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Husband bars priest from brain-damaged wife
WorldNetDaily ^ | August 19, 2003 | Sarah Foster

Posted on 08/19/2003 6:53:57 PM PDT by yhwhsman

The husband of brain-disabled Terri Schindler-Schiavo ? whose continued existence is at the heart of a highly charged legal battle ? has barred a revered Roman Catholic priest from visiting his wife.

As WorldNetDaily reported, Terri's parents, Bob and Mary Schindler, have been locked in a decade-long legal struggle with their son-in-law over care and custody of their daughter, who suffered brain damage when she collapsed at her home 13 years ago under unexplained circumstances.

A contentious dispute over Terri's lack of care became a major euthanasia battle five years ago when Michael Schiavo, 39, obtained permission from a court to have a feeding tube removed so his wife would starve to death. Terri breathes on her own and maintains her own blood pressure but requires the tube for sustenance. An appeals court upheld the ruling, declaring Terri to be in a vegetative state though her parents present evidence she is responsive. Now they are trying to persuade the Florida Supreme Court to hear a final appeal.

Yesterday morning, Monsignor Thaddeus Malanowski of the Diocese of St. Petersburg learned Shindler-Schiavo's husband has barred him from visiting because of concerns about his "integrity."

Schiavo's actions took family members by surprise because Malanowski had visited Terri many times at the hospice where she resides. Terri was admitted to Morton Plant Hospital in Clearwater, Fla., Wednesday night to address an emergency medical crisis.

Malanowski served as a chaplain in the U.S. Army for 30 years, retiring with the rank of brigadier general. He left the service with an unblemished record. Despite being retired, he has been called on four times by Bishop Robert Lynch to run the parishes of priests forced to leave because of child molestation charges.

'No visitors'

The priest found out he was barred when he dropped by the hospital yesterday morning to see Terri. No reason was given by the nurse, except that his name was not on the list of persons Schiavo allowed to see his wife.

Malanowski told WorldNetDaily he had visited Terri Friday evening at the hospital, assuring nurses he was on a court-approved visitors list at the Hospice of the Florida Suncoast.

The priest said he gave Terri the Sacraments of Absolution and Healing as he had on many occasions. Before leaving, he asked the nurse at the reception desk to note his visit in Terri's file. He visited Terri again the next morning, Saturday, with her parents, part of an established family ritual.

Every Saturday, for nearly three years, Malanowski has accompanied the Schindlers to lead in religious observances.

"I say some novena prayers for her from St. Jude Thaddeus and St. Theresa of the Child Jesus -- her patron saint," Malanowski said. "Her parents share with her in the Sacrament of Healing. They respond with the prayers."

He said there was nothing extraordinary about his two visits, which makes the banishment inexplicable.

Malanowski noted a "No Visitors" sign now hangs on Terri's door, and he learned not even the Catholic chaplains at the hospital are allowed to see her.

"I thought every Catholic person has the right to the sacrament of the Church by a priest or Catholic chaplain," he said.

Asked if he had ever run into anything comparable, Malanowski said, "Never."

"I was in the Army for 30 years, and never, never in my life have I had an experience like this," he declared. "We were very ecumenical, tolerated each other, shared with other ministers and rabbis. I never came across anything like this."

Schiavo explains

No explanation came until yesterday afternoon when Deborah Bushnell, the court-appointed attorney for the guardianship, faxed a brief letter to the Schindler's attorney Patricia Anderson, citing complaints by Schiavo about the monsignor.

"Mike Schiavo has asked me to inform you that Father Melanowski [sic] is no longer on the authorized list to visit Teri [sic] at the nursing home in the company of family members," Bushnell wrote.

She said Schiavo claimed to have reports from the staff that Malanowski had "attempted to visit Teri [sic] at the hospital on his own" yesterday.

The letter continued: "He told the hospital staff that he 'has a court order' to visit, and that he is the 'court-appointed' chaplain."

It concluded, "Please let your clients and Father Melanowski know that Father Melanowski is not authorized to visit Teri [sic] at the hospital, the nursing home, or in any other venue."

