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Drafting Our Daughters: Why do American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters?
http://covenantnews.com/trewhella030520.htm ^ | Matt Trewhella

Posted on 09/24/2003 8:21:32 AM PDT by xzins

 

In January of this year, 2003, a bill was introduced both in the U.S. Senate and the House of Representatives which would re-institute the military draft. This bill would not only allow the government to draft our sons however (as bad as that is itself), but it would also allow the government to draft our daughters into the military for two years.

Recently, I was listening to a Christian radio talk show discussing this bill. The question laid out to the Christian men was - what do you think about the government wanting to draft your daughters into the military for two years? I was appalled and amazed by the responses I heard. All of the callers except one thought it would be just fine for the government to take their daughters for two years. A few of the common responses given for such thinking were - “We live in different times now” and “The women wanted this equality, so it’s only fair” and “With all the government does for us, we should be willing to let them (our daughters) give two years of their life for them.”

As I listened to caller after caller, Christian man after Christian man, declare how willing they were to give up their daughters to the government for two years, I realized how far gone we are as a nation. When Christian men can speak this way about their daughters they have lost a godly affection for their daughters. When you hear this kind of perverse talk, American men have forgotten their God-given function as fathers.

What has made American men this way? Why do they no longer have a godly affection for their daughters? Why don’t they know how to function as fathers?

There are two main causes.

Number One: American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters and have forgotten their roles as father because the way that Americans raise their children causes an unnatural separation between parent and child.

This is seen from an early age. Many men have their wives return to work after their maternal leave time expires after giving birth to their child. So the child is taken away from the parents and goes to daycare. When the child turns four or five, they are off to the government school. Again, the child is separated from the parents, and this continues to adulthood. Most men send their children away from them at church too. They don’t act as priests in their homes and instruct their children in the faith, rather they dump them off on the church with it’s host of kiddy programs to supposedly do the job.

This bill would allow the government to draft our daughters into the military for two years.

When the child gets older, most men allow their daughters to date. They send them away with a young man alone, rather than establishing some form of godly courtship, hence denying their role as protector. Finally, most men want their daughters out of the house once they turn eighteen. Most do so by sending their daughters away to the university.

This is how most American men raise their children and rule their homes. This is how most Christian men raise their children and rule their homes. My point is that this causes an unnatural separation between parent and child. Because of the separation which has been occurring since a young age and throughout the child’s life, it is easy for a man to say - “With all the government does for us, of course I’m willing to let them have my daughter for two years.” It’s easy because he’s already been separated from her all his life!

Number Two: American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters and have forgotten their roles as father because the State has become father.

Men are to be providers, protectors, and priests to their homes. Most men no longer know or exercise these roles as father because the State has assumed the role of father. Herbert Schlossberg, in his book Idols for Destruction, best defines my assertion here. Schlossberg states:

Rulers have ever been tempted to play the role of father to their people. The father is the symbol not only of authority but also of provision. “Our Father who art in heaven...Give us this day our daily bread” (Mt.6:9,11). Looking to the State for sustenance is a cultic act [an act of worship]; we learn to expect food from parents, and when we regard the State as the source of physical provision we render to it the obeisance of idolatry. The crowds who had fed on the multiplied loaves and fishes were ready to receive Christ as their ruler, not because of who He was but because of the provision. John Howard Yoder has rightly interpreted that scene: “The distribution of the bread moved the crowd to acclaim Jesus as the new Moses, the provider, the Welfare King whom they had been waiting for.”

This statement by Schlossberg encapsulates what I mean when I say the State has become father. Men no longer know what it means to be men or fathers anymore because the State has become father. They’re still dependent little boys who’ve never grown up. All is taken care of for them. They’ve never learned what responsibility means because the State takes care of every desire, whim and need. Men have a duty as fathers to be providers, protectors, and priests to their homes,

The draft is the ultimate expression and evidence that the State has assumed the role of father.

and the State wants to take that out of men’s hands and assume the roles of father.

