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Would You Attend a Same-Sex Wedding? {ans by Joel Osteen}
Christian Post ^ | 18 Oct 2011 | R Albert Mohler

Posted on 10/18/2011 11:38:34 AM PDT by Cronos

Would you attend a same-sex wedding ceremony? That question was posed recently to Houston pastor Joel Osteen, and Osteen said that he would attend, if the wedding involved friends. This came just after Osteen indicated that he could not perform a same-sex marriage ceremony, since he believes that homosexuality is a sin.

I recently wrote about this exchange, suggesting that Osteen’s position is morally and theologically incoherent. As I said:

This is beyond mere incoherence. It is moral and theological nonsense. More than that, it is a massive statement of ministerial malpractice. . . . You cannot celebrate what you say you know to be sin. You cannot honestly say that same-sex marriage defies the law of God, and then join in the celebration of that ceremony.

In recent days, Uri Scaramanga of “Out of Ur” and Leadership magazine posed the question to readers, using my comments as a point of reference. The question: “Is Al Mohler right? Is attending a same-sex marriage ceremony the same as performing one? Is it ministerial malpractice? What would you do?”

The responses to that question are revealing. I did not, however, argue that attending a same-sex marriage ceremony is the same as performing one, I did say - and I repeat - that it is incoherent and inconsistent to refuse to perform a same-sex marriage ceremony, and then to attend one.

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TOPICS: Charismatic Christian; Current Events
KEYWORDS: almohler; culturaldecay; emotionalblackmail; homonaziagenda; homonazism; homosexualagenda; mohler; osteen; samesexmarriage; sin
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To: Chode

I know I don’t even have to ask........but I love your answers!


81 posted on 10/18/2011 5:07:10 PM PDT by Morgana ("Since using your shampoo my hair has come alive!" ----Medusa)
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To: EggsAckley

” Your church may call this an abomination, I can’t call it that.”

There are wierdos that marry serial killers, too, but that doesn’t make them or the act right.


82 posted on 10/18/2011 5:08:55 PM PDT by CodeToad (Islam needs to be banned in the US and treated as a criminal enterprise.)
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To: se_ohio_young_conservative
Letting someone know that you love them and care for them even though you disagree with homosexuality is important.

So, how are you even letting them know that you disagree with homosexuality if you celebrate it with them? ??????

83 posted on 10/18/2011 5:39:12 PM PDT by fwdude ("When in the Course of human events it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve ...")
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To: se_ohio_young_conservative

Osteen is an entertainer; there is no substance to him. He doesn’t want to offend anyone, so there is no real belief structure.

Any Christian, Jewish, or Muslim group that treats homosexuality as anything other than an abomination is not Christian, Muslim, or Jewish. The liberals that claim to belong to any of these faiths have absolutely no basis to support their positions.


84 posted on 10/18/2011 5:40:17 PM PDT by kearnyirish2
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To: Cronos

Yes, I would attend. I’ve never placed politics in front of friends and family and I doubt I ever will.


85 posted on 10/18/2011 6:07:57 PM PDT by Melas (u)
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To: Melas

This is not about politics, it is about good and evil, right and wrong.

My Father was the son of a Baptist minister and was brought up thinking the Catholic Church was guilty of all kinds of sins. When his daughter married a Catholic boy, daddy would not go to the weddding. Mother and the rest of us did go.

My Mother had and extraordinary love for her children even by Mother standards. I got to thinking about it and even with Mother’s love I know she would not have attended a marriage between one of her Sons and another man. I can recall her reading her Bible by the window every evening.

Fortunately she never had to make such a choice as her Sons loved girls and her Daughters loved men.

Interestingly my Father finally got over his Catholic Son-in-Law and thought the world of him before he died.


86 posted on 10/18/2011 6:43:14 PM PDT by yarddog
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To: rarestia

Just curious: did you experience any negative repercussions at work for not attending?


