Posted on 05/28/2005 3:51:28 PM PDT by NYer
Dear friends,
Forgive me this personal request but I am exceptionally asking a small favor from you. In March, one of my cousins died. She was the last member of her immediate family and only 63. She died alone in her home.
Though raised in NY and baptized into the Catholic Church, she was living a more secular lifestyle in FL at the time of her death. Neighbors discovered her body and tracked us down through an address book.
Because of her untimely death with no immediate living relatives, her body was taken to the morgue where it remained for weeks until a Will could be found. She left instructions for old friends to arrange for her burial.
She had no funeral mass. This past Wednesday, her cremated remains were flown back for burial in the family plot. No graveside service was offered.
At the time of her death, I immediately made arrangements for a memorial service, including the 40 day Maronite liturgy for the dead. Tomorrow morning, at 10 am, my cousin will be remembered in the Divine Liturgy at my Maronite parish. I will be the only living relative present at this service and carrying up the offerings. At the conclusion of the liturgy, the pastor will chant a series of prayers in Syriac-Aramaic, for the repose of her soul.
This is the ONLY prayer service being offered up for my cousin, Germaine. If you can find it in your heart, I would very much appreciate it if you could remember her with a prayer tomorrow. Thank you.
Just as the passover was a memorial meal to be kept for all generations , the meal that replaced the passover meal is also a memorial meal .
A trip through the OT finds that God leaves memorials. The Lords table is a NT memorial ...it is so proclaimed by Jesus "Do this in memory of me "
Definitely my prayres for Germaine. One never knows what happens to people in their last moments - "between the saddle and the ground/ was mercy sought and mercy found."
Ping Re: Post 4
I will definitely include Germaine in my prayers, and God bless you for doing this!
Oh yes...prayers for Germaine going up.
First Apology of St. Justin Martyr 148-155 AD
Thank you! Her sudden death, alone at home, has truly wrenched my heart. Realizing that a Funeral Mass was out of the question, I anticipated and planned to have a priest present for a graveside service at her burial. This was not to be either. Tomorrow's liturgy was the only 'gift' I could offer up for the repose of her soul. Your prayers for her mean so much to me. Thank you!
It's a hard saying and many have walked away.
Will do dear FRiend!
Sad story...very sad. Have Perpetual MASS Said for her!! That's what I do when someone dies that is Catholic. I even enrolled my Jewish husband and my father when he was still alive!
My intention tomorrow (my 29th wedding anniversary) will be for your cousin along with a special Rosary during the day.
God bless...
Prayers for your cousin, Germaine.
Prayers at the Divine Liturgy tomorrow. I'll light a candle too, my friend.
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