Schlossberg goes on to state:
The paternal State not only feeds its children, but nurtures, educates, comforts, and disciplines them, providing all they need for their security. Once we sink to that level, as C.S. Lewis says, there is no point in telling state officials to mind their own business. “Our lives are their business.” The paternalism of the State is that of a bad parent who wants his children dependent on him forever. That is an evil impulse. The good parent prepares his children for independence, trains them to make responsible decisions, knows that he harms them by not helping them to break loose. The paternal State thrives on dependency. When the dependents free themselves, it loses power. It is, therefore, parasitic on the very persons whom it turns into parasites. Thus, the State and its dependents march symbiotically to destruction.

The tyrant Diocletian, Emperor of Rome, in 301 A.D., declared the State to be “the watchful parents of the whole human race.” The State wanting to take our daughters away and draft them into the military is the ultimate expression and evidence that the State believes it is father, and has assumed the role of father.

When Christian men allow the State to get away with this, they have abrogated their God-given duty and roles as fathers.





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To: xzins
Even some Christians suprise me. In this country so many have bought into the mantra of equality in everything that they sometimes have problems telling the difference between right and wrong.
61 posted on 09/24/2003 9:58:23 AM PDT by ColdSteelTalon
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To: pram
"The need to attach social significance and meaning to gender appears to be a human universal," they conclude, and one that "deeply influences well-being." Yet adults still stuck in the '70s sex role battles have for the most part declined to take on the responsibility of helping our children develop a powerful pro-social meaning for masculinity and femininity.

An excellent article.

And true.

Our young ladies are hard-wired for nurturing and baby-bearing. Our young men are hard-wired to be the aggressive protectors.

Of their families.

Of their communities.

Hard-wired: it means to me that God made them that way.

62 posted on 09/24/2003 10:00:55 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: xzins
So, it's despite what society is currently saying that I maintain that our daughters are uniquely designed by God to be the bearers of our children and the nurturers of our next generation.

You should also recognize they are simultaneously the most inveterate of killers of that next generation. The vast majority I've ever watched are more committed to their desires than any form of principle or ethics. I've said, ad nauseum, around here...the only difference between most pro-life women and most pro-choice women is their view on abortion. That is, it is the duty of someone else to make sure they are properly cared for, yet "others" have no business dictating how they should live.

63 posted on 09/24/2003 10:06:43 AM PDT by Woahhs
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To: Dr. Eckleburg
I believe my comment was military service...that doesn't mean combat service. Plenty of women served in WWII, Korea and Vietnam in non-combat roles. The women pilots in WWII come to mind who flew non-combat missions for plane transport. They made d@mn fine pilots. I use that example due to the fact I love to fly, but I digress. I still think 2yrs of military service would not necessarily be a bad thing.

Red

64 posted on 09/24/2003 10:09:41 AM PDT by Conservative4Ever (Wm. Wallace did not cry 'diversity' while being disemboweled.)
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To: Woahhs
I'm talking about YOUR daughter(s) if you have any.

You want the best for them, don't you?
65 posted on 09/24/2003 10:10:32 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: Woahhs
But this is primarily due to the great job of indoctrinating them in liberal feminist crap the schools and media have done. Girls are indoctrinated from an early age in the religion of "I, me and mine" - be selfish, be aggressive, be competitive, fight for yourself against the horrible men and boys, only weak losers are stay at home mothers, a good woman is a hardass aggressive corporate leader or at least a bulldozer operator, etc. That no self-respecting woman should stay at home SERVING her husband and family. Girls - and boys - are encouraged to BE SELFISH and not serve others. Go for instant gratification - serve yourself, and the devil take the hindmost. After all, there's contraception and abortion so easy meaningless sex is de riguer - and this is also hardening the hearts of all.