87 posted on 10/18/2011 7:58:43 PM PDT by ReformationFan
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To: fwdude
You have a rather filthy mind. This is a person who has been abstinent for over 40 years (as have I also, FYI). You make the grand and typical mistake that if a man doesn't “get off” on women, he is then a candidate for AIDS. Wrong wrong wrong dude. You folks seem to turn everything black and white, guilty or not guilty. You have a very shallow personality, and a huge amount to learn about human behavior.

Grow up, if you can.

88 posted on 10/18/2011 8:28:55 PM PDT by EggsAckley ( There's an Ethiopian in the fuel supply ! !)
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To: Cronos

That depends. Will they have a Cash Bar or not.


89 posted on 10/18/2011 9:07:18 PM PDT by tlb
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To: EggsAckley

So you would go celebrate two sodomites “wedding” and I have a filthy mind?

Give us a break!!!!


90 posted on 10/18/2011 9:47:19 PM PDT by fwdude ("When in the Course of human events it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve ...")
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To: Melas
I respect your opinion, but I don't see a Same-sex "wedding" as a political question, rather a moral and religious one. To me it would be the same as attending a man-donkey "wedding". I would not attend such a farce.

However, as I said at the start, that is your opinion or choice to attend it and you have the freedom and free will to do so and I respect that.

91 posted on 10/19/2011 1:12:46 AM PDT by Cronos (http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/religion/2787101/posts?page=58#58)
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To: Augustinian monk

he is right — we as a society have slowly accepted the homosexual lifestyle as “normal”, hence this question will arise.


92 posted on 10/19/2011 1:50:26 AM PDT by Cronos (http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/religion/2787101/posts?page=58#58)
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To: momtothree
I didn’t attend a wedding for a distant family member who cheated on his wife, left her with two small children and then married the mistress/girlfriend.

Good for you. I agree with what you did and I would do the same.

93 posted on 10/19/2011 1:52:43 AM PDT by Cronos (http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/religion/2787101/posts?page=58#58)
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To: Cronos

NO!


94 posted on 10/19/2011 1:54:35 AM PDT by chasio649
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To: se_ohio_young_conservative

Yeah...and i can’t understand why other people don’t see it....but used car salesmen still sell cars i guess.


95 posted on 10/19/2011 1:57:15 AM PDT by chasio649
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To: Mrs. Don-o

I agree.


96 posted on 10/19/2011 2:00:11 AM PDT by Cronos (http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/religion/2787101/posts?page=58#58)
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To: Cronos
I would attend... but anybody that knows me well enough to invite me to a wedding probably also knows that my mere attendance is not a stamp of my approval. It's more akin to simple acknowledgment of the reality of the relationship.

Same goes for divorce/remarriage and other relationships that I consider gravely disordered for one reason or another.

If asked for my approval I will honestly decline it.

This probably goes without saying but I'm not invited to many weddings these days.

97 posted on 10/19/2011 3:01:47 AM PDT by texanred
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To: stuartcr

Why the confusion, the question marks?

I thought my question to your statement was very plain. I’ll try again.

Homosexuality, which is a behavior, is wrong. Same sex ‘marriage’ seeks to normalize and or celebrate a wrong.

But you seem to be saying that IF that celebration of wrongness is within your own family, then, well, let’s go ahead and get with the program and celebrate it.


98 posted on 10/19/2011 4:40:22 AM PDT by RoadGumby (For God so loved the world)
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To: ReformationFan
did you experience any negative repercussions at work for not attending?

Not at all. Quite the contrary, many folks applauded me for not going. I really didn't know the woman, and she was sorta blanket-inviting everyone in the office. Many people went, but given that I was a newer face, they never missed me.

99 posted on 10/19/2011 5:17:04 AM PDT by rarestia (It's time to water the Tree of Liberty.)
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To: RoadGumby

You seem to be mistaken.

I didn’t say anything was right or wrong, just that if they were family or friends, and I was invited, I would go.


100 posted on 10/19/2011 6:17:17 AM PDT by stuartcr ("Everything happens as God wants it to...otherwise, things would be different.")
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