Posted on 03/10/2008 5:10:19 AM PDT by Gamecock
The release of a recent study that found Utah is the most depressed state in the country is leading to controversial questions about whether there is a correlation between depression and the Mormon faith. Ultimately, the reason behind Utah’s mass depression is unknown. However, Dr. Curtis Canning, a psychiatrist and former president of the Utah Psychiatric Association, believes there is a cultural factor involved, especially with Mormon women who may feel that in order to be a good mother and wife, they “have to put on this mask of perfection. They can’t show their tears, depression or agony.”
But Brent Scharman, a psychologist and the assistant commissioner of LDS Family Services, isn’t convinced there’s a crisis in Utah and the Mormon church. Instead he cites the fact that “religion is good support” that ”creates a positive network and helps people get through crises and deal with long-term problems.”
“Are there people who feel ‘I’m not living up to the LDS ideal,’ or ‘I’m not living up to my family’s expectations’? Absolutely, there is no question. But having done counseling outside the LDS community, I saw people there, too, who were depressed because of perfectionism,” he said. “I wouldn’t say it is any worse here than in more diverse communities.”
What do you think about Scharman’s point that the pursuit of perfection in any religious community can be a root of depression? Is this something you have observed in your congregation?
To whom?
To those who have ears, let them hear.
And to those who have eyes OPEN, let them see!
There are two ways to deal with responsibility when it overwhelms you.
You can run, reducing the stress, or you can stay and fight.
On things like marriage, I keep seeing stats about how people in Utah are more likely to stay and fight to keep the family together. [that is fight to keep the marriage together, not fight each other].
If you walk away from a hard time, you reduct the problems and the stress, and do not need the help the medicine gives.
Just an idea, what do you think?
Done both.
Staying, in the long run, is better.
Running does NOT remove the problems!
Staying is often more stressful, although the better choice. Running away does sometimes offer a temoporary reduction in the level of stress, but it seems to me to be at a great cost not only to the family but to the very core of the person who runs.
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