is), and that the Elders of Israel would basically rise to save the day. I do have a concern that some of the sadness or disappointment being felt might possibly be connected to these thoughts, some feeling that Mitt Romney was the man for the job. And FYI, this 'prophecy' known as the White Horse Prophecy, is not official doctrine of the Church.
"I have faith that the Constitution will be saved as prophesied by Joseph Smith. But it will not be saved in Washington. It will be saved by the citizens of this nation who love and cherish freedom. It will be saved by enlightened members of this Church -- men and women who will subscribe to and abide the principles of the Constitution" (Source: CHB 28-31)
So, according to President Benson, and I don't know what other leaders have said on this topic, but it seems to me that the answer to the Constitution problem will not be solved by one powerful person in government -- but individual members.
How that happens I can't say for sure, but I do believe that education and the preaching of the gospel will have a powerful influence on society as one-by-one individuals turn to God and choose to manage their lives according to His laws. And His laws are in harmony with the "principles of the Constitution".
As we reflect on the what now question and the where do we go from here question it begins to become more clear that the results of this election are that the gates to share the gospel have been blasted wide open and we've all got a lot of work ahead of us. And indeed it may not be too far fetched to suggest that the lowering of the missionary age requirement, prompting a significant increase in new missionary applications, was the inspired work of our beloved watchmen on the tower -- knowing full well what is ahead.
Michael Otterson, who manages Church Public Affairs, globally, just published an excellent article over at On Faith, wherein he takes a look at: What lies ahead for Mormons...
"More visibility is not necessarily the same as increased understanding. In reality, a presidential election campaign is probably the worst time to try to educate and inform, because politics by its nature is divisive and often shrill. Many people are ready to believe the worst if it comports with their political leanings. But with the heat and divisiveness of a political campaign behind us, thoughtful Mormons can now look to the possibility of having more serious discussions with others about our faith, and especially about how our theology translates into the way we live."
Isn't that a great point?
Before we move on though, you should know that you're not alone in feeling sad or depressed. Pretty much everyone I know who was hoping that Romney would win the election, and not just Mormons, are feeling pretty blue right now. From what I've observed, there's a whole lot of chocolate going on! ; ) I just thought it might be helpful to acknowledge it and maybe even share some feelings.
TOPICS: Current Events; General Discusssion; Other non-Christian; Religion & Culture
KEYWORDS: bho2012; depression; election; inman; ldschurch; mormon; romney; romney2012
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To: Elsie
John 6:28-29
Then they asked him, What must we do to do the works God requires?
Jesus answered, The work of God is this: to believe in the one he has sent.
1 John 3:21-24
Dear friends, if our hearts do not condemn us, we have confidence before God and receive from him anything we ask, because we keep his commands and do what pleases him. And this is his command: to believe in the name of his Son, Jesus Christ, and to love one another as he commanded us. The one who keeps Gods commands lives in him, and he in them. And this is how we know that he lives in us: We know it by the Spirit he gave us.
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posted on
12/30/2012 3:44:58 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: ejonesie22
I heard the artifacts were out of sight...Only a Hateful ANTI would say a thing like that!
http://www.bookofmormontours.com/
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posted on
12/30/2012 3:50:46 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: BillyBoy
Your last paragraph “hit the nail on the head”. The family of Christ is defined by that very doctrine.
63
posted on
12/30/2012 6:06:38 AM PST
by
ejonesie22
(8/30/10, the day Truth won.)
To: BillyBoy; ejonesie22; SENTINEL; Colofornian; colorcountry; P-Marlowe
Many Mormons behave in a more Christian manner than a lot of "Christians" in the world.As a former mormon who has lived in several mormon-controlled communities, I can assure you that I have personally known of mormon pedophiles, mormon drunks, mormon thieves and mormon wife-beaters.
For example, a current case:
Former LDS bishop arraigned, accused of bilking 'little guys'
Is this the behavior that you consider the most "Christian"?
Even if it is, mormonism is NOT Christianity...even if "many" behave.
64
posted on
12/30/2012 6:13:32 AM PST
by
greyfoxx39
(Romney's gift to the country....Boehner bowing to Obama while kicking the Tea Party.)
To: ejonesie22
No, otherwise you would be correct...but you’re not.
65
posted on
12/30/2012 6:26:41 AM PST
by
stuartcr
("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
To: ejonesie22
No, otherwise you would be correct...but you’re not.
66
posted on
12/30/2012 6:26:57 AM PST
by
stuartcr
("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
To: Elsie
67
posted on
12/30/2012 6:35:50 AM PST
by
stuartcr
("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
To: Elsie
68
posted on
12/30/2012 6:36:06 AM PST
by
stuartcr
("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
To: stuartcr
You’re posting history indicates otherwise...
69
posted on
12/30/2012 7:37:57 AM PST
by
ejonesie22
(8/30/10, the day Truth won.)
To: ejonesie22
No, your skills at interpreting why people do things, is just not accurate.
