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Church growth conference helps pastors feel like miserable failures
LarkNews.com ^ | June 2005

Posted on 07/27/2006 8:04:46 AM PDT by Alex Murphy

PEORIA, Ill. — The "Bigger Church, Bigger Impact" conference wrapped on Friday, leaving participants feeling drained and dejected.

"I came here thinking my church was doing all right. Now I see we're so dinky and dumb, it's not even funny," says pastor Steve Irvine of Reno, Nev., who went to his hotel room and cried after each session.

Several faith-filled conference speakers shared how they grew their churches to tens of thousands of members with various ministry techniques. In the foyer afterward, many participants wore tight grins. Some broke down on the spot.

After paying $400 to attend the conference, pastor Ryan Delacourt of Eugene, Ore., left feeling "about three tons worse" than when he came.

"I don't know why I go to these things," he says, noting that his church has been trying to break the 100-member mark for twelve years.

After the conference some pastors hit the local Cracker Barrel restaurant to commiserate. Some vowed not to return.

"If I want to be this depressed again, I'll rent Apocalypse Now, or read my e-mails," quipped one. •


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"I don't know why I go to these things," he says, noting that his church has been trying to break the 100-member mark for twelve years

This LarkNews.com article makes for a good introduction to the topic of church growth.....

1 posted on 07/27/2006 8:04:47 AM PDT by Alex Murphy
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CHANGE TAKES TIME
words and music by Pat Terry
from his album FILM AT ELEVEN

That boy has big ideas
with his guitar in hand
He wants to change the world
but he don't understand
The things he wants to do are
more than quite all right
but he can't see that it won't
happen overnight

Change takes time
Change takes time

He stands so confident
behind the microphone
He'll barely make a dent
in hearts as hard as stone
I couldn't argue that
he's probably sincere
He won't face up to what
he doesn't want to hear

Change takes time
Change takes time
You always talked about
the answers, my friend
You thought you had them
But it don't ever work
that easy in the end
What can I say to
make you stop it?

Instant coffee
Instant tea
Minute rice
Express mail
Real communication
Responsible morality
Christian maturity

A dark and silent stage
The crowd has all gone home
He thinks it went okay
'cause they just cheered him on
Outisde the door there's so much
anger in the street
He's so unaware
there'll be a price for him to see it

Change takes time
Change takes time
Oh, change takes time
Change takes time
takes time
takes time

2 posted on 07/27/2006 8:05:33 AM PDT by Alex Murphy (Colossians 4:6)
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To: Alex Murphy
IMHO, these church growth seminars/movements are one of the biggest symptoms of the sickness of the American church. Our focus seems so off the mark of what the Lord taught us.
3 posted on 07/27/2006 8:18:02 AM PDT by guitar4jesus (Black, Conservative . . . and I vote!)
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To: Alex Murphy
Before I even looked at the source, I figured it was a parody site.
"I don't know why I go to these things," he says, noting that his church has been trying to break the 100-member mark for twelve years

Time for a Scottish revival (where you take a church from a thousand members to two hundred).

4 posted on 07/27/2006 8:20:28 AM PDT by Lee N. Field
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To: guitar4jesus

Exactly


5 posted on 07/27/2006 8:22:52 AM PDT by ecomcon
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To: guitar4jesus
IMHO, these church growth seminars/movements are one of the biggest symptoms of the sickness of the American church. Our focus seems so off the mark of what the Lord taught us.

I don't disgree, but could you elaborate?

6 posted on 07/27/2006 8:50:26 AM PDT by Alex Murphy (Colossians 4:6)
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To: Alex Murphy

The disciples are arguing over who would be the greatest.


7 posted on 07/27/2006 9:16:04 AM PDT by shekkian
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To: Alex Murphy
"I don't disgree, but could you elaborate?"

From my experience, I've seen many churches that have so much emphasis on church growth that they neglect the real needs of the people. Some pastors seem to be in competition to have the biggest church in town or in their particular denomination. Having attended a few "mega churches," I have found that they are administered not much different than a small government. In other words, there are just too many levels of bureaucracy and delegation. Many of these churches have so many departments and programs, there seems to me to be too little focus on fellowship and personal relationships that are so important to developing mature Christians
The other thing that I notice in the "mega churches" is the tendency to try to include gimmicks to attract as many people as possible. These gimmicks can include music styles, Starbucks, restaurants, bookstores, concerts, etc. These things can exist and are not evil in and of themselves (though I'm not so sure about Starbucks,) but I wonder more about the heart and goals of the pastors. If they are just trying to entertain the masses, then I believe this is in error

Anyway, that's just some of the things I wonder about.

8 posted on 07/27/2006 9:23:16 AM PDT by guitar4jesus (Black, Conservative . . . and I vote!)
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To: Lee N. Field
"Before I even looked at the source, I figured it was a parody site."

Hey, I didn't even realize it was Lark!
Shame on me!

But I still get concerned about some of these church "movements."

9 posted on 07/27/2006 9:25:42 AM PDT by guitar4jesus (Black, Conservative . . . and I vote!)
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To: guitar4jesus
These gimmicks can include music styles, Starbucks, restaurants, bookstores, concerts, etc. These things can exist and are not evil in and of themselves (though I'm not so sure about Starbucks,) but I wonder more about the heart and goals of the pastors.

I completely agree, on all points - especially concerning Starbucks....


10 posted on 07/27/2006 9:41:36 AM PDT by Alex Murphy (Colossians 4:6)
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To: guitar4jesus
Many of these churches have so many departments and programs, there seems to me to be too little focus on fellowship and personal relationships

You just set up a department to establish a 'small groups' program, and hire staff...

11 posted on 07/29/2006 7:48:43 PM PDT by PAR35
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To: Alex Murphy

That title is pretty appropriate IMO.


12 posted on 09/05/2006 1:54:07 PM PDT by Terriergal (All your church are belong to us! --- The Purpose Driven Church)
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To: TommyDale

Ya know how Rush makes snide tongue in cheek absurd comments and then the Democrats go ahead and actually do it for real? This is kind of like that. Meant to be a satire piece but pretty much indistinguishable from the truth.


13 posted on 09/05/2006 1:55:26 PM PDT by Terriergal (All your church are belong to us! --- The Purpose Driven Church)
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To: shaggy eel; My2Cents; jumpdrive; Calvert Cliffs Cafe; RnMomof7; Cyrano; Manfred the Wonder Dawg; ...

PING!

Ya know how Rush makes snide tongue in cheek absurd comments and then the Democrats go ahead and actually do it for real? This is kind of like that. Meant to be a satire piece but pretty much indistinguishable from the truth.


14 posted on 09/05/2006 1:55:52 PM PDT by Terriergal (All your church are belong to us! --- The Purpose Driven Church)
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To: guitar4jesus

hear hear, brother~!


15 posted on 09/05/2006 1:56:42 PM PDT by Terriergal (All your church are belong to us! --- The Purpose Driven Church)
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To: PAR35

Ah another program... that'll fix it! ;-)


16 posted on 09/05/2006 1:57:19 PM PDT by Terriergal (All your church are belong to us! --- The Purpose Driven Church)
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To: Terriergal
Ah another program... that'll fix it! ;-)

Only after the proper committees have approved it.

17 posted on 09/06/2006 2:27:18 AM PDT by PAR35
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