So many women and girls are being told from earliest childhood to go against their inner nature, to kill babies, to imitate men, and that men are their enemies. This makes them crazy and hard hearted. Abortion is absolutely ruining women, it turns them from their nature as mothers into cold blooded infant killing witches.
66 posted on 09/24/2003 10:16:51 AM PDT by First Amendment
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To: xzins; Revelation 911; The Grammarian; SpookBrat; Dust in the Wind; JesseShurun; maestro; patent; ..
You all might want to check this link out and see what it says on this subject: http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/951286/posts
67 posted on 09/24/2003 10:19:04 AM PDT by SLB
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To: Conservative4Ever
Two years of non-compulsary military service for men or women (non-combat) is great.
68 posted on 09/24/2003 10:19:56 AM PDT by Dr. Eckleburg (There are very few shades of gray.)
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To: xzins
While I believe that the draft of men and women is a good idea, I whole hearted disagree with allowing women on ships with men, in combat, and in dangerous areas. There are PLENTY of behind the lines jobs to be filled that require little physical strength or personal courage or possibility of bodily harm.
69 posted on 09/24/2003 10:20:20 AM PDT by Blood of Tyrants (Even if the government took all your earnings, you wouldn’t be, in its eyes, a slave.)
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To: xzins
Wanting the best for my daugthers is in no way mutually exclusive with allowing the natural consequences of their actions to come about. I see no reason to maintain the pretense of "playing by the rules" when I'm deliberately circumventing those rules to sheild my daughter from her choices. The best I can do is make sure and certain they are fully convinced of my reactions to their actions...and follow through consistently.
70 posted on 09/24/2003 10:23:27 AM PDT by Woahhs
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To: SLB; Dr. Eckleburg
The Groom of Scripture does not hide behind the skirts of His bride. In fact, men in Scripture who hide behind women are roundly condemned for their cowardice (see the account of Deborah the prophetess in Judges 4).

This is a fabulous line!

71 posted on 09/24/2003 10:24:15 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: Woahhs
This culture allows children to do things despite the objections of fathers and mothers.

My daughters would be drafted over my active civil disobedience.

The would join over a serious, paternal admonition.

Incidentally, I'm a military retiree. I would just as soon our women hadn't been there.
72 posted on 09/24/2003 10:27:16 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: pram
What is it you actually hold "women" responsible for then? Claims of indoctrination would carry much more weight if it weren't for the presence of dissenters. Like it or not, influenced or not, there is a choice being made, and it is being made by women.
73 posted on 09/24/2003 10:28:58 AM PDT by Woahhs
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To: Woahhs
Being made by women who have been hypnotized since early childhood with pure crap from Disney, TV, and every day at school and day care, while mom goes to work and brings home different men at night. Obviously not all girls are raised like this, but since currently 35% of babies are born to unmarried mothers, and then a lot of the married ones divorce, it's an accurate picture of many.
74 posted on 09/24/2003 10:32:24 AM PDT by First Amendment
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To: xzins
I do not disagree with you, but playing with fire is it's own best corrective action.
75 posted on 09/24/2003 10:33:09 AM PDT by Woahhs
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To: xzins
The Feminist teachers in the "Publik Skool" system have turned them into such little bitches that their fathers probably can't wait to get them out of the house!
76 posted on 09/24/2003 10:35:11 AM PDT by Destructor
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To: pram
So many women and girls are being told from earliest childhood to go against their inner nature, to kill babies, to imitate men, and that men are their enemies. This makes them crazy and hard hearted. Abortion is absolutely ruining women, it turns them from their nature as mothers into cold blooded infant killing witches.

And you wonder why the men and boys who are forced to take abuse, by the system of anti-male laws, from these brats feel no remorse in wanting to draft women.

77 posted on 09/24/2003 10:35:33 AM PDT by Paul C. Jesup
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To: pram
In other words, their actions are mitigated in your opinion. Fine. I don't agree, but fine. So what is the level of culpability of boys raised in the same circumstances?
78 posted on 09/24/2003 10:36:32 AM PDT by Woahhs
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To: Woahhs
You are right about playing with fire. It is an excellent way to learn a permanent lesson.

I try to imagine, though, the parent who says he WANTS both his sons and his daughters to be eligible for a war zone versus one who says he wants only his sons to be eligible.

I accept my son being there, however tragic that might be. There's something within me that rebels at the thought of my daughters being there.
79 posted on 09/24/2003 10:37:14 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: Paul C. Jesup
No kidding. I would go even further, and say that we should draft ONLY women for a couple of wars. Why not? It was ONLY men who got drafted for war after war after war after war after war. Let the little princesses go out and fight and die for a change. Us men should just sit the next few wars out and let the women take up the slack.
80 posted on 09/24/2003 10:37:40 AM PDT by Elliott Jackalope (We send our kids to Iraq to fight for them, and they send our jobs to India. Now THAT'S gratitude!)
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