Bushnell told WND Schiavo's action was prompted by requests of the staff, and she insisted Malanowski had misrepresented himself, as indicated in the letter. He conceded the priest was on the list of visitors Schiavo had approved, but maintained it applied only to visits at the hospice.

Bushnell argued a hospital is a different type of venue, because they're doing "medical procedures, and lots of visitors can interrupt those."

"Mike has, at the request of the medical personnel, restricted the visitors at the hospital to immediate family because of the medical procedures that are going on," she said. "He didn't want to interfere with that."

That includes barring a priest from visiting a communicant?

Bushnell claimed Malanowski tried to get in "by saying he had a court order to visit, which he does not, and describing himself as a court-appointed chaplain, which he isn't."

"They told him, sorry, family members only, and later they found him in the room with Terri and they had to escort him out," said Bushnell. "That kind of behavior in a volatile situation is not the kind of thing that we really need."

Bushnell said the ban was extended to other venues because if Malanowski "would misrepresent himself in order to gain access to visit Terri, Mike felt that it was inappropriate for him, at least at this point, to be on the visitors list to visit her anywhere."

She added that could change, "but at this point Mike is concerned about Father Malanowski's integrity and his willingness to misrepresent himself in order to gain access to her room. He felt that that's not the kind of person that he wanted visiting Terri or that he felt comfortable visiting Terri."

Conflicting stories

Malinowski emphatically denies he slipped into Terri's room and had to be escorted out.

"That's not true!" he exclaimed. "[The nurse] told me to sit down on a chair near the area where they work. I was about 30 or 40 feet away. When she told me I wasn't on the list, I got up and left. I did not go back. I did not go into Terri's room."

The monsignor insisted he had been very calm and gentle with the nurse, "and she was very calm and gentle with me. She said, 'There's nothing I can do. We can only go by the names on the list, and your name is not on the list.'"

Attorney Anderson said the directive barring the monsignor shocked the Schindler family.

"Frankly, I am outraged that Michael Schiavo has barred Monsignor Malanowski from visiting Terri and giving her communion as he has been doing for the last three years," Anderson said.

Noting the priest's stellar record, she declared, "There is not one bit of artifice in him. He is the kindest man you could meet. He visits Terri on his own time, just because he wants to do it, and he's been going there like clockwork for three years."

Anderson is particularly concerned about the impact this could have on Terri.

"Terri looked forward to his visits," she said.

Anderson said Malanowski filed an affidavit "describing how one St. Patrick's Day he visited Terri and told her he was going to sing 'When Irish Eyes are Smiling' in Polish. And she started laughing. She got the humor, she understood. Michael insists that she is so brain-damaged that she can't recognize people or anything -- but she loves Monsignor."

As Anderson's sees it, Schiavo is trying to make Terri's environment as "barren as possible, and as free from stimulation."

"I don't think there is any justification for removing spiritual comfort from her in what may be her last days," she said. "It's beyond comprehension."

Anderson said she will file an emergency motion to restore Malanowski's visitation rights and do away with the visitors list.

"Michael has proven he has misused his guardianship rights," she said.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events; Philosophy; US: Florida
KEYWORDS: catholiclist; euthanasian; murder; priest; terrischiavo
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81 posted on 08/20/2003 2:47:32 AM PDT by BlessedBeGod
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To: MHGinTN
BTTT!!!!!!
82 posted on 08/20/2003 3:10:04 AM PDT by E.G.C.
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To: kdf1
Hi kdf1, thanks for replying.

Yes, there is much more, if you go to Terri's site you can read the entire story. Of course, it may be a little slanted since it's her father and mother who are fighting to save the life of their daughter. I'm not even sure where to begin.

I don't even know what to write here. Her husband successfully sued some doctors for malpractice and won, but the catch was as long as his wife is alive the money has to go to her care. So for the past decade, he has done everything in his power to make sure his wife has not had a chance to improve. It's heartbreaking.

And he's her guardian. Terri's parents have tried to get the guardianship transfered to them, even to telling him he could have all the malpractice money, but he refuses. The husband has a dirty lawyer, a dirty judge, and a dirty doctor who have done everything possible to end Terri's life. Her life has been spared several times now only at the very last minute, but it looks like this time they're finally going to murder her.

