Sad story...very sad. Have Perpetual MASS Said for her!! That's what I do when someone dies that is Catholic. I even enrolled my Jewish husband and my father when he was still alive!
How do you go about doing that? I know my Grammy did that for me and all of her grandkids, but I can't find the little booklet that came to let us know of our enrollment. She did this when I was about 8 and I'm now 34, so I have a feeling the booklet was misplaced.