I went to the Once Catholic site, interesting, especially the St. Anthony search engine! It's good that there is a place where lapsed Catholics can go and ask questions w/o embarassment or aprobation.
You post such interesting comments. Thanks for taking the time to do so.
Many parishes have classes now for Returning Catholics. I know of a couple of them -- Landings, Catholics Can Come Home Again, Welcome Home, Catholics.
At our church we use the series, Catholics Can Come Home Again. It is taught by people who came home after being away from the Catholic Church. Wonderful classes!
Many of the issues have to do with remarraige.