70
posted on
12/30/2012 7:53:32 AM PST
by
stuartcr
("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
To: stuartcr
So the stop with the games and enlighten us as to your motivations...
71
posted on
12/30/2012 8:04:23 AM PST
by
ejonesie22
(8/30/10, the day Truth won.)
To: stuartcr
Neither are yours, even though apparently you think so.
Greg West........BOOOO!!!!!!
72
posted on
12/30/2012 8:05:09 AM PST
by
svcw
(Why is one cell on another planet considered life, and in the womb it is not.)
To: ejonesie22
73
posted on
12/30/2012 8:19:55 AM PST
by
stuartcr
("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
To: svcw
Again ???Greg West??? who is he?
74
posted on
12/30/2012 8:21:03 AM PST
by
stuartcr
("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
To: svcw
Thanks for the freemail with the article by this Greg West guy. I glanced over it and now I know who he is..so?
75
posted on
12/30/2012 9:08:25 AM PST
by
stuartcr
("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
To: stuartcr
Red don’t glance
I actually understand why you don’t “get it”, so there is nothing I can say to help you understand.
ta ta
76
posted on
12/30/2012 9:27:25 AM PST
by
svcw
(Why is one cell on another planet considered life, and in the womb it is not.)
To: svcw
If I was interested, I would have Red it.
77
posted on
12/30/2012 9:46:28 AM PST
by
stuartcr
("Everything happens as God wants it to, otherwise, things would be different.")
To: greyfoxx39; ejonesie22; SENTINEL; Colofornian; colorcountry; P-Marlowe; Elsie; campaignPete R-CT
>>
As a former mormon who has lived in several mormon-controlled communities, I can assure you that I have personally known of mormon pedophiles, mormon drunks, mormon thieves and mormon wife-beaters. <<
ALL religious denominations have that. There are examples of Jewish pedophiles, Jewish drunks, Jewish thieves and Jewish wife-beaters.... Southern Baptist pedophiles, Southern Baptist drunks, Southern Baptist thieves and Southern Baptist wife-beaters.... Catholic pedophiles, Catholic drunks, Catholic thieves and Catholic wife-beaters.... all of us are human and fall short of the glory of the God.
I don't think anyone would claim a particular religious community is made up of infallible members. I simply said MANY Mormons behave him in a more Christian manner than a lot of self-proclaimed "Christians" in this country. This doesn't mean they don't have their share of seedy Mormons.
>> Former LDS bishop arraigned, accused of bilking 'little guys' Is this the behavior that you consider the most "Christian"? <<
Of course not. By better behavior, I mean that studies have shown that Mormon families on average are much more likely to be intact two parent marriages, have less drug use, crime, adultery, and more weekly church attendance than the "average" Catholic or Protestant household in America. Those are the facts whether you like them or not. I am NOT a Mormon but it certainly looks bad among mainstream Christians that so many Christian families do not behave in a Christ-like manner. It's very sad that half of all marriages now end in divorce.
>> Even if it is, mormonism is NOT Christianity...even if "many" behave. <<
As I previously noted twice, I do NOT claim Mormonism is Christianity. They certainly aren't... but overall they simply behave more morally and Christ-like than a lot of self-proclaimed Christians.
In reality, "many" DO NOT claim Mormonism is Christianity. It's baseless propaganda from the mainstream media that only "evangelicals don't think Mormons are Christian". In reality, EVERY mainstream Christian denomination REJECTS the idea that Mormons are Christians. Catholics, Orthodox, and "mainline" protestant churches have ALL said Mormon doctrines are incompatible with Christianity. Mormonism is a polytheistic religion that denies basic Christian tenants and practices things no genuine Christian denomination would accept, such as baptizing death people. They claim Jesus is the messiah and divine, but so do many other non-Christian religions like the Bahá'í faith. Mormons are no more "Christian" than Hindus are.
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posted on
12/30/2012 10:41:47 AM PST
by
BillyBoy
( Impeach Obama? Yes We Can!)
To: BillyBoy
As I previously noted twice, I do NOT claim Mormonism is Christianity. They certainly aren't... but overall they simply behave more morally and Christ-like than a lot of self-proclaimed Christians.What kind of proof do you have to substantiate the "over all" claim? I have personally found that those who claim to be Christians behave more morally than a heckuva lot of mormons that I have known....and some of the most "morally behaved" folks I have met were Jehovah's Witnesses.
I guess when there is a sect that spends billions of dollars on TV and radio advertising proclaiming its "morality" and has thousands of internet sites doing the same some folks will buy into the outward appearance.
Give us an example of the percentages of "self-proclaimed Christians" vs the "superior moral mormons" that you personally know, along with a description of the location in which you are finding these examples. Thanks.
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posted on
12/30/2012 10:54:25 AM PST
by
greyfoxx39
(Romney's gift to the country....Boehner bowing to Obama while kicking the Tea Party.)
To: stuartcr
80
posted on
12/30/2012 11:31:02 AM PST
by
ejonesie22
(8/30/10, the day Truth won.)
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