Go to her website, the facts are there. They have a video you can watch, determine for yourself if you think she's a vegetable or not.

Personally, I couldn't bring myself to watch it--my heart is already breaking the way it is.

Sorrow

83 posted on 08/20/2003 3:46:41 AM PDT by yhwhsman ("Never give in--never, never, never, never, in nothing great or small..." -Sir Winston Churchill)
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To: nmh
Yea nmh, it appears to be for the money.

Many years ago, he sued his wife's doctors for malpractice and won. But the catch was, as long as she's alive the money has to go towards her care (hundreds of thousands of dollars). So for the past ten years he has done everything in his power to make sure Terri hasn't been able to improve at all (to the degree of not even allowing nurses to brush her teeth for the past ten years).

The husband has guardian rights. The parents have begged him to allow them to take over Terri's care, even to allowing him to keep all the malpractice money. But he won't give up the guardianship. Terri has been slated to die several times in the past few years, and it appears next Monday they're finally going to murder her.

Go to her website. The facts are there. If it's a little slanted, it's only because a mother and father are fighting to save their daughter. They have a video you can watch, decide for yourself if you think she's a vegetable or not.

Sorrow

84 posted on 08/20/2003 3:57:08 AM PDT by yhwhsman ("Never give in--never, never, never, never, in nothing great or small..." -Sir Winston Churchill)
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To: Diddle E. Squat
Not that I'm aware of. I know that a petition has been sent to him, but I'm not sure he has any legal power to do anything.

Sorrow

85 posted on 08/20/2003 4:03:51 AM PDT by yhwhsman ("Never give in--never, never, never, never, in nothing great or small..." -Sir Winston Churchill)
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To: Sandylapper
It started with the law (?) allowing the murder of unborn innocent babies for money, now it progresses to the murder of those who can't speak for themselves, is there a money angle here also, maybe the next step will be the murder of those who are not quite normal, who don't look quite correct, who do not have blond hair and blue eyes the list is endless and the slope is slippery.

I hope that her husband, and those who support him, lives a long, long life and suffers with nightmares of his wifes suffering such a inhumane daeth for as long as he lives.

I pray the our loving GOD wecomes her home with open arms to never know pain, sorrow, or suffering ever again.

GOG bless you, Terri.

86 posted on 08/20/2003 4:06:25 AM PDT by chiefqc
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To: sport
My friend, there's evidence the reason they found her in a coma is because Terri's husband beat the living snot out of her. But the judge won't allow them to investigate it. And it may be one reason why the husband wants her dead.

Go to her website. Read the facts. Watch the movie and decide for yourself if she's a vegetable or not (BTW, she's not on any life-support at all, the feeding tube was for convenience).

Sorrow

87 posted on 08/20/2003 4:09:24 AM PDT by yhwhsman ("Never give in--never, never, never, never, in nothing great or small..." -Sir Winston Churchill)
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To: MHGinTN
Life
88 posted on 08/20/2003 4:10:23 AM PDT by PGalt
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To: Canticle_of_Deborah
It looks as if Terri is on Death Row about to be executed by "cruel and unusual punishment" and no prospect yet seen of the Governor granting her a "stay".

What heinous crime has she committed to make her ineligible for the same process that might be granted to harden criminals?

Doesn't she at least warrant a "stay" until her crimes can be verified? (or a more "humane" execution?) /sarcasm.
89 posted on 08/20/2003 4:21:46 AM PDT by 8mmMauser
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To: oceanperch
Prayers for Terri. I think her husband is a complete scumbag. If it wasn't for the money, why would he not reliquish care of this woman to her parents along with her medical care money minus any expenses to this point? He even has another woman and a baby waiting in the wings, yet he is so damn greedy, he continues to hold tight to that 3/4 of a mil. SICK man, but if the allegations of spousal abuse are true, he never gave a damn about this woman to begin with.

BTW, I agree with what comes around goes around. Maybe not always immediate, but it happens. My parents have got their turnabout after 13 years(dad left my mother for another woman). Suffice to say dad's life is falling apart, so is his mistress/wife(yeah, he's with the woman he cheated on my mother with), and my mother's life is starting to be blessed after a rough 13 years after being dumped.
90 posted on 08/20/2003 4:32:21 AM PDT by glory
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To: Calpernia; summer
Thank you for the ping, Calpernia. Jeb has to step in with Terry's life at stake. If he hears, he will intervene...and charge her hubby with domestic abuse - at least, I hope!

jeb.bush@myflorida.com

91 posted on 08/20/2003 4:50:31 AM PDT by Ragtime Cowgirl ("We're ready and willing to get the job done." - Staff Sgt Paul Johnson, nr. UN bldg, Baghdad, 8/19)
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To: yhwhsman
This Schiavo guy is such a human turd. Lord, take him speedily to his eternal reward and save your servant Terri from the clutches of evil men!
92 posted on 08/20/2003 5:29:08 AM PDT by Hermann the Cherusker
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To: Tax-chick
If the parents allow this, they should be beaten. Some things are just wrong, but you don't have to just stand by and let them happen. If I had to, I would not hesitate to kidnap my own daughter to save her life, consequences be damned.
93 posted on 08/20/2003 5:43:55 AM PDT by Blood of Tyrants (Even if the government took all your earnings, you wouldn’t be, in its eyes, a slave.)
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To: Diddle E. Squat
Your name indicates what he has said on this matter.

Other links

http://www.terrisfight.org

http://www.glennbeck.com/news/07282003.shtml

http://www.glennbeck.com/news/08122003-1.shtml

E-mail:
Governor Jeb Bush
jeb.bush@myflorida.com

Write:
PL 05 The Capitol
400 South Monroe Street
Tallahassee, FL 32399-0001

Telephone:
850/488-4441
Fax: 850/487-0801

Contacting the White House

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Phone Numbers

Comments: 202-456-1111
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President George W. Bush: president@whitehouse.gov
94 posted on 08/20/2003 5:46:04 AM PDT by Blood of Tyrants (Even if the government took all your earnings, you wouldn’t be, in its eyes, a slave.)
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To: yhwhsman
Is evil truly going to win?

The only thing required for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing.

95 posted on 08/20/2003 5:47:24 AM PDT by Blood of Tyrants (Even if the government took all your earnings, you wouldn’t be, in its eyes, a slave.)
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To: Blood of Tyrants
Emails sent.

This needs to be brought to the front page of every newspaper in America.

This has been going on for years, and I only heard about it today thanks to FR! We cannot allow this to become a precedent!
96 posted on 08/20/2003 6:03:58 AM PDT by fawn796
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To: Ragtime Cowgirl; MHGinTN
I don't know if you got through all the posts. Thanks for coming by the thread though.

If you missed this one, please sign the partition: http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/966956/posts?page=75#75

I watched the video her parents took. It really looks like sometype of self inflicted autism. She reminds me of the children I use to work with when I was a therapist years ago.
97 posted on 08/20/2003 6:19:00 AM PDT by Calpernia (Innocence seldom utters outraged shrieks. Guilt does.)
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To: yhwhsman
>>>>. And it may be one reason why the husband wants her dead.

Especially since she spoke for the first time since the beatings here:
http://friendsofterri.org/audio.html

See the videos of here there too: http://friendsofterri.org
98 posted on 08/20/2003 6:35:40 AM PDT by Calpernia (Innocence seldom utters outraged shrieks. Guilt does.)
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To: yhwhsman
What convinced me the sob is dirty is his determination to kill her.
He must be connected to the judge in some way.
My gut feeling is that something is not right here
99 posted on 08/20/2003 6:58:24 AM PDT by sport
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To: Calpernia
I signed the petition, too, Calpernia.

Jeb must respond to this. Please ping me if you hear any updates.

Thank you.

100 posted on 08/20/2003 7:13:53 AM PDT by Ragtime Cowgirl ("We're ready and willing to get the job done." - Staff Sgt Paul Johnson, nr. UN bldg, Baghdad, 8